I dyed my hair yesterday and i always straighten/flat iron my hair and i was wondering if its safe to flat iron it after i dyed it? would it dye it out? my hair is well conditioned so it doesnt look or feel dye but i was just making sure. Thanks!
Straightening your hair isnt good for your hair.But just about all girls do it..It shouldnt hurt your hair none.
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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do...
There are alot of mean people in this world, (Im one of those mean people) It sucks to be made fun of, and if you dont do anything to those people to cause them to call you names. More than likely they are just jealous,they might be jealous of your good grades, or just the way you are nice person.Theres no way to really stop kids from doing this, I mean you could tell the principal or dean or someone to talk to them and tell them to cut it out. But your 14 years old being a tattle tell aint really something you should be. Just next time one of them say something to you, be like listen Im so sorry that you dont feel good enough about your self so you have to talk about me to make yourself feel better. Let them know that they dont bother you (even if they really do) Because if you let them know they dont have any effect on your life ..sooner or later they will cut it out. Dealing with it personally to yourself tho, just know that you are a good person. And when they call you names just be sure to tell yourself they only want to be you.Trust me those kids have just as much of a hard time as you do in life. They all suffer from something just not everyone knows.
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Hello, its me again, i wrote you earlier about me liking a girl and how i saw her at work and stuff, and i am guessing you don't no who this is.... because the girl i like a little is you! and to give you a hint on who this is i will see you again at the skating rink for the all night because i don't have to work friday... i really can't wait to see you... maybe you can skate with me for real on one of your breaks! and maybe you can call me and talk to me before friday.
I think I know who this is, thats cool your comeing Friday night, I dont get off tho until like 1 30 in the morning. But I have a boyfriend now. Im not gonna be mean to you or anything tho, Im still your friend.
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i desperately need help to stop cutting.. im too scared everyone will judge me if i tell them, ive been doing it since i was 11 (now 16). i wanted to tell my best friend but i have already told her i got the scars from random accidents.. she has made jokes in the past about how they really look like self mutilation scars and she said 'i really dont understand how anyone could be into that.. 'i hate my life" *gestured cutting wrist. i was going to tell my teacher when he had a discussion with me on how i deal with emotions but i just couldnt say it. Theres no way i would talk to my mum because she would over react.. and i dont want to go to counseling because i heard they tell your parents.. how can i stop this by myself? i already write a journal, draw pictures and horse ride
I know you prolly think life sucks, but if you down set and think about it, things could be worse. Life doesnt always go your way, matter of fact it seldomly ever goes your way. Nothing is perfect, flaws are withing everything. You just have to realize that whatever it is your going through that makes you cut yourself, you need to just stop and think ONCE before you do it,Why, are you doing it, "Do you really let things get to you so bad, that you would inflict pain upon yourself?" Quit feeling sorry for yourself, no one can change what you do. Im mean sure they can counsel you, and tell you its a big "no,no" But you already know its wrong to do it. So in order to see a change, you have to be the change. Maybe you dont get it or maybe do, all you gotta do is stop being foolish, and thinking that things wont get better and that your life is horrible. Its really not that bad, when I read your question, I already knew that your life isnt half as bad as it could be, you mentioned "you cant tell everyone because your afraid they will judge you" That tells me right there you are known well enough that people would be concerned, also that you have a bestfriend (which you are scared to confide in ) And that you dont want to tell your mom which lets me know you have people who can help you around. But those people can only comfort you, and dull the surroundings that you dont like in your life and havent learned to accept yet, Your the only one who can truly change yourself. Goodluck.
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well on friday night i went to the movie with my best friend and we saw a scary movie, and well i was like leaning up against him and i would always hide my face in his hood whenever i got scared, and well his mom picked us up afterwards, just me and him, but we went with like 10 other people, like 5 girls, 5 guys, but they were going out and we werent, only 2 other people werent, so i walked inside and my dad was like, so which one was your date? and he was like hastling me all night. and then i went over to my best friends house on saturday and he told me that his mom was doing the same thing, and then she took us to the movies again that night, but this time it was just me and him, and she was like, "you know i think you guys should consider it because your really cute together" and personally i think so too because we both have brown hair and he's a tiny bit taller than me, and well i didnt say anything, but anyway we saw another scary movie, and i dont know how it happened but we ended up kissing? and my brother was there and he saw it and he got us a ride with his date's parents so while we were in the car his date was like, aw guys come on i swear you two are so cute together. well we didnt think anything of it. but yesterday i went bowling with my brother and we had to take our baby cousin so our other cousin who's our age went too, and my best friend called me and he asked me if i could hang out and i told him what i was doing, but my brother was like, "no you should go hang out with your boyfriend" and my best friend heard it, so he asked me out today, and in school we were hugging and we got in trouble?? but anyway i'm REALLY afraid we're gonna break up, i mean, he tells me he cares about me and he loves me and his mom has always liked me, but i dont know im really scared our friendship wont last. do you have any tips how i can get over this??
sorry its so long.
I know you feel weird dating your bestfriend, but think about he prolly knows you really well, you two can have fun together, and he likes you for you. Guys dont get any better than that. I know you prolly feel weird being his girlfriend, instead of just his friend, but that will pass if you give it time, cause you'll accept the fact that yall are more than friends. Sometimes you gotta give things time before you can know for sure it will work.But no matter what happens you two will prolly be friends even if yall do end up breaking up, but it might be awkward at first if yall break up.
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About since September, whenever I get my period the first and second day it comes down REALLY bad. So bad it's to the point I have to change my tampon (the super one) every half an hour so it doesn't go through my pants. I've been getting really horrible cramps and extreamly moody and emotional. My mom always tells me that I have to try to deal with it but it's getting out of hand. I can't take this anymore! I might see a doctor soon about but I need to know if there is anything that my doctor might prescribe me so that my period isn't so much of a hassle, or if anyone is like me and how they've dealt with it. Thanks so much if you can help me out!
Okay, first of all periods are a pain in the butt! But Im sure you already know this, I dont know what to tell you about your period being really heavy, but your doctor can put you on birthcontrol which helps cramps, and severe bleeding while your on your period. Thats the only thing I can think of, but your doctor knows way more than me, so.
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Ok for my birthdya this year(14) im going to have it at a theme park. I was only invite 5 friends intill my whole class some how found out.Should I tell them im not having one then invite only the ones i was gonan invite or ininvite all the girls, it really expensive and for sure we are going
HELP
I think you should just tell the people in class that your plans have changed for your birthday, and just let the 5 girls that you really want to go with you, go to the theme park. You'll have more fun because it will be less people, and you wont have to try and make sure everyone is haveing a good time, plus if your paying for everyone its cheaper on you. Happy 14th bday also.
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At school there's these rumours going around about one of my friends, and someone decided to ask her about them. For some reason she goes and blames me for spreading stuff about her (which i havnt btw) and comes up to me after school shouting and swearing! i tried to explain that i hadnt dun anything but she wouldnt listen, and now shes started bitching about me to everyone i know! Also, i bought her a bday present before we argued and i havnt given it to her yet. I dont know whether to give it to her or not!! i really hate the way shes being so petty and immature, but should i try 2 make things up with her (everytime i try to speak to her she yells at me) or just leave it?
Well if you honestly didnt talk about your friend, then yeah you should try and make her understand that you werent the one who said stuff about her. But your right about how she is bein immature she should just realize that whatever the rumors were it prolly wasnt true and she should just get over it. And stop blaming you, your friend just doesnt understand that you didnt say anything, and she dont wanna listen to you because she knows more than likely you really havent sed anything, she is she just being mean and tryin to find someone to blame it on. I think you should write her a note or something since you seem to not be able to talk to her in person (because she yells at you everytime your in person around her) And if she wont listen when you do get a chance to explain to her, or she gives you more crap. Than just stop being her friend because evidentally she dont care enough about you to trust what you say.. Goodluck
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I have this really cool friend and when i try to talk to her she just ignors me, and i saw her over the weekend and i mean she was nice to me but yea..... but she was at work so that might have had something to do with it, but i think i might start to be liking her a little bit and i really dont' no what to do because she really wont talk to me and i don't no if i will just be making a total idiot out of my self if i tell her that i am starting to like her a little. but what should i do?
Well first of all your never gonna know if the girl likes you back, if you dont tell her how you feel, dont be scared the worst she can say is she dont like you as more than a friend. And if you saw her at work or whatever she prolly wanted to talk to you but she couldnt because she is tryin to work. Because I know when Im at work, Im a grump because people dont realize I cant just stand around and talk I have to serve mean lil kids. ( I work at a skating rink lol) Hope I helped..just go for it.
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Ok. I'm interested in this guy that goes to my school he's really cute and he thinks I'm pretty but I am so shy. What do I do? Another girl is interested in him and I'm afraid if I don't do something I'll miss my chance. I really want to talk to him but I don't know what to say especially since I've only said a few words to him on a few occasions. Please help me!
If he thinks your pretty and you like him, get over your shyness, I would much rather feel dumb tryin to talk to him then... never talking to him, just try it, I know your shy and your scared but sometimes you gotta take a chance. Go for it what do you really have to lose ? Plus if you dont hurry up and try to get to know him that other girl is liable to move in on him, just try. Hope it works out for you.
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Since I was five and up until I was ten, there was a man that used to abuse me and my bedridden mother. Finally when I was ten years old, my mother kicked him out. A few years after that, I was taken out of my mother's house, and am now living with my 30 year old sister, and her fiance. Anyway, off of the background. a couple years ago, I had a dream that I would run into the abuser guy, and then I did! Nothing bad happened to me that time, but now I'm having nightmares about him again! I'm afraid, because the nightmares are worse than last time, and I'm afraid something really bad might happen. What should I do??? I know dreams don't always mean something, but it's been happening for three nights now. I'm really frightened. :O
Tell someone you trust (maybe your sister) that you are scared, and just be extra careful. But hopefully your just haveing nightmares about the abuser doing something bad to you because you had dreamt about him and then saw him. Just be careful. Im sure you will be okay.
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OKay, I want to put self tanner on my legs and arms, but I have a few questions (just for those who have dont it before...please!)
Is it safe to apply to arms and how do I do it w/o it streaking. Also, if I sweat will it bleed onto my clothes? And are their any other tips?
If I mess up...how do I remove the tanner?
I've tried it, its pretty, but its too much trouble, after a couple tries I decided to just stick to being a snow-flake... It is safe, its more dangerous to breathe air now days that it is to sniff a Lysol bottle(j/k) but you know what I mean, its okay to use it. When you apply it put some on your hand and rub gently into your skin (try to do it evenly on your arms) Goodluck tho because I looked like a brown and white Zebra when I finished. Theres no way to stop streaking sorry to break it to you. If you sweat yeah you'll get brown stuff on your shirt or pants wherever it is you applied it and are sweating. The best tip I can give is to just be natural.
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Is there a way so find out someones screen name (like on the computer) on AIM if you have there name?
(besides asking them...duh)
Thanks
That info thingy, but you have to type in information about them, and it will give you a list of screen names, (its kind of a guessing game) But if the person doesnt have their name listed in directory you wont be able to find it.Goodluck.
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Im having a bit of trouble with a guy i like a and i know FOR A FACT that he likes me. but i think that he just has trouble with commitment because of his last relationship. So what advice can you give me to help!!
If you think he has trouble being commited because of his past relationship, more than likely the last girl he dated has hurt him. Give him time to just realize somethings arent meant to be, he'll figure out that the person hes really suppose to be with is right in front of him. Show him he can trust you and that you arent like other girls, you wont hurt him.And if hes still worried about commitment just explain to him that you two dont have to get serious right away, because those things take time.
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Hey does anyone no if it is normal to not loosse all your baby teeth.. im in 7th grade and i still have liek 5 more teeth to loose. All my friends have lost all of their theeth, so i dont no if its normal or not!
Its a bit unusual but, sometimes people dont get all the grown up teeth till a lil later than most people. So dont worry tou much, but if you start noticing that your gums are sore or puffy or something just feels wrong, go to the dentist as soon as possible, because that could mean your grown teeth are getting ready to come out and your baby teeth are in the way, which could cause them to grow about your baby teeth. Dont be scared the dentist can fix it.
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Does anyone know if it's possible it increase the size of your breasts without gaining weight? I know that if you gain weight your breasts will grow larger (considering it's all fat tissue anyway). But I'd like to increase the size of my breasts without gaining weight. Is this possible? Thanks, I rate.
Without gainging, weight i think the only way they will grow, is if you hit a growth spurt and they grow more. But if your like over 17 your prolly done growing boob-wise. Just like what you got and be done with it.
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Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?
buy coca butter it lessen the visibility of stretch marks, but dont be ashamed or embarrassed a lot of girls have them.
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I met this really cool guy at a party a couple of weeks ago and we had like everything in common. He seemed a little bit interested in me that night, but it was hard to tell. He got my screen name from my friend and he IMed me and said he wanted to do something that weekend. Plans didn't really seem to work out 2 weeks in a row. He definatly seemed interested like a week ago and he kept trying to see me. I kept telling myself not to get too hooked on the guy because I just met him and I need to get to know what he's like. Plus I didn't want to get hurt if things didn't work out. So my friends asked if he liked me and he said he wasn't sure because he doesn't really know me, but that I'm an amazing girl. So naturally being a girl, I plan out this whole relationship in my head not being able to control myself. The past week we haven't talked much and when we have he didn't seem to still be interested at all. He didn't say anything about maybe doing something this weekend, which he normally would've done at this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for falling for him because now I'm feeling really sad about the whole thing. I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and I've been searching for someone, but I didn't like anyone until I found him. Do you think he still likes me and I'm just reading too into it? And am I crazy for being so obsessive? Like maybe he's just busy this weekend or something... I don't know, but I'm confused and I just want to get over it!
You like him, face it, it'll take a lil while for you get over it. But it will pass. Sorry you havent had a relationship in over two years. But there will be one that comes along that is just right for you. Keep waiting,because something good will come along. And as far as this guy you like right now, just ask him if he wants to get to know you, to where the two of you could be more than friends...whats it gonna hurt ?
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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it
Well i cant recall staring at myself in the mirror, looking for my flaws. But everyone has them, not just girls either. Best thing I can say is just to quit thinking about "what if" you looked liked one of those models or a girl at your school. Sure plastic surgery or whatever could make you similar to those type of people, but just accept who you are, and get over it. Your made to look the way you look for a reason, and by the way no one is perfect, so just dont put yourself down so much. Go out and enjoy yourself, do something besides look at the mirror and see flaws. Draw a picture or something. Dont take this in a rude way.
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ok.. me and my boyfriend of 10 mths broke up.. its almost been a month.. and im still totally in love with him.. ive told him.. and he knows.. i think he might like me again too.. so i was wondering.. if the next time we hug as "friends" should i kiss him on the cheek? or do i show him any type of emotion towards me wantin him back, or should i just act like friends with him?
*Madinga*
I think you should just be friends with him, he'll let you know if he wants to try again. But if you get tired of waiting for him to say something, just ask you might miss out on something if you dont. Goodluck.
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