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Hey Guys.
My name is Meghan.
I live in Garden Grove,California.
I am 16 years old.
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I am always here to help .

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On this Hannah Montana episode, pause at 0:25 and look at Lily's shoes.

I LOVE them. Does anyone know the brand of them so I can go buy em?
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They're DC's.

You can find them cheap online @ zappos.com

They also sell them at many stores at the mall.

:)


Okay so ive worn a tampon a few times before. But every time i wear them they like leak alot. Is this supposed to happen? I mean im pretty sure i put it in right.. because I dont feel it or anything. But its like i have to wear a panty liner in my bathingsuit! And when I take it out, I feel like the panty liner is more full than the tampon. Please help! I'm going to get it next week and im going to be on a camping trip in maine at a lake, swimming and tubing and stuff! Please please help! (link)
Okay, first of all TSS isn't genetic so there's nothing to worry about there.
This used to happen to me all the time. What I did was check the box to see what size and I went up a size. Because my periods are extremely heavy,I have to use the Super tampons. If I go out, I will wear a tampon and a panty liner. So the only thing you should do is maybe go up a size. You shouldn't keep a tampon in for more than 6 hours. TSS is horrible. I had it because I left a tampon in for I believe 18 hours. I just got really bad stomach aches. By the way your period stops when you are emerged in water. So it will start again a few hours afterwards.

Have fun on your trip!!


Ok so I am planning on having sex with my friend and I'm a virgin. I am not on birth control (and there is no way I can get it so don't tell me I should). I need some good tips on how to not get pregnant. We will be using a condom of course but is that enough? Should he where 2 in case one pops? Anthing is good. I can't wind up pregnant or my parents will kill me (don't tell me not to do it either because I already made up my mind). Also, if you still haven't figured it out yet, I am a complete virgin. He isn't and I want this to be great for him (don't tell me to get ourselves checked either). How do I make it last and feel good (and by that I mean both of us having an orgasm) because I have heard that the first time usually hurts.

THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT CAN HELP. AND PLEASE HURRY BECAUSE THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY TIME. (link)
sorry, its late to respond.
Just use one.

and make sure he goes slow.



let me know how everything went


is it wrong to touch a guy's pants in that "area" [not like a handjob because there were clothes on] after knowing him for a few weeks? i kissed him a few weeks ago and then this happened yesterday.
honestly do you think its slutty? and if it is how can i kind of put the sexual stuff on hold an just focus on getting to know him better?
thanx (link)
No, its not slutty. It slipped.

He should be okay with waiting and all that. If not, break it off with that guy because then he might be using you.


I've just realized something. I think I have something against Hispanic guys. All the relationships that I have been in with Hispanic guys I found the guy to be too clingy, no mind of his own, and ALL of them have kissed me on the first date, extremely sensitive and take offense easily thinking everything is "their" fault.

The Hispanic guys I'm talking about are the ones who were raised by parents who bring the culture into their household (whichever it may be: Mexican, Brazilian, El Salvadorian, etc).

An important thing to note is that I have nothing against Hispanic girls (I have many girl friends who are of that nationality)

I just can't stand Hispanic guys as boyfriend material.

Am I racist? Should I be worried?

PS. I really truly honestly don't mean to offend anyone. (link)
No, you're not at all racist.



I assume you live in CA or TX. There's a lot of Hispanics in both states.


Well, many people look down on Hispanics because they're usually the ones that honk at girls walking down the street, they're usually the ones in porn shops and in bars and strip clubs.

I look down on Hispanics because of that. But then again I have to realize that ALL Hispanics aren't like that. Give them a chance.

It could work.

=]


ok im boyfriends 18 and im gonna be 16 nd lately ive been thinking hes like cheating on me or something cause he works out after school till 5 and we were suppose to hangout after sometime then and i asked him when were gonna hangout and he said ill let you know what time and im like ok and then like an hour passes and im like i bet you dont even wanna hangout with me and he got all pissy and hes like whateve if you think that then we wont hangout and im ok whatever and then i said sorry later caue i wanted to see him and he told me he would come pick me up after he ate and i guess he went out to eat but idk with who and im thinking its a girl.. but i just dont wanna assume things and then ruin our relationship and then he came and hungout with me at like 10 and im like um ok. and then today he asked me if i can hagout and i said maybe and he like kept telling me to make sure i let him know if we can. and im gguessing its cause he wants to do something else? and right now hes not talking to me and i know hes out.
and like the other night i saw like picture comments from gils saying oh i love you youre so sexy and stuff and i really didnt know waht to do
so i told him how i felt about that and hes no i love you and only want you fuck any other girl so im like ok i feel bette but lately i have this feeling and idk what to do
so help me pleaseeee.! (link)
Okay, I've been in this situation.

I've dated an 18 year old when I was 15. It works if you have trust. I didn't really trust him, so we broke it off. We got really scared because he was 18 and we would always hang out at night and in CA(where I'm from) minors aren't allowed to be out past 10. It's like our curfew. I think it might just be my city not the whole state.


Anyway, I don't think you should confront him but maybe tell your friend and have her confront him.

But don't make her say

"SHE THINKS YOU'RE CHEATING ON HER"


he'll most likely break up with you.


I think you should just try to make more time for eachother like the weekends


does anybody know, if you have unprotected anal, can you get an infection even if you are 100% sure you and your partner are clean? we have both been tested, and i think we might soon, so i'm just looking for the facts, should he still wear a condom? or is it ok? is it ok if he cums inside me?
any information would be very helpful!
thankyou! (link)
I might not be that big of help, but I've done research.

I've never been able to go through with anal sex because hurts like hell. Some girls think it's better than vaginal sex. I've tried anal and hated every minute of it. I would be very careful and make sure he goes slow because the tissues in your anus are extremely sensitive, you can catch infections.
It's best to use a condom.




i like this guy we have hung out a few times he's in one of my classes i have givin him head before and almost had sex with him i like him a lot he talks to a lot of girls but doesnt mess around with them hes actually still a virgin.. im not. he told me that he liked me but then i heard that he said the same exact thing to my friend a month back. before the first time we hung out he told me that he didnt want a relationship because he wanted to not be tied down to one girl.. i was upset and we stopped talking for a while cuz this girl got on him aim and acted like him and pissed me off. i started talking to him again after he appoligied to me.. i really like him and he told me that he likes me hes just afraid of commitment but then my friend told me that he told her that same stuff when he hungout with her a month or two ago .. he tells me that he doesnt like her at all they are over for sure because her dad doesnt like him but they were never dating.. what should i do? how should i act? (link)
This exact same thing happened to me!!
Well if YOU are the one that wants to be commited and HE doesn't then personally I think you should find someone else. On the other hand, still be his friend because maybe he will want a girlfriend when he feels ready. Kepp talking to him. If you have any other problems reach me at my inbox


i have sprint but i really want a juicy sidekick .. is it possible for sprint to activate locked phones.. and what about the sim card do i need one or not?

thankss (link)
Sprint has a phone somewhat similar to the Sidekick!

http://nextelonline.nextel.com/assets/images/phones/manufacturers/lg/lg_260_kit/lg_260_kit_thumbnails/black/LG260KIT_LPI.gif

It's called the Rumor by LG


I love a man (never married, not long realtionship) and he is the father of my child he pays child support but has seen the child only ten times in two years, what should I do? i want to let it go(child support)and move on. give me some advice. (link)
i have to agree with the person below me but it is a lot of money to raise a child alone. just keep letting him pay child support


is there a way to get an alert sent to your phone when a certain someone signs on your aim buddylist (link)
no, sorry.


does anyone know good songs that have like the paino in it?
like a rap song with panio,
orr
a rap song with a really good beat
like fort minor (remember the name) is a good one.

orr i also would like to know some good acoustic music would be great.

if i spelled anything wrong sorry,
thats not my strong point.
thanksss in advance (link)
immortal technique - dance with the devil


Can you go swimming without a tampon? Because I've heard your period kind of stops in water. What I mean is when your in water there isn't a flow. Because i cna't seem to put one in and I have to go swimming for PE class! Help! Thanks so much! And I rate. :D (link)
okay.
it stops but it will come back.
i was on the swim team and we barely had ten minutes to get our suits on and in the pool and we didnt have enough time to put the tampon in so a lot of girls went in without one.
it stops
but it will come back later on that day.



14/f/sophomore

okay so there's this girl that i know and i guess i have a little crush on her. she's 15 and in my grade too. you could call us friends, i guess? we've never really talked though. we're teammates on a school sports team.

and if that isnt weird enough i have the smallest thing for another girl. she's on the team too.

um..i guess im asking is this normal? and will it go away? i dont think i want to be a you-know-what..

thanks (link)
yah sweetie.
its just your hormones.
you're not lesbian or anything.
just Bi-CURIOUS !
a lot of girls go through it but are too lame to admit it.
i went through that stage a long time ago.
and i discovered myself straight :D


I really want a peace sign necklace or charm.
I bought one at spencer's today but it's too big.
I want a fairly cheap one...
Anyone know where to get one? Thanks!
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my friend got one at the 99 cent store.
but try a party supply store .


i dont get this aim version. i just recently got it and i made my font white but when i talk to people it looks grey. at one point it did look white but i was messing around with the font colors and i dont understand why the color keeps changing!! (link)
it just does that
theres no way to make it white


15/f

im a freshman in a secondary school. i've been going to public schools my whole life and now recently i am thinking about going to a catholic school. there is so much drama at my school and everyone there is so immature and the guys are really into the slutty girls and i am getting sick of it.

is catholic school really as bad as the people there say it is? is there a lot of drama? what are the guys like there? anyone who has been there can you please give me some background info on it; or if you've been to both public and private schools which one did you like better? (link)
i have been to both.
first off i went to a catholic school for 6 years then my dad lost his job so the tuition was raised and we could no longer afford it.
so we transferrred into public school.
i think public school was the best decision of my life. we had the option of staying there tuition free, but my mom thought of it as a charity act, so we just went to public school. public school is fun,easier,cooler people,pretty laid back.
private school was way too strict and expensive. its not really worth the money. i mean you learn the same stuff in public school but they add a class of religion.
why bother spending thousands per month when you can get the education now for free?!

i hope you stay in public school.

I certainly will.


My boyfriend and i made a promise that if he didnt jerk off to porn i wouldnt drink. I told him that i didnt care if he did it in the shower because he wasnt looking at any other girls nakes...as you can tell im the jealous type not gonna lie. Well today i found out from 2 of his brothers that they have walked in on him doing it several times nd i made sure they werent just saying that. its like he promised on his dads like nd my life nd toher ppls lives that he wouldnt so i trusted him until today. it kills me when he does that not counting the fact hes been lieing to mealot lately...what should i do because his brothers dont want me sayin they told me so i dont wanan ruin their trust but i cant not say anything because its bothering me alot...what can i do to express my feelings to him about it without getting his brothers in trouble????

please help i really need it (link)
relax.
seriously
like its his body and he needs to fulfill his own needs.
just let him jack off.
he's been jacking off wayyy before he knew about you.


does figering hurt? it seems like it would hurt a lot the first time. or just in general? i know weird question but im really curious (link)
Hey.

Personally I think fingering yourself if disgusting.
but My boyfriend does it to me and it feels really good :)


it hurt like once, cuz he was going way too fast and his nail scratched me inside and it hurt so i screamed and i did cry.

but it feels good.

:)


i have somewhat short fat fingers..and it doesnt help that i chew off my finger nails..i'm trying to let them grow...but how can i make my fingers appear longer? and how can i make them appear skinnyer? or how do i make them skinnyer?
thx (link)
i kinda have short fingers and they look chubby
i get my nails done
;]
it works




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