My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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Hi there,
In regards to:
"omg so i posted the same question!! im sorry! get over it! and no i haven't really hungout with her! please stop bitching at me! i m not hanging out with here anymore!"
... Do you remember the 99cent store woman? She would post the same questions over again, and never listen to any advice she was given. She was eventually removed from the site, but it was a huge deal at the time because people felt like their efforts were wasted when they wrote to her and she just tuned everybody out.
I didn't know why you kept posting these, so even after our exchange on the subject last time, I continued to give you the benefit of the doubt.
Now, you posted it again, and I removed it so I didn't get another inbox full of "OMG!!! she is STILL asking this! BAN HER!" messages like I did the last time you did this.
Now, in your feedback, you say you don't even hang out with her... so, you asked this question purely to waste people's time? If you don't hang out with her, then there is no need to ask what to do about this, is there?
I hope you can adjust your attitude down a notch. You admit to wasting people's time by asking a question that totally doesn't matter because you don't hang out with her anymore... and you cuss me in feedback.
Think about this before your next reply. (link)
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i could care less about the 99 cent store woman! you've told me about her before. i asked that question because i wasn't sure what to do! i don't care what other people are telling you. i don't need to take my attitude down the notch, when i just wanted an answer. I am not wasting anyone's time, i really don't get why this is such a big issue, because even when i ask a question about something totally different people are rude to me. And obviously you don't care, so i decided to just post it on another website. and fyi i went on vacation so i haven't hung out with her. I only hung out with her once after college station so don't sit there and tell me i am wasting everyone's time.
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mmmm...my priod started and i heard dat after periods starts hair starts producing on our under arms but on my underarms there is actually no hair!! IS IT REALLY NORMAL?? (link)
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Yes it's perfectly normal. Just because you got your period doesn't mean you'll get armpit hair right after. You should feel lucky because you won't have to shave for a while. Well i hope i helped.
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i have braces and i was wondering if the dermal monroe witch is the one that doesnt go all the wasy threw your lip affect braces ? (link)
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probably doesn't, but you should ask the person who is doing your piercing.
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Will i feel it if a guys ejaculates in me?
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yes but depends how much.
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Hi there,
You have been here far too long to be leaving anyone a 1 for non-abuse. I hate to ban you over this, so I am going against policy and sending this friendly warning.
In case you forgot: NEVER leave a 1 without filing an abuse report on the answer you left it for. If it isn't worthy of an abuse report, it isn't worthy of a 1. Simple.
As for why people are losing patience... I don't know when it started, but it seems to me you started complaining about this person in the summer of last year. Just stop being her friend.
Take ALL of the advice that you have been given over all of these months and just do it. If you keep asking what amounts to the same question over and over again, people feel like you aren't listening. People get the hint that you will keep asking until they say what you want to hear, and that upsets people.
Remember the 99cent store woman? Case in point.
I will change your ratings, and I will not ban you this time. If it happens again, I will have no choice.
DN. (link)
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alright thanks for not banning me. and i am sorry it won't happen again. your right i am just going to stop being friends with her. and what 99 cent store woman are you talking about?
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Hi,
I have a query regarding Pranayama. Basically I am 26 years old and i recite mantras loudly everyday since past 4 weeks. So i recite a mantra as i exhale and inhale deeply to recite the mantra again with the next exhalation of breath. So my mantra japa is similar to pranayama. I do it for 20 minutes daily but i have observed that i get tired and my body feels choked with air and aches too. I have read that doing excessive pranayama can damage the body. So i want to know that was it okay to start with 20 minutes of pranayama or was it too much ? Have i harmed my body and can the damage be repaired ? Please suggest ways to recover any nervous damages or any other damages that could have been incurred due to this. (link)
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Maybe you should start with 10 min then increase the amount of yoga you do. If you still feel like your in pain, then maybe you shouldn't do it. I hope i helped.
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can anyone tell me where i can buy a suit/costume like isaac clarkes off dead space like off ebay or anything. it doesnt matter wat suit it is i will take any suit or even the helmet will work (link)
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I don't think you can actually buy that suit anywhere. i tried looking online but i couldn't find it, sorry.
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Hi I am trying to make a dvd using windows dvd maker but when I click burn it goes to 0.8% and then says "Cannot create the DVD"
"Unspecified error"
I am burning an mpeg dvd file and I don't know what else to make it work.
So my question is does anyone have any idea on how to make it work? (link)
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You could try using a different program to make the DVD.
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I'm 16/f, and sexually active with my boyfriend. I had sex two weeks ago, and my period's due next week, but I began spotting last night. I looked this up and I mainly found implantation bleeding as an explanation. It was brown. Today, just once I bled red and it kind of stung, like a UTI. If anything, a test would just be able to tell if I was pregnant or not by a missed period (which means I have to wait another week), but is it possible that I could have a miscarriage between periods? If so, are there symptoms? (link)
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Hey so i found this website that'll help you. http://pregnancyloss.info/symptoms-of-miscarriage/
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...or more specifically, can Hindu guys go to prom?Is there anything against them by going? (link)
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lol i am a hindu female, haha there's nothing wrong with going to prom. well i didn't really go but it was a a personal choice and i thought it was overrated. but you shouldn't let anyone or anything stop you from going to prom.
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Theres this boy I like, andI am not sure if he liks me we have a class together and I feel like it's so hard to talk to him. am the only one out of all my friends whos mom won't let them have a cell phone yet s it's hard to talk with him. But he is always looking into my eyes and heis really sweet, andsays hi to me at lunch everyday. How do I get it to the next level? (link)
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talk to him and just get to know him, flirt with him sometimes. i hope helped.
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Due to my own lack of trying, I was dismissed from college before I could begin my second semester. I failed four classes and boy was my father was upset, and with good reason too, of course.
He told me to find a new job or else I'd have no car, no phone, or Internet, all essential things for me, or I could join the guards and retain that. Not an option for me. So I found a new job, and I now hold down two.
But then, today, he said that if I don't work full time, which is impossible with two jobs, that I will be walking to work, which is also impossible as both places are miles away, and it is Winter.
How do I handle my dad and fix all of this? (link)
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you need to sit down and talk with him and let him know that it isn't fair he's making you walk because you can't work full time at both jobs. tell him it's not possible and i am sorry but i can't do what you want. the fact that he took your things away because you failed your classes is legitimate. you need to try harder. but talk with him and see if you can go back to school so maybe you won't have to work at both jobs or just 1. i hope i helped.
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i have not been able to sleep well at all. i take about 2 hours to fall asleep, and then i'll wake up about 10 times during the night, and then take another 10 minutes to fall asleep after each time. i don't like to take sleeping pills cuz they make me wake up in a haze the next morning, and i get up really early. what can i do? (link)
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you need to tell your doctor and see what they can do to help! I hope i helped.
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I'm really not the emo type. I'm a cheerleader, age 16 , and I sing and play violin.. but suddenly my dad has been acting like such an asshole to me. He yells at me over nothing. I could be studying silently and he'd yell that I was being lazy and needed to clean. Anyways, I have a swiss pocket knife I took from him when I got mad and never had intentions of using it. One day I felt like shit and he was going off again and I didn't even know what I was doing but I cut all up and down my one arm and I did feel better. However I need to stop. No parents or doctors or adults involved. I can't deal with them. Please help.. (link)
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you and your dad both need help. you need to tell someone because if you don't things will only get worse. Please get help cutting yourself doesn't do you any good. You need to tell someone, because eventually someone will notice the cuts on your arms. I hope i helped and you get help.
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i know its soon but my bf is 18 and valentines days coming up. we didnt get eachother stuff for christmas but i want to just send him something for valentines day. were in a long distance relationship. hes not very open about being affectionate and stuff and i dont think hed be into anything too "cutesy". and i dont really want to go alll out on this just a little something hed appreciate or get a smile out of. what do guys like to get as gifts? hes not at all into clothes or shopping and doesnt have any particular hobbies/things he needs. thanks. (link)
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The best thing to do is to ask him what he would like for valentines. Just say you know valentines is coming up and i was wondering what you want for v day. you know something like that and just see what he says. i hope i helped.
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17/f
i dont know what the hell happened to me but after like getting involved in a relationship when i was 12/13 of two years ever since im an emotional wreck. like i cry at EVERYTHING. and like its ruining the relationship with my current boyfriend like im just so over emotional for no reason. WTF IS WRONG WITH ME. I think i cry atleast once a day. Today i was crying because i missed my boyfriend and we just didnt hang out for a day HELP ME. (link)
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You should probably talk to a therapist. Because it sounds to me like your depressed.
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how can i convince my parents to be okay with the fact that i want to be with a 22 year old? they would not like the idea of it at all im seventeen i dont know how i can convince them to at least be okay with it. i havent said anything about this to them yet. (link)
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I understand how your parents feel. Try to get them to meet your boyfriend and talk with him and get to know and see how he really is like.
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About a year ago my ex lost his mother and then a couple weeks later his brother followed. And soon after that we ended up breaking up. I thought he had moved on because i found out that he was back with his ex girlfriend a month or two after we broke up. I was happy for him because it meant that she could help him cope with everything that had happened to him. We last talked in August and he was really rude so I never again tried to make contact with him until about a week ago he text me and we started talking again it was fine for a couple of days he seemed like his old self until a couple days ago he starts getting really depressed about his mom and brother and I try to talk to him and he shuts me out... But heres the thing he was with his ex for 7 months after his mom died how come he could act so cold towards me but have a real relationship with her? I don't get it.. I want to be there for him but I don't want to get screwed around either.. What should I do? (link)
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I think maybe him and his ex have been together longer maybe and have a closer bond. You should probably leave him alone and not talk to him. He's been through a lot so that's probably why he's like that and maybe because he's not dating you or your ex and he feels alone. So just try and not talk to him and see how it goes. i hope i helped
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18/F
My boyfriend has been very depressed for a while. It's mostly because of the way his parents treat him. They're constantly pressuring him to go into the military (even though he doesn't want to) and they're always calling him a failure, an idiot, dumb, etc.
The other day I talked to his mom about how they can stop pressuring him so much and to stop with the name calling.
Well, last night my boyfriend and his dad got into a physical fight and his parents kicked him out.
What are some things I can do to help my boyfriend feel complete, happy, and worthy?
Thank you! (link)
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Even he's your boyfriend to be honest there isn't much you can do. Though you should report his parents for physical abuse if you think it was bad enough and if they do it often. You can talk to him and your parents and see if they'll take him in. If not then he can live on his own away from all that, find a job, and support himself. i hope i helped and hope everything works out.
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Im having the BIGGEST slumber party ever!
.. but i need ideas on what i can do!
so it isnt boring for one second!
x p.s please answer my other question its called "why do i look so bad in photos?!" (link)
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you guys could eat pizza and ice cream, watch movies, play games like truth or dare. you could google slumber party ideas and see what comes up. i hope i helped! good luck and have fun!
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