Im 18 yrs old and ive never been a relationship..people are starting to wonder why and i dont know what to say. I just dont think im ready yet and im not happy with myself so why should i date when i dont even like myself. I dont know what to do about this and what to say to people when they asked why ive never been in a relationship..any help?
Just tell them that you want to sort out your own life and get it heading in the direction you want before you feel you can add the extra life stress of a relationship.
I agree that if you are unhappy with yourself that you shouldn't get involved in a relationship. You have to love yourself before you can truly love another.
You need to sit down and think real hard about your good qualities. What makes you a special, unique individual? Don't stress over your flaws. We all have them. Learn to accept yourself, and be proud of who you are.
jenny13 answered Monday December 31 2007, 3:53 am: hmm well here's what i'd do. i''d probably say something like "i havent found the right guy yet." a lot of people dont have time for relationships so that coud be another thing you say. as for not being happy with yourself, that's a problem. weather you've had 100 boyfriends or none you should still feel happy and like yourself no matter what. now i dont know why your not happy with yourself, but it realy doesnt matter the reason; its better to put aside your flaws and be happy with the good parts of yourself. but i definatley agree with you, yous shouldnt date until you are happy with yourself.
but i must say, kudos to you for being 18 and never settling for an unsatisfying relationship. i think thats awesome.=] well i hope ive helped!!!
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