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Can't make up my mind!


Question Posted Monday June 18 2007, 2:46 am

i know this isnt a huge problem, but i can't make a decision! see, my best friend and i joined a track team for the summer and we do long jump and hurdles. we practice twice a week and there will be 4 meets.

well my other friend is a dancer and she's in this big musical production next week. one of the dancers is sick, so my friend asked me to take her place. i really want to do it! but then i'd have to miss track practice all week and one of the meets. i dont want to miss the meet cuz there's only 4, and i need to qualify for state! and i dont want to miss practice either cuz then my friend will get better than me (i know that sounds stupid but im kinda competitive that way!). But the dance thing is like a once in a lifetime opportunity and i dont want to pass it up.

ahhhhh.... what should i do?


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jimmay answered Monday June 18 2007, 12:50 pm:
Wow thats a difficult one.

Well your friend could always find someone else to do it, maybe.

At the same time you wanna do it, so it depends I mean could you do track next year and still qualify?

If the dance concert is once in a lifetime and you really wanna do it then do it, because I'm sure you could find a way to qualify for state another year.

And plus doing that with your friends would benefit you and your friend.

Track would benefit you only I guess, well from what I see, and I'm sure you could make it up some other time.

But in the end it's all up to you =)

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