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me and my ex still like eachother...but problem


Question Posted Wednesday January 2 2008, 5:12 pm

Well im 15 years old and i was going out with this kid for the summer and we really liked eachother and when school started i broke up with him not because i stopped liking him but because my friends didnt like him and threatened to stop talking to me until i broke up with him..we jsut started talking again and he said he wishes we were still together and like we hook up and stuff and i miss him alot. and we both told eachother we like eachother alot. but theres this other girl..that invited him to go to the movies.. he told me about it, but he really didnt have to. he told me it was the right thing to do and he didnt wanna hurt me. and that she wanted to consider it a date but he didnt want to.. and with this whole situation i dont know what to do. he means alot to me. =[ and he tells me he wants to go back out with me its just so confusing...

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for3v3r_his answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:48 pm:
Given the only reason you broke up with him was because your friends threatened not to be your friends anymore and due to him doing the right thing when talking to you about that girl, I am assuming you guys had a good relationship. Based on this conclusion, how can you call those people your friends? If he was being good to you, what possible reason did they have to do that to you? Would true friends do that? No. You should go back out with your ex and if your so-called friends don't like it, it is time to find a new group of friends who accept you for you and for who you care about.

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saabio answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:35 pm:
I had the same problem. My friends never liked my boyfriend and they even stopped talking to me for a few months. I say if you realy like the guy, then go for it- obviously your friendsd arent very good.

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jenny13 answered Wednesday January 2 2008, 9:09 pm:
Well, if i were you, id go back out with him. obviously, you really miss him and care about him a lot and he does the same for you. from the way it sounds, neither of you are moving on in your love lives because you both still want to be together. and think about it, would you be happier if you were going out with him again? if the answer is yes, call him now and go out! lol but seriously you should do this if itll make you happy. as for your friends, they need to get over themselves. if they're really your friends then they'll be happy if you are. dont ask them if you should go out with him again either, this is your decision, NOT theirs and you need to do what YOU want, not what your friends want. so, id say definatley go back out with him since you care this much about him. hope everything works out!
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