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My bestfriends girlfriend is a female dog to me
Well I post a comment on his facebook saying that he was an awsome friend and I love him lots. And the next day I get on Im unfriended to him. I text him and ask him. He doesnt know anything about it and asked his girlfriend about it and she was the one that deleted me from his facebook. I asked him why she was so mean to me. And he says that he doesnt want to take sides and just to stay away from her as much as I can. WHat do I do about this? I feel like Im a thridewheel and shes waiting to take me down or something. How do I deal with a crazy girlfriend?
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They person below is right and did not deserve a rating of 1. Just because it's not what you wanted to hear doesn't mean it's the wrong advice.
Anyways, let's put you into her shoes for an instant. If you saw on your boyfriend's facebook some chick was saying "I love you!" wouldn't you be a little irritated. I bet so.
As to deal with the girlfriend, talk to her and tell her that you and your friend will never be anything more than friends. And you just have a brother/sister relationship with him. She will probably feel a lot better after that and stop being so 'nasty' to you. (:
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Sounds like your friend's girl was overreacting just a tad, but was it really that important to go on his facebook and tell the world that you love him? You must have known deep down that this would be a bit aggravating to his girlfriend. Basically, you're guy friend got a girlfriend so it's time to stop flirting with him in the little ways you used to. It used to be harmless because there was no one there to witness it (like the proverbial tree in the forest) but now there's someone there, and the flirting has become very harmful and noticed.
So basically, you're the one who needs to change if you want to keep a healthy relationship with your "friend".
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