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does he like me
This is long, I'm saying this now ..
Okay I met this boy, Ben.. its not that important but when we met we were sorta flirting but we only talked for like 5 minutes. so I told my friend to hook me up with him[as a joke/not really] and he goes Ben do you remember Melissa and Bens like yeah and my friends like do you wanna go out with her and Bens like well I dont know her that well && I dont like having a girlfriend and then my friend told him I just wanted to hook up[well texted him so I dont think he got it]
Well I IMed him, and well hes not too talkative, and he wasnt for awhile but then, we actually talked for a little bit about basketball and stuff.
On Friday my friend Lexi and I went to a festival, and when I first got there he went walking over towards us and then his friend said something so he went with them. Well my friend Lance is his neighbor so they're friends too, but I was getting boyfriends and dumping them? like fake ones ya know haha, but one told me he was cheating on me, so I went up to Lance[he was with ben] and said Lance your my new boyfriend! and Ben kinda just looked at me and said something to his friend and walked away, but Ben would keep walking real close to me, but not talk and then he'd look at me for a few seconds and walk away. So I finally went over to him when he was with my friend Lance and Zach. He starting making fun of my foot, cause I have really small feet. He goes "What size shoe is that? A 3?!" and I said "No, it's a 7 but its too big." Then there was this flamingo clawish thing, I'm not sure how to explain it, but he was being gay and grabbing guys balls with it, and then I told him to do it to this kid Tom and he was like No he'll get mad.. but I told him to just do it so he did and Tom sort of did get mad. Then this fight broke out and I went with Ben and Lance & Zach went somewhere else, and I asked Ben what happened and he said he didn't know, but he was going to get some girls with this thing[flamingo claw] so he went and starting grabbing girls butts. Then I was with some of my friends and[okay ben is right behind us] my friend jeff asks who do i like and then max starts yelling MELISSA LIKES BEN! and I was trying to convince him I didn't so I said I liked Timmy, and they let it go. Well right after that Ben came over and my friend Max was like Melissa you don't even have to get on your knee's cause your so short and Ben was dying laughing and was like oh thats a good one and I was talking about this bruise on my knee and Ben's like oh what were you doing?! and I just laughed and started talking about something else, then he asked if I was leaving with Lance cause they were and I said no and hes like oh okay peace.
I talked to him on AIM and I thought the conversation was pretty good, but I'm not so sure. I like him a lot, but I honestly don't think he likes me, well I think he might a little bit.. The reason I think this is because of my friends, they said if he didn't like you whenever he talked or walked by he would be with girls. Although whenever he wasn't looking at me he was with a lot of girls and they were all over him, but idk. What do you think?
ps. I'm sorry this is so long.
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Seems like he's a wannabe player.
haha.
But I mean it depends I agree you should,ve told him you liked him rather than saying you liked someone else.
He might be doing those things to get your attention.
Just keep talking to him not like stalkerishly but as much as you can without it being stalkerish.
Get to know him and let him get to know you.
And eventually you'll notice if he likes you or not or if he might. At that point just bring it up in conversartion casually. Ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel.
yup yup. =)
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I think that in the first place you should've told Ben that you like him, instead of trying to make him think otherwise. Maybe you should tell him the truth. Talk to him on AIM when you tell him or in person which ever you feel more comfortable. Tell him that you dont like those other guys and that you like him. Say sorry that you lied you just were under a lot of pressure at the moment and you thought he would think your weird if you said you liked him, and you didnt want to ruin anything that could happen.
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all teenager girl can totally relate to your problem! you will TOTALLY get over ben, i know it seems hard but you will. tell him you like him! just be the flirting type! make it like your allready going out, then i knwo for sure you will be able to tell if he likes you! give him a longer hug then ussual, or when he does somthing good, give him a kiss on the cheek, make it OBVIOUS! and then you wait for him to ask YOU out! it seems ridiciolos but since you like him so much go for it. you mentioned ims alot, so at the end drop the "lylab" act and try hard not to be to obvious about the "i like timmy thin". if you tell ben's friends they might be able to hook you up with him! who knows?! its worth a shot!
hope everything gos good<3!
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