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Im going to have sex for my first time im 16 and im ready to do it so do not question weather or not im ready thanks.
But i am kinda scared about the actually doing it cause one i cant even put a tampon in it hurts so bad so how do i deal with that?
and 2 are we going to have to get eachother off before we do it... haha i just dont want it to be horrible cause of me. (link)
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I recently lost my virginity recently so I can answer this from experience. Yes, there will be pain and it probably won't be pleasurable for you the first time and that is normal. It should be tolerable though. It started feeling good for me around the 3rd time. You should be a wet as he penetrates you as that makes it slightly less painful. When he gets off and cums that is usually the end of sex because men typically lose their erection after they have cummed. If he isn't a virgin just let him direct you. You'll know what he likes and be a pro in no time (: Good luck!
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Alright, heres the deal. I'm crazy about my cousins best friend. He and I text and talk all the time; well we used to. For the last couple weeks he just stopped talking to me. I used to be possitive he liked me, but now I'm not to sure. How do I make him like me again or even talk to me? ): (link)
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Well to me it seems like the only way you guys communicate is through texting which I'm not saying is a bad thing but after a while it could seem to be 'going no where'. I suggest you text him a few times and ask him to hang out or something. This could get things going.
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This weekend my neighbor is going out of town, and left me to watch her house. She gave me permission to swim in her pool, but I started my period today. I've always worn pads due to the fact that I am deathly afraid to put a tampon in, I don't like the idea of something being inside of me. and since I am still a virgin and have noo idea how to put it in "the right way" i'm afraid it will hurt.
I know you can't swim in pads. Is there something else I can wear besides tampons that will keep me safe from leaking in her pool?
and another question, does putting a tampon in hurt if you're still a virgin? and if I do decide to wear a tampon, how do I put it in "the right way"? I really want to avoid asking my mom.. *awkward!* (link)
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Really your only option is to wear a tampon. No putting a tampon in is completely painless. Read the directions each box comes with it is fairly simple. Use the regular sized tampons though to start.
Although if you don't have a really heavy period you could probably get away with wearing board shorts or soffe shorts as long as they are a dark color. But honestly, you should try to get over your fear because I guarantee you wearing a tampon will be the best decision of your life haha.
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Im about to go hang out with my neighbor who comes up here for the summer, we have made out a couple times and i know that if i go he is going to want to make out with me again:) my mom doesnt approve of me hanging out with him all the time because i am 15 (he is 16 by the way) so i dont want to get caught making out with him? should i go or not???
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If you want to go hangout and make out with him go for it! You won't get pregnant like the other answer said as long as all you two or interested in is making out. If you want to do more well that is for you to decide if you are ready. You only live once so if you want to go out I say you should!
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So, i went from 18 to 16 and waited about three weeks. i finally got some earrings from a friend for free so i cleaned them off and then put them in my ear. turns out, they're 12's. so i skipped. i dont think its that bad. its only one small size. how long should i wait before i put 8s in ?
i know its based on pain and stuff.. but on a normal basis.
i do not want to wait 6 weeks. thats just not gonna happen unless i feel pain.
do i wait two to three weeks ?
when you're stretching up a size, if you use a horn taper, is it normal to feel the gauge stop in your ear? and it wont really budge with *the regular minimum force it should require* or is it normal.
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Well, did it hurt at all when you put in the 12's? If not or the pain was minimum don't worry about it. You should go to 10g before you go to 8g though. But if you do decide to skip sizes again. I'd say wait about a month. Waiting really does pay off in the end. Trust me! While you are stretching if there is blood stop! and put in the size plug you were currently at and wait a couple weeks to try again. It shouldn't be unbearably painful. Listen to your body and don't rush it.
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Ok so at school me and my friend are planning a project where wer go to the middle schools and talk about teen pregnancy and about how abstinence is the best way to prevent it. Well we are trying to figure out if there is any kind of fun activity we could do so that they wouldnt get bored and just ignore wat we say. so does anyone out there have any good ideas?? (link)
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This was actually a Family Guy episode.. Lol. You should watch it.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prick_Up_Your_Ears_(Family_Guy)
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Is it dangerous to have a lack of iron in your body? If so how dangerous on a scale of 1-10? Can oyu die from a lack of iron in your body? (link)
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Probably not. But
bro just eat Fiber One bars. They are so fucking delicious. I ate like five once and I couldn't stop farting.
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ok, so I usually start my period around the 22nd I didn't start until today, I go to mexico in 9 days, my mom said it should be over by then but I was wandering since I started so late will my period last longer? or do you think it'll be over by the 11th? (link)
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It depends on how long your periods normally last for. But yes, it should be over in time. Since periods typically last 3-7 days. You should be fine(:
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Does Hayley Williams have any brothers or sisters? (link)
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Yes, she has five siblings. Steven (16), Jiana(15), Erica(14), Anthony(13), and McKayla(7). Technically, Steven, Jiana, and Anthony are her step-siblings though.
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i don't mean to sound cocky or anything saying this but when i go out, tons of guys check me out. i've been told that i'm a good looking girl. i don't just want to get checked out though, i want to talk to guys but its weird if you're just walking and you start talking to a random guy right? like some guys will come up to you and ask you a question or something but most guys just stare and don't talk to you because you're shy. how can i talk to guys? (link)
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Just say 'hi, my name is _______"! What's the worst that can happen? I know it's scary but totally worth it. You can meet great people that way.
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Well I post a comment on his facebook saying that he was an awsome friend and I love him lots. And the next day I get on Im unfriended to him. I text him and ask him. He doesnt know anything about it and asked his girlfriend about it and she was the one that deleted me from his facebook. I asked him why she was so mean to me. And he says that he doesnt want to take sides and just to stay away from her as much as I can. WHat do I do about this? I feel like Im a thridewheel and shes waiting to take me down or something. How do I deal with a crazy girlfriend? (link)
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They person below is right and did not deserve a rating of 1. Just because it's not what you wanted to hear doesn't mean it's the wrong advice.
Anyways, let's put you into her shoes for an instant. If you saw on your boyfriend's facebook some chick was saying "I love you!" wouldn't you be a little irritated. I bet so.
As to deal with the girlfriend, talk to her and tell her that you and your friend will never be anything more than friends. And you just have a brother/sister relationship with him. She will probably feel a lot better after that and stop being so 'nasty' to you. (:
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hello.....well im 13 and a female and ive had this crush on this guy since i was in year 5...the thing is that this year he is in year 11 and gay!! and im in year 8...ive always known he was gay (he does ballet and stuff) but everytime he walks by me he smiles at me and its like superly cool :p anyways he is also my brothers best friend....when i was going out wth my last boyfriend he would actually get jealous if i talked bout him so that means that liking someone else doesnt work... what should i do?? (link)
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Actually, the other person was right. Being gay takes a lot of sexual experience with both men and women to truly know your sexuality if you are questioning it. He may think he's gay, but he won't know until he's had sex with multiple of people. That said, go for him. Even gay people sometime fall for straight people and vise versa. Things can change. Maybe talk to him about it? Scary, I know, but it can clear up a lot of confusion. Also when he smiles he might just be being friendly. And a male doing ballet does not immediately mean he's gay.
In response to your feedback: I'm only fourteen. And I didn't say to forget about it. On the contrary, if you like him go for him! Or atleast, talk to him about it.
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This guy i really like asked me out but a couple days ago my parents talked to me about having a boyfriend at this age. I wanna say yes but what do i do about my parents???? (link)
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Honestly, you might not understand now but you should listen to your parents. They have already experienced everything that you are about too and they are just trying to teach you from what they had learned. I'm fourteen right now and I have come to learn so rather early. They really are trying to look out for you. And I would listen to them if I were you. But you probably won't, teens never do.(:
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which dress do you like best?
it's for 8th grade dance.
dress one:
http://www.carsons.com/product/juniors/juniors+dresses/party/jessica+mcclintock+juniors%27+strapless+taffeta+bubble+dress+-+red.do
dress two:
http://www.carsons.com/product/juniors/juniors+dresses/party/trixxi+juniors%27+stretch+satin-taffeta+dress+w-pickup+skirt+-+black-charcoal.do
dress three:
http://www.carsons.com/product/juniors/juniors+dresses/party/jessica+mcclintock+juniors%27+satin+square+neck+bubble+dress+-+iris.do
what do you think? any other suggestions? (link)
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also do you think if can alter the sizes? like have some make it smaller than what it is? (referring to dress two)
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k so i was a basketball manager last winter and i always see the guys with these tight undershirts on under their basketball uniform. theis undershirt is extremely tight and makes their muscles look bigger. the ones taht they wore were sleevless. are these spandex shirts or wife beaters? thanks (link)
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I think you're talking about Under armour.
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someone that I've been trying to impress for the longest time and I finally got him to talk to me the other day. There's all these rumors about him having sex with girls though and were only 15. And he even asked me for naked pictures. I finally sent 1. And now I regret it and I'm scared he might show someone, or it might get leaked out somehow. What do I do? (link)
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i'm sorry but the deed is done. there's not much you can do about it now. just wait it out, or talk to him about it. OR if your desperate get a hold of his phone and delete the pics.
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Well, I just moved to a new school and I am really upset about it because well, in my old school there was this guy and he used to live in my building and we were in the same class and were really good friends. We liked the same things and so on but i guess I started likeing him but he didn't like me back, now I am in a new school and I don't know if I should move on or wait because i really really liked him! (link)
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new school, new start. if i where you i'd move on. since you say he didn't like you that way i think you should. and it will be a harder to stay in contact with him. but you should stay in touch and really good friends. hope i helped(: but it's really about how deeply you like him. I would move on, but that's just me.
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Has anyone ever tried this amazing thing?
You can knock yourself out cold and see the future and the past. Ive done it and no im not crazy.
theres a ritual to perform it involves two close friends.
i wont tell you unless you ask me through answering my question
so if you please do,
ask me to tell you and i will. bye yall (link)
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that's awesome! how do you do it?!
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okay so this is not a question but i just wonted to say a big thankyou to advicenators and all the people who have gave me advice its been very useful to me and im very greatful. thankyou all xxx (link)
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i totally agree. like this is the one place where people actually give helpful advice. and they are so nice too.
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Do they like being called baby, sweetie, sweetheart ect.?
Just curious.
Haha
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There name? Studmuffin?
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