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sex first time
Im going to have sex for my first time im 16 and im ready to do it so do not question weather or not im ready thanks.
But i am kinda scared about the actually doing it cause one i cant even put a tampon in it hurts so bad so how do i deal with that?
and 2 are we going to have to get eachother off before we do it... haha i just dont want it to be horrible cause of me.
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Best thing to do is take it slow, use lots of lube and stay relaxed. Its meant to be a special and enjoyable experience so if its too painful or doesn't feel right the first time you try stop and try again soon there's no rush :)
Its not as painful as you think it will be so don't worry! Normally it helps if you get used to him fingering you first and sex shouldn't be as difficult as if you wasn't used to it.
Remember to use a condom! Other wise enjoy, it only gets better!
Good luck sweetie
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I recently lost my virginity recently so I can answer this from experience. Yes, there will be pain and it probably won't be pleasurable for you the first time and that is normal. It should be tolerable though. It started feeling good for me around the 3rd time. You should be a wet as he penetrates you as that makes it slightly less painful. When he gets off and cums that is usually the end of sex because men typically lose their erection after they have cummed. If he isn't a virgin just let him direct you. You'll know what he likes and be a pro in no time (: Good luck!
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