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I'm Jimmy. You would love to be my friend.
I'm Jimi. I am 16 years old. I have alot of friends. I love all of my friends very much. I love my girlfriend Samantha to death. I love life and I try to cherish it as much as possible. I am a wide ranged musician. I study martial arts, mainly Taekwondo. I love music more than life itself and I would die without it. I go to Aquinas and I despise the kids there but most of the teachers are pretty awesome. I do not know what I believe but I believe in a higher power. I love astronomy and no I am not a nerd. I will fight for what I believe in till the end. I rarely give up. I like attention. I wan't to teach martial arts someday. I am an outgoing person. I can either be really loud or really quiet. I am extremely hygenical. My favorite foods are Crab Rangoons, Sushi, Dumplings, and Noodles. I am friendly for the most part.

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how exactly do guys like girls to shave their below area.? : )

uhh sticking to a buzz cut is fine, going bald might be a little weird I guess. A little hair is fine even if your planning on getting intimate. Make sure the shave is evenly cut. Keep the hair above area itself incase your planning on getting "Youknowwhat" from him.

Idk ask your lady friends who have sexual contact what they do personally they might help too.

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i hope this doesnt offend anyone. my family is catholic, but i live in a place where almost everyone is baptist. all my friends go to this one really huge baptist church. and i guess at this church they believe that catholics arent really christians and wont go to heaven. i know people have different beliefs and im fine with that. but sometimes people will say stuff that really hurts me. like once i was showing my friend and her mom my baby pictures and there was a picture of me in my baptism gown. and her mom started telling me how my church is wrong to baptize babies, and how shes so glad her daughter was baptised the "right" way. and then last night i was at a sleepover and there was this girl there that i didnt know. she asked me what church i go to and when i told her, she said "oh. well, catholics arent the strongest christians." there was this big silence and no one said anything for a long time, and i didnt know what to say. i dont blame people for believing what their church and family teaches them, but i dont understand why they have to say mean things that would hurt someone. and i dont know how i should react when people say that kind of thing to me. has anyone been through something like this? and how did you handle it?

Indeed it is not you who will be punished but them. Personally im flustered as to what I believe in regards to a higher power but we all know that one God. I say you speak back, tell them that they are the ones who aren't being christians. Let them know it hurts you and if they are christians then why are they hurting you. Jesus said love your neighborhood, and that you should treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. As for them they disgust me, personally I disagree with mostly all catholic beliefs like trinity and such but I fully respect peoples beliefs because who is to say who is right and wrong. Ask them "did god come out of the sky and tell you that you were right in what you say and think and do?, I don't think so and he didn't do it for me either" Christianity isn't about following stupid rules and holidays and most christians are sadly mistaken because an unbaptised, uncircumscied, unannointed, or whatever person will go to heaven or whatever it is that happens, as long they believe deep down in their heart in that one true God, the creator of us all, and if we follow in his footsteps and love one and another we will be saved. There is no way to know who is right and wrong, the bible is a puzzle who says what they interepret is right, no one can. They are sinners taking pride in themselves and boasting they are the ones at fault full of corruption and sin.

Let them know how hurt you are, and just how wrong they are in sinning in such a cruel way.

This disgusts me.

You are a good person and you don't deserve that kind of treatment from anyone.

Keep the faith, deny yourself, give up your cross, and follow jesus.

AMEN.
=)

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oh i got AIM ill IM you =]

Kk

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all of a sudden my kitten doesnt want to eat. like she doesnt want to eat her food at all. what should i do?. how can i make her est? and what are cats favorite foods that they cant resist.

Uhh A vet???

If it's not eating, it's not very brilliant to try to get it to eat something delicious cause it's not eating for a reason. Cats don't just purposely starve themselves like nicole richie.

Take it To vet. =\

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Ok. As a summer job I'm going to start baby sitting. I'm 15 years old and I have many recommendations. I taken 1 year of a babysitting/parenting class. How much should I charge?

10-20 dollars.

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ok so my gf has to work at school every day of the week and i want to go see her, but the problem is i dont have a ride. so i thought about walking, but she is very against it, even though i live maybe 7 miles away. i am used to walking long distnaces and i am willing to do it so dont convince me not to on behalf of that, i just want to know should i not do it because she is mad, because she still really wants me to come, and maybe it would be a supirise

I would go I think it's manup to do that haha.

Go for it she won't be mad, she'd go crazy cuz she'll tell you not to but if you do she will love it, just the fact that you did that just to see her.

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on your pictures for myspace, how do you put like another picture or an icon or something for a caption



type that in to your caption and inbetween the " " put the URL or web adress like www.advicenators.com or such

you can also right click a pic and click properties and copy the url

but again the url goes inbetween the " "

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Say if you wanted to dream about something specific, like a person or a character what are ways you could do that? Like what do you think about/do in the day so you can dream about something you want to at night?

Don't try to think about it too much.

Focus about it throughout the day and imagine yourself dreaming about it later that day/night.

Write it down alot. Keep your mind thinking that you wan't to have that dream and that you will have that dream. Imagine the dream in your mind and meditate on the thought throughout the day. Before you go to bed write down what your thinking about and what it is that you wan't to dream about, and repeat to yourself mentally and/or vocally that you wan't and will have that dream.

This might not work in one try, just keep trying, these are actual dream control techniques and theories that can work.

And if you wan't control of the dream when your in it the only way to do so, is to realize its a dream and use the same method by thinking about yourself dreaming at night and controlling the dream, prep your mind so it isn't fooled by a dream and tell yourself "it is a dream" before you go to bed.

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why is it called goodbye even thugh its never a "good"bye and it hurts?


That's a very odd question to answer since I don't know your situation. But if your feeling pain right now then I understand you.

It never is "good"-bye.

Unless you wan't them gone.

and you don't

Of course you know it's just something people say no doubt.

Everyone experiences loss whether its death of a person or animal, or being dumped, or just someone you love and need leaving from you.

I hope you feel better I really do If you would like to ask another question thats more in depth I would really like to talk to you.

If you have a myspace or aim i'll talk to you.

Just send me a message on here or post another question asking for Jimi's info.

ok? =)

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i know this isnt a huge problem, but i can't make a decision! see, my best friend and i joined a track team for the summer and we do long jump and hurdles. we practice twice a week and there will be 4 meets.

well my other friend is a dancer and she's in this big musical production next week. one of the dancers is sick, so my friend asked me to take her place. i really want to do it! but then i'd have to miss track practice all week and one of the meets. i dont want to miss the meet cuz there's only 4, and i need to qualify for state! and i dont want to miss practice either cuz then my friend will get better than me (i know that sounds stupid but im kinda competitive that way!). But the dance thing is like a once in a lifetime opportunity and i dont want to pass it up.

ahhhhh.... what should i do?

Wow thats a difficult one.

Well your friend could always find someone else to do it, maybe.

At the same time you wanna do it, so it depends I mean could you do track next year and still qualify?

If the dance concert is once in a lifetime and you really wanna do it then do it, because I'm sure you could find a way to qualify for state another year.

And plus doing that with your friends would benefit you and your friend.

Track would benefit you only I guess, well from what I see, and I'm sure you could make it up some other time.

But in the end it's all up to you =)

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This is long, I'm saying this now ..

Okay I met this boy, Ben.. its not that important but when we met we were sorta flirting but we only talked for like 5 minutes. so I told my friend to hook me up with him[as a joke/not really] and he goes Ben do you remember Melissa and Bens like yeah and my friends like do you wanna go out with her and Bens like well I dont know her that well && I dont like having a girlfriend and then my friend told him I just wanted to hook up[well texted him so I dont think he got it]

Well I IMed him, and well hes not too talkative, and he wasnt for awhile but then, we actually talked for a little bit about basketball and stuff.

On Friday my friend Lexi and I went to a festival, and when I first got there he went walking over towards us and then his friend said something so he went with them. Well my friend Lance is his neighbor so they're friends too, but I was getting boyfriends and dumping them? like fake ones ya know haha, but one told me he was cheating on me, so I went up to Lance[he was with ben] and said Lance your my new boyfriend! and Ben kinda just looked at me and said something to his friend and walked away, but Ben would keep walking real close to me, but not talk and then he'd look at me for a few seconds and walk away. So I finally went over to him when he was with my friend Lance and Zach. He starting making fun of my foot, cause I have really small feet. He goes "What size shoe is that? A 3?!" and I said "No, it's a 7 but its too big." Then there was this flamingo clawish thing, I'm not sure how to explain it, but he was being gay and grabbing guys balls with it, and then I told him to do it to this kid Tom and he was like No he'll get mad.. but I told him to just do it so he did and Tom sort of did get mad. Then this fight broke out and I went with Ben and Lance & Zach went somewhere else, and I asked Ben what happened and he said he didn't know, but he was going to get some girls with this thing[flamingo claw] so he went and starting grabbing girls butts. Then I was with some of my friends and[okay ben is right behind us] my friend jeff asks who do i like and then max starts yelling MELISSA LIKES BEN! and I was trying to convince him I didn't so I said I liked Timmy, and they let it go. Well right after that Ben came over and my friend Max was like Melissa you don't even have to get on your knee's cause your so short and Ben was dying laughing and was like oh thats a good one and I was talking about this bruise on my knee and Ben's like oh what were you doing?! and I just laughed and started talking about something else, then he asked if I was leaving with Lance cause they were and I said no and hes like oh okay peace.

I talked to him on AIM and I thought the conversation was pretty good, but I'm not so sure. I like him a lot, but I honestly don't think he likes me, well I think he might a little bit.. The reason I think this is because of my friends, they said if he didn't like you whenever he talked or walked by he would be with girls. Although whenever he wasn't looking at me he was with a lot of girls and they were all over him, but idk. What do you think?


ps. I'm sorry this is so long.

Seems like he's a wannabe player.

haha.

But I mean it depends I agree you should,ve told him you liked him rather than saying you liked someone else.

He might be doing those things to get your attention.

Just keep talking to him not like stalkerishly but as much as you can without it being stalkerish.

Get to know him and let him get to know you.

And eventually you'll notice if he likes you or not or if he might. At that point just bring it up in conversartion casually. Ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel.

yup yup. =)

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I'm kinda bored at my house.
I was wondering if you had any ideas of what I could do with my boyfriend. To distract ourselves from making out. :]

Things at house and things away from house. I'm going to dye his hair but not any time soon, so I'm not sure what to do.


We are up for anything really. To watching disney movies to taking pictures.. going to a park. I don't want to do the same things in case he gets bored.

Ideas?

Movies are pretty cool but make sure both you actually wanna watch cause if one of you don't it will end up with a makeout session.

Uhh go to the park like you said, and bring some snacks, and a blanket lay down and do some cloud watching, lol talk about what you see in the clouds, go stargazing its fun and romantic.

If you have a go kart place then go go-karting

If you have a laserquest or lasertag place then go lasertagging.

Make eachother lunch at your house.

Take turns making lunch for each other.

Play fun video games, not dude video games.

Play games like Kareoke revolution, Guitar hero.
If you have them of course.

Go for walks.

Babysitt together if you can set that up.
I like that one it's alot of fun.

Draw some pictures for eachother, play with some coloring books lol.

Lay down and listen to your favorite songs with him.

Be creative and be safe!

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i have major cramps and its killng me so bad.
what can i do to maybe release some pressurevor make things better

Are you on your period?

If you are CHOCOLATE.

And if you are a female with her period.

www.discoveryhealth.com

search it.

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My best friend can't stand to be single. She just moved to a new city for a job, so I know she is kind of lonely but she is fallen in with a guy who was fooling around with her very heavily while he was still with his girlfriend of two years. When I went to visit her a few weeks ago he didn’t exactly make a good impression on me. I was there for three days and I never saw him sober, I saw him give a lap dance to two other girls and cuddle with another, and although I was friendly and trying to get to know him better he didn't just ignore me, he was flat out rude to me. I have a hard time to believe he'd treat the best friend so shabbily (or do all the other jackassy things I saw him do) if he was really serious about her.

Now whenever I talk to her all she ever wants to talk about is how wonderful he is or bad-mouth his girlfriend. I'm sick to death of hearing her swoon over this awful guy and bad mouth the girl he is cheating on! Of course she is suspicious and needy. I wonder why she’d feel that way? Maybe because he is cheating on her!

My friend says I’m not being supportive of her and that if I can’t just be happy for her she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. Is there anyway I can let her know that I don't have a problem with her being happy with this guy but I'm not going to lie and pretend he is prince charming when he clearly isn't? Also, how can I explain to her that bad mouthing the girl he is cheating on with her is just plain rotten and bitchy?

I’m not very impressed with her right now, but she is still my friend...

She needs a reality check. Trust me at this point she won't listen she ignorant.
Sorry but its true im sure shes a great person but not all that aware.

So heres a reality check that isn't just some little buttered up way of trying to help you.

Make it so that she catches him in the act.
Let her know what you said. Ask her
"wouldn't you be needy or suspicious if you were in such a situation?"

Tell her she could easily be cheated on the same way by him when he moves and finds a new woman.

Love isn't a fairy tale.

Like I was saying try to make it so that If you know he's getting drunk and frisky, that your friend is near and you grab onto her and drag her to where he is like your life depends on it.

Your friend will be very upset no doubt, unless she really is an idiot which I highly doubt having such a smart and good friend such as yourself.

So be honest and supportive.

Let her see the truth and let her fall, and then be supportive and help her get back on her own two feet, she will no doubt be a stronger person.

Now I don't think any of my advice is top notch, on the contrary I think it sucks, but take it as you will. =X

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I used to live in Missouri and then my dad had a job transfer, so we moved to North Carolina 15 hours and 2 minutes away! omgsh and i miss my friends soo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My mom mentioned going back to Missouri to visit for a week or so. And i talked to her and said when are we going to drive out to Missouri to see everyone???? Then she goes well i dont know so we might not and we might. The only thing that is keeping us away from missouri is we are buliding a house and my mom helps out with the house.

How can i convince her to go to missouri? would it be cheap?
i need good arguments against the fact we cant go because i want to go SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad.


THANKYOU!!!
lovekenzie

oh wow thats a toughy, try to compromise with her, see what you can do to ensure that you go back to missouri, explain her that you really miss your friends and it would absolutely ruin your summer if you didn't go back for a bit, tell her you would feel alot better about the situation if you could just go back for a few days, any at all.

Promise her to help with the house as much as you can when you get back and follow through with it cuz it would be pretty lame if she took you and you didn't hold your end of the bargain which most teens don't.

Talk to her, sit down and have a conversation with her express yourself completely and be cool about it don't be dramatic about it I mean I know how it would feel to wan't something that bad but if you show maturity you might get something out of it. Be nice and speak to her nicely remember if you wan't something you have to give something and keep that in mind when talking to her and try to come up with a fair compromise. Other than that idk what to say >.<

Wow thats great I'm really happy for you =)

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name cool ska and punk bands?

Two words

Streetlight Manifesto.

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How can i convince my parents to let me get a trampoline? i need help

haha

I wan't a trampoline.

Umm do research on trampolines.

Show them pros and yes cons of trampolines.

Agree on a trampoline that is safe for you
and your friends/family.

Ask them nicely and when they are relaxed, and if they say no give it time.

If they say no drop it, and be extremely behaved for a while, do chores without being asked, ask them how they are doing, be extremely nice, but not suspiciously nice so they get what your doing, although they will know. They will probably see how bad you wan't it.

Let them now just how much it means to you to have a trampoline but be calm about it show maturity and you will hopefully see results.

=)

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How can I set myself apart as a singer? People such as Amy Winehouse and Regina Spektor have a distinct style. How would I go about developing my own... What could I possibly do that has not been done?

There really isn't anything that hasn't been done.
Music has existed since before humans have existed. Sounds have repeated themselves so many times and so have singers. Your best bet is to just pick favortie singers and mesh their styles together. Hum songs to yourself in your head prefferebly while showering and yeah I know it sounds weird but it's when your most focused. By humming a song (that isn't one already existing) your pretty much expressing yourself without having to know how to play instruments, it shows you what style your mind truly is when it comes to music, and then find words make them up cuz they don't have to make sense just find a rythm for the song and notes that fit in, you will eventually find your own style, and as with anything just keep searching.

I'm sorry if this did not help you but I am just trying and this is my advice which means it isn't necessarily right but as a musician and singer myself, it is what works best for me. =)

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I'd love to be linked to a site that can teach me the basics of guitar playing.

I haven't purchased one just yet because I'm not sure I know the difference between a classical and an acoustic. I understand that they both fall under the acoustic category, but hopefully I'm making sense. Physically, I know what makes the two different from eacother, but could you give examples of songs played with them that I would know of to figure out which I'd be happier with!
xThanks!

Well lets see classical can range from different styles in itself such as spanish guitar and such.

I would suggest going to youtube and typing in classical guitar to see what the styles and sounds are and at the same time to see just how difficult classical guitar can be.

I would say if your a begginer to just go with learning how play acoustic guitar, because it's probably gonna be easier for you and that way you can start learning classical guitar with ease.

I don't listen to much acoustic stuff but If you type into youtube "Dir en grey - Undecided" on this song listen to it at 2:07 minutes in it is more classical but still includes acoustic style for the most part Or "Dir en grey - akuro no oka" those are some sweet acoustic songs (for the most part) and dir en grey is an amazing and versatille band from Japan.

Oh and I almost forgot acoustic styles use more chord strumming which can sound beautiful and is where most song writting begins now a days as where classical ussually uses really fast fingerpicking and single notes which can be difficult for begginers but learning acoustic styles will teach you both slowly. I suggest Acoustic personally which is what I play as well as distorted electric.

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Yesterday after eating, I got very hot, pale, nauseas, and dizzy. Soon, my stomach began to bloat and all of my stomach muscles cramped up. At first, I suspected period cramps but this wasn't normal cramps and my periods been late for almost two weeks now. My stomach honestly felt like I was exploding. After using a heating pad for several hours, and trying medicines my stomach finally felt smaller but the cramps remained.

Does anyone know what this could be?

Wow I don't know my best bet is to maybe search it On http://health.discovery.com or call your doctors office. It could very well have to deal with period lateness. You have to take into consideration whether your sexually active or not and I mean any sort of sexual contact but either way you should deffinately see a doctor or a proffesional of some sort because it could be something worse as well as just a really upset stomach which I had for two days last week but I'm a guy so yeah. Watch what you eat, eat healthy things for a while try some light foods.
And again see a doctor ASAP.

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