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Hey im jenny and I'm thirteen years old. I'm your typical teenager; I deal with school and home problems everyday so I usually have personal experience to the questions I answer. I love field hockey, photography, babysitting, and obviously giving advice. But dont get me wrong, I ask a ton of questions on here too. Advicenators is my answer to everything and I'm on here everyday so I'll answer your questions right away. I answer questions in every category so feel free to ask anything. I really like when people rate me and give me feedback so i know if i've helped. Thnx for reading about me and ask away =D.

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Age: 13
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when a female can understand that she had orgaism? is there will be any discharge like man? (link)
yes when a female experiences an orgasm she also gives off a discharge, called cum, like a man does. this is also the same discharge women have when they are horny and become wet.
hope this helped!


if you have butt sex can you get pregnant? (link)
we actually went over this in family living today in my Health 1 class. Yes, it is absolutely possible to get pregnant from anal sex, though it is unlikely. Sperm finds ways to travel through your body, and can get into your vagina even if you just had butt sex.


why is everyone so in love with the jonas brothers?
personally i dont like them, and if i express my opinion everyone yells at me and says "how can you hate them you don't know them" and my retort is "how can you love them you dont know them either". but anyways im so sick of being ridiculed for not liking them, and i just want to know what the big deal with them is? (link)
i know youve already gotten a lot of answers for this.. but every person who answered "doesnt particularly care for the jonas brothers." so heres another side to your question...

well disney really had nothing to do with me liking the jonas brothers. hah personally i think miley cyrus/hannah montanna is ridiculous, along with everything else on disney channel. at first i was skeptical and embarrassed to like them, but the more i listened to their music the more i really began to love them.

i really love their songs, and its refreshing to finally here songs NOT about love [year 3000, a little bit longer, hold on] and the songs they do sing about love, arent always about getting your heart broken or sex. its actually a breath of fresh air to hear something clean, without it being corny or annoying; and i think thats why theres such a big hype about them because people of all ages seem to agree. and as an added plus.. they are pretty hot too.. which doesnt hurt in the public eye =]

its perfectly fine not to like them.. but a lot of people do, so you cant ridicule them for that. the big jonas brothers hype is being compared to Beatle Mania, so yeah i guess they are kinda a big deal ;].


What is the best hair straightener? I don't mind if its really expensive. (link)
well i know theyre pretty expensive but dude if you want an amazing hair straightener than get a CHI! i have the glacier ice one;; itis absolutely amazing! it heats up in like 10 seconds and works perfectly on all types of hair! all my friends borrow mine becuz they like it so much! so if you want an amazing one; chose the CHI!!!


so i was holding my boyfriends hand yesterday and like i guess you could say he falls into the stereotype of punk.. and like he always wears arm sweat bands but on his wrist and it was moved up onto his arm yesterday and i happened to look down at his wrist and theres like scars .. i saw 3 on 1 wrist and then i looked at his other one and there was 2 does anyone think maybe this is just a coincidence?? or do you think there from cutting like im so confused and i really hope he didn't but like its just ironic how its there what should i do? i dont think i should address him about it but.. i just dont know ah help? (link)
Generally, some people wear sweat bands on their wrists to cover up scars from cutting [at people at my school do...] i guess it could be a coincidence, but i highly doubt it. though it may be awkward, you'll never know unless you ask him; and you do need to address him, because maybe its a cry for help and if you really care for him, you need to help him help himself so he doesnt hurt himself any longer. good luck with this whole situation =/



I have a skin allergy that's pretty common- I can't wear any cheap metal jewelry or it can give me a rash. I can wear silver or gold and any of that "sensitive solutions" stuff, so I never really have a problem finding jewelry. But my boyfriend bought me this really cute red choker with a metal clasp, and I love it, but when I wear it I get itchy red bumps on the skin the metal touches.

Is there anything I can coat the metal part with so it won't irritate my skin? I hear clear nail polish works but I'm wondering if there are any other options. Thanks! (link)
i have that problem to and heres what i do: i wash the part thats bothering me with this stuff called Witch Hazel- i use it to clean my face to, and u can get it at walmart or some place like that. sorry if that doesnt work for you though. hope this helps you out!



whats an orgaism? (link)
dictionary.com says- the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.


and microsoft word define says- the climax of sexual excitement, consisting of intense muscle tightening around the genital area experienced as a pleasurable wave of tingling sensations through parts of the body



I'm going sometime to get a test for food allergies. What do they do and how many days after will you know the results? (link)
i went for food allergy testing last year. its really simple. this is wat happened to me... first the doctor marked my arm with the stuff he was testing for (grass,cats, dust mites etc)then she took out about 10 little needles and pricked my arm with all of them (it doesnt hurt at all). about 2 minutes later, the stuff your allergic to swells up into a bug bite sort of thing. they go away a little while afterwards, and thts it. hope ive helped.



There's a dance coming up and I need a new dress to wear but my family's on a really tight budget right now so I can't spend like $50 on one dress.
So I'm looking for cute cocktail dresses that are under 50. And I'd really prefer websites that have an actual store too. Thanks. (link)
okay well i use Macys.com promgirl.com JCPenny.com and debshops.com. most of their dresses are $50+ but a lot of websites have sales a lot. if you go on google and type in "cocktail dresses" you'll get a lot of websites and like i said, a lot have sails. you cud take a shot and type in "cocktail dresses under $50" on google lol. well i hope tht helped =D.



What are some good songs that where there are duets between a girl and a guy. Not for me to sing, just to listen to. And please have them be kind of rockish. Not classical or too much lovey dovey. Maybe just a little. Please help(:

thanks. (link)
okay well here are some duets between a girl and a guy:

Hate That I Love You- Rihanna & Ne-Yo

My Boo- Usher & Alicia Keys

Its Your Love- Tim Mcgraw & Faith Hill

Breaking Free- from High School Musical
[actually any of the songs from HSM]

Runaway Love- Ludacris & Mary J. Blidge

Like You- Ciara & Bow-Wow

Glamorous- Fergie & Ludacris

Baby I Love You [remix]- Jennifer Lopez & R. Kelly

Love Like This- Natasha Bedingfield & Sean Kingston

Tu Amor- RBD

thats all i got for now. some are better than others but i hope ive helped!


Well im 15 years old and i was going out with this kid for the summer and we really liked eachother and when school started i broke up with him not because i stopped liking him but because my friends didnt like him and threatened to stop talking to me until i broke up with him..we jsut started talking again and he said he wishes we were still together and like we hook up and stuff and i miss him alot. and we both told eachother we like eachother alot. but theres this other girl..that invited him to go to the movies.. he told me about it, but he really didnt have to. he told me it was the right thing to do and he didnt wanna hurt me. and that she wanted to consider it a date but he didnt want to.. and with this whole situation i dont know what to do. he means alot to me. =[ and he tells me he wants to go back out with me its just so confusing... (link)
Well, if i were you, id go back out with him. obviously, you really miss him and care about him a lot and he does the same for you. from the way it sounds, neither of you are moving on in your love lives because you both still want to be together. and think about it, would you be happier if you were going out with him again? if the answer is yes, call him now and go out! lol but seriously you should do this if itll make you happy. as for your friends, they need to get over themselves. if they're really your friends then they'll be happy if you are. dont ask them if you should go out with him again either, this is your decision, NOT theirs and you need to do what YOU want, not what your friends want. so, id say definatley go back out with him since you care this much about him. hope everything works out!


16 f

So I just found out my best friend is bisexual . Ok bigg deal right? So why doesn't everyone else at my school see it the way I do? Today in school I sat with her during studies and heard people wispering all sorts of stuff and I overheared one person in perticular say "omg maybe that's her girlfriend" it just pisses me off how people are so sterolistic these days and judge one another for the stupidest stuff I hate drama I hate stress I try to avoid it everyday and now because of that once stupid person everyone is beginning to get the idea that I too am a bisexual and I certainly am not (not that there's anything wrong with being bisexual I'm just saying I wouldn't fitt under that category) and the last thing I want to do is avoid her or stop talking to her because I'm not that kind of person . How do I stop everyone from thinking this way without going to that last suggestion? Or how do I avoid all of this?
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Unfortunatley, you really cant stop people from talking, but thats their problem. thats pretty sad if they have nothing better to do then to talk about you guys. how to avoid it? since your a good person and you dont want to stop being her friend, the only thing you can really do is just ignore it. its gonna be hard, and its gonna get really annoying whenever anyone whispers because they might be talking about you, but you cant let it get to you. if those people talking about you think your getting upset because you hear them, they might think you're upset that "'they found out" or maybe you're "hiding something." i know, it sounds rediculous but thats how people are. anyways, just forget about it and dont listen to it. the sooner you stop caring, the sooner everyone else will. hope ive helped!


How do you use limewire? I just downloaded it and the songs I try to download say "need more sources" with zero progress. After I get something downloaded, how do I get it onto my i pod? (link)
okay well first of all, check the bottom left corner of your limewire program and make sure that all the bars are green [that means you have full connection]. okay then type in a song, and wait for all the songs to come up. then what you do is click the very first song [which has the most sources]. after that you wait wait for it to load obviously. when your song is 100% loaded, open your itunes but keep your limewire opened. then you click on the song in your limewire and drag it into your itunes limewire. and thats it. if you have any more questions, feel free to ask me =D.


i really need a super sad song [ not any oldies, more modern ] that has to do with getting your heart broken & being used. thanks in advance. (link)
heres what I got:

Unfaithful by Rihanna

Tattoo by Jordin Sparks

*Who Knew by Pink

Addicted & Welcome to My Life by Simple Plan

Because of You by Kelly Clarkson

Mr. Brightside by The Killers

Over and Over by Tim McGraw and Nelly

When You're Gone by Avril Lavigne

Cry by Faith Hill

Ts Been Awhile by Staind

It Ends Tonight by All American Rejects

Let it Burn by Usher

well i went through my itunes and this is what i thought were sad love songs. if you like them, i have some more, i just dont know if im on the right track.


What are some ways to lose weight healthy; because I don't want to go without eating or anything of that nature to lose weight. Thanks (link)
Well i asked a question liked this on here before but i asked about Taebo [the workout video with Billy Blanks]. everyone on here told me that it works really well and you see results. i wanted to see it for myself though since there was so much hype about it. i purchased Taebo Amped online and what do you know everyone on here was right! i swear i felt a difference the first week!

If your not into workout videos or dont want to buy any of them i learned that if you jump rope for 15 minutes a day, every day for a month, then you'll lose ten pounds that month! you better believe i started jump roping every day lol. running, jogging and walking all help you lose weight a lot too especially in the leg area.

obviously if you want to lose weight, your supposed to eat healthy. just like the rest of the world, i find that very hard not to eat junk food even though im determined to lose as much weight as the next girl. but i found that if you just cut out all the fast-food and carry-out dinners then thats a lot easier way to start.
thats all i got for now but feel free to ask me some more =D. hope ive helped!!!


Im 18 yrs old and ive never been a relationship..people are starting to wonder why and i dont know what to say. I just dont think im ready yet and im not happy with myself so why should i date when i dont even like myself. I dont know what to do about this and what to say to people when they asked why ive never been in a relationship..any help? (link)
hmm well here's what i'd do. i''d probably say something like "i havent found the right guy yet." a lot of people dont have time for relationships so that coud be another thing you say. as for not being happy with yourself, that's a problem. weather you've had 100 boyfriends or none you should still feel happy and like yourself no matter what. now i dont know why your not happy with yourself, but it realy doesnt matter the reason; its better to put aside your flaws and be happy with the good parts of yourself. but i definatley agree with you, yous shouldnt date until you are happy with yourself.

but i must say, kudos to you for being 18 and never settling for an unsatisfying relationship. i think thats awesome.=] well i hope ive helped!!!


ok i have a ton of questions.

1) which diet pills work the best?
2) what is the general price for diet pills?
3) where can you get them?
4) do you need and ID?
5) what are the worst side effects?


thanks! (link)
i know im going to get a bad rating for this, but i have to agree with the other answer, diet pills really dont work. they're a really bad idea. they result in bad side effects that can even make you gain weight, or get sick, or even become dependant on them. i know you're gonna hate to hear this, but diet and exercise are the key. if you really want to lose weight fast though, taebo is great and you see results in like a week [i did]. sry about not having any good answers with the diet pills though but i hope ive helped!!!


A girl considers me her bff, but I haven't talked to her face to face in like 4 months. I use her for my own personal gain when i need her, because she doesn't like her current friends and tries to get in with my friends so she thinks it'll help but she's getting way too annoying and I would keep using her but I cant because she is seriously always there and too annoying, how do i get through to her? (link)
i somewhat disagree with the other person that answered. personnelly, i wouldnt tell her that you were using her, while the telling the truth is the better route to take, being that bluntly honest to someone could really hurt their feelings not to mention hurt their self esteem. well if you want her to leave you alone, id say definatley stop using her. you using her is giving her attention and makes it seem like you are her friend. when she stops getting that occasional attention from you, maye she'll back off. but if she doesnt, ignore her a little. dont give her the silent treatment because that is really immature and doesnt solve anything. but dont make an effort to talk to her either. if she asks you something answer it, and have as little conversation with her as you can. by doing that she should get the hint. and besides if you're talking to someone who really isnt answering or talking that much, would you want to talk to them again? lol. its worked for me before =]. hope ive helped!!!


ok usually on periods i have weird cravings like i want jellybeans and hotdogs. but this one.. is just plain weird. like i feel really nauseous (usually i feel nauseous on my periods, and i throw up on one day of the cycle.) but i havent thrown up.. and i dont feel like eating. im afraid since i know i need food to survive. like 2 days ago all i could muster to eat was a sandwich w/ milk for breakfast and piece of cornbread for dinner. and water occasionally. and today i had another sandwich w/ avocado for breakfast and for dinner i could only have 2 bites of my spaghetti cause i felt so bloated and full. i hate it.. cause now my stomach and body kinda hurts.. i take long baths since they help.. and the tylenol doesnt stop everything. like i had a terrible headache yesterday and at random points of the day especially today i feel like dizzy and lightheaded. just out of it, basically. wtf is up with this? my periods used to just be all crampy, nauseous then throw up one day, and cravings. this sucks. any good explanations? 13/f and ive had my period since i was 10 (link)
i dont think there's any real explanation for this. but trust me i know where you're coming from. im on my period now and i've barely eaten anything more than some popcorn or a sandwich. i use advil, but as you said pain relievers dont help everything. what helps my bloating is heating pads and those hand massager things lol but they make my cramps go away. as for your nausea and dizziness, you might be sick. that sounds like a stomach bug on top your period [sry if it is tht wud seriously suck lol]. hope ive helped!!!


anyone know where i can find a necklace like this? under $10, please.

http://i1.tinypic.com/7w6lhzp.jpg (link)
well ive looked around online and here is what ive found:

http://search.ebay.com/peace-sign-necklace_W0QQflocZ1QQfnuZ1QQfsooZ1QQfsopZ3QQsaslcZ1

http://www.hippieshop.com/cgi-bin/gold/category.cgi

http://www.nextag.com/Jewelry-Watches--zzpeace+necklacez2702408zB6z5---html

http://www.peaceloveandme.com/mall/cat_jewelry_peace.asp

http://www.bizrate.com/necklacespendants/pendant-type--peace-sign/products__att564114--551888-.html

i know that none of these are exactly what you asked for, but i tried lol. and if you go to google and type in "peace sign necklace" or "peace sign pendant" and you'll get links to a lot of places. hope ive helped!!!




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