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ask me anything thats what i`m here for! don`t hold back..i`m very straightfoward and honest giving my advice. it might not be the best or maybe you dont like it but sometimes people need to hear the truth once in their life. so rate me whatever you like. my name is alexxa my friends call my lex or lav and i`m 13 years old. i`m going into my 8th grade year at school and with that comes a lot of drama. i have the most best; best friend in the world! her name is julia and we are inseperable. i`m not exactely sure what "clique" i`m in, but most of my friends are pretty cool. im sort of a prep but i don`t like to get dressed up too often..jeans and a tank is good enough for me. my favorite stores are aeropostle and american eagle. i play basketball, softball, soccer, and run track and corss country. i`m don`t play an instrument because i`m not cordinated enought to. i`m really irish so dont diss the green. i live in south buffalo, new york where almost everyone is irish and if your not your well..not cool. i`m also polish, and scotish. i`m sort of a music whore but whatever..i love greenday, the click five, fall out boy, all-american rejects, and lifehouse, gwen stefeni, will smith, DMT,. some of my favorite songs are: just the girl, be my escape, cool, wake me up when september ends, american idoit, sugar we're going down, drop it like its hot, and golddigger. i love to travel also, i`ve been to sao paulo, brazil -laguna beach, california -hong kong, china and a bunch of other places. i`d love to go to ireland, paris, wales, england, and york someday. i love getting questions in my inbox so go ahead and ask. i`m better with the lovelife, friendships advisory but ask me anything you`d like. i perfer longer questions to short ones but will answer any if you just ask. i love decriptive questions..takes a load off my back. they are easier to answer too..so please if you need advice..ask me. [Attention Columnists..if you are rad and add me as one of your favs..i`ll return the compliment =D] if you need to im me, my screename is ixi l0ve y0u x0o. EVERYONE PLEASE PRAY FOR THE PEOPLE IN NEW ORLEANS AND ALL THE OTHER PLACES HURRICANE KATRINA HIT! THEY NEED YOUR PRAYERS!--->xOxO

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does anyone know cheat codes for sims 2?? (for money), and can you explain what buttons to press so i can get money? w.o having my sims get jobs and such. Ill rate!

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yeah i love sims two

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ok, so the thing is I really really like this guy, but I found out yesterday that he is going out with another girl.0o0o and the girl that he is going out with, I really hate!!! So I decided to like someone else. He is really cute and everything too, but I jus found out today that he is going out with this girl that I hate even more than the other girl.Well, I still really like this guy!! And I think he likes me because he sits behind me in class sometimes and he talks to me alot(sometimes) and I really like him! What do I do?? I think I am going to try to make him jealous by going out with some one else or flirting with other guys. But I just really like him and I think he likes me but if he did ask me out, I would have to deal with all the crap the girl he went out with.......yanno?? like say the girl he goes out with now dumps him or he dumps her and she finds out that i go out with him( if i ever do).She would probably try to rewin my life right?? So what do I do??!?!? I mean I REALLY like this kid. So please please help me !!
signed-
I REALLY like him!

dear - i REALLY like him &Hearts; first i want you to know i know how you feel, but the guy i like isnt going out with someone..just [i think] crushing on this girl whos my friend, which is weird. anyone..dont try to flirt with other guys because that could tell him you dont like him. save the flirting for him. keep on talking, let him get to know you. maybe exchange numbers? just let him know you LIKE him and that you would WANT to go out with him in the future. dont worry about the girls, if you go out with this boy. you could always just say "look, he dumped you for me" or "you dumped him. get over it." depending on the situation. hope i helped.

drop one in my inbox next`
time you need some advice
---xOxO Alexxa ♥

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i have a real weight problem. i'm 10 years old and i weigh 197. my mom says its just baby fat but .. i think i'm just obese. what should i do?

dear asker ♥ you`re only 10 years old so your mother is probably right. it`s probably weight you`ll lose when you grow and get older. hope i helped.

next time you need advice
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--->xOxO Lex ♥

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I just got a cell phone and I wanted a website with some cute or funny answering messages for my voicemail. ( I don`t want the typical, Hello This is ____ Fone leave a message) I`ll Rate 5's for good sites :)

dear asker ♥ try this site:
http://www.freefonefun.co.uk/ff/voicemail/
all you have to do if press the play button next to the different things and they'll say it for you. just record the greeting while your playing it..i have the friends one. lol also me and my friend recorded a voicemail message on her cell and we sang. leave a m-e-s-s-a-g-e i`ll call you b-a-c-k a-s-a-p. have a g-o-o-d day. b-y-e b-y-e b-y-e. haha we`re dorks but it sounds great. hope i helped.

whenever you need advice`
just drop one in my inbox
--->xOxO Alexxa ♥

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umm well i have a hairy unibrow, and i wana fix it but im to affraid to get it waxed, what should i do

dear asker ♥ you should try using SALLY HANSEN - CREME HAIR BLEACH for face. It comes with Creme Bleach, Baking Soda Activator, Mixing Tray, and Spatula Applicator. All you have to do is mix the creme bleach with the baking soda activator and apply it to your forebrow. let it sit for about 10-15 min then wash off. it bleaches the hair so it is a very light, blonde color. hope i helped.

next time you need advice
just drop on in the inbox
---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks.

dear asker ♥ try using DEGREE or SECRET..they both smell great but they have different scents like, shower clean, powder, lavender and such.

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--->xOxO Alexxa xO

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A few days ago my friend hurt her foot. Now its all swollen and she can't walk! But her parents refuse to take her to the doctor, saying that she's blowing it all out of proportion. How do we get her parents to take her?

dear asker ♥ well personally i think her parents are being very very stupid about this. i mean this is their child, and they dont want to help her? keep talking to her parents..tell them how she hurt her foot, when, where..tell them that she should be looked at before something worse happens to the injury..maybe soon they'll get the picture that she needs to be looked at. i really hope you get them to take her..sorry if this advice sucks.

next time you need advice
just drop on in my inbox`
--->xOxO Alexxa ♥

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sorry this is so long but... is it wrong not to love your father, now hold on don't blow a gasket i'll explain everything. ya see my dad went to jail when i was really young and and i never got to know him. and my grandperents keep wanting me to go clear across the state to visit him. and i don't wanna spend 5 days in a hot car just to see someone i dont even know for 2 hours. but i feel so ashamed, i feel so self centered, i feel so selfish. i feel like i owe it to him to go. please i want your oupion am i the scum of the earth, or am i ok

please, dont yell at me. i already feel bad enough as it it.

dear asker ♥ you don`t not love your father, you may not like him but that is just because you have not gotten the chance to know him. you`re not scum on earth either. i would be scared to, meeting someone so close to me for the first time. maybe you should tell your grandparents how you feel. tell them that you are scared to go meet your father. i`m sure they will understand. i hope i helped.

next time you need advice
just drop one in my inbox
---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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how much should i charge for washng people's cars. i dont wanna charge to much but i dont wanna wash an expedition for a quater.

dear asker ♥ you should probably have a car wash for about $3..but you could have "special" deals..say car wash and wax: $5 car wash and vaccum interior: $7 things like that. hope i helped.

nex time you need advice
just drop one in my inbox
---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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ok so there's this guy who i've liked for over a month now [i know not long]. i just came out of getting over this other guy i liked for almost 2 years because i'm going to a different school next year, & he also hated me for liking him. we're friends...sorta. he went to this camp with me & we talked a lot & stuff & i even got his s/n & had a convo with him 3 hours straight. i talk to him still, but it just seems like the convo's die down more & more. i really want to know if he likes me, although i doubt it. i don't want to tell him // wait to tell him. i don't want to write a note or flirt with him. i don't want a friend to ask him. he'll be at my new school next year & i'll get to talk to him & stuff, but we're not in the same grade, so i won't see him THAT much. talking to him online lately has been kind of...awkward because we both have nothing to talk about so i keep saying random things that are sorta long. then there are long pauses & stuff. i know a lot about him, so you can't call me shallow & say i barely know him. i`ve also liked other people a really long time, enough to be in love, that i think anyways, so i don't know what this'll turn out to be. every guy i ever fell for has hated me in return, even if all i did was be nice to them. i don't want this to happen again. i want a boyfriend. no, rephrase that, i want HIM. this guy i have feelings for NOW. he's never had a girlfriend before [he's single now dur] but i just want to know if i have a chance with him so bad. i've never had a boyfriend before. maybe it's because i fall for the wrong guys. but i've never been liked by someone before either. ugh please help, what do i do? also besides being even closer to him & getting to know him EVEN MORE than i already do & making plans with him, cause that's a given. i`ll rate you if you want. thanks so much if you can help!

dear asker ♥ just talk to him a little more..tell him stuff about you..good stuff of course. let him get to know you a little more, get him to like you a little more. compliements are good too. just get up the strength and courage to be a little more you. obvisouly he likes something in you if you are friends so show him more of that side. i really hope i helped a bit.

next time you need advice
just drop one in my inbox
---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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Hey im 14 years old and about a month ago i made out with my best guyfriend. ever since then hes been avoiding me n when ever i ask him if he wants to go somewhere with me hes "busy". im not planning on doing anything like that with him again. what can i do to stop him from being so weird about everything?
im really frustrated

dear asker ♥ well this guy might just be a little nervous about whats happened, i mean he was one of your best friends and all. maybe he just wants to keep it at that...friends. just try talking to him, call him up and just start a normal conversation like as if nothing has happened, then just ask if something is wrong tell him he can confide in you. converation helps solves loads of different types of conflicts. hope i helped.

if you need any more advice
just drop one in my inbox `
--->xOxO Alexxa ♥

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I'm going to try and sum it up. Me and this guy (Brandon) have been dating for about a year and 3 months and we have been having ALOT of problems lately. We have been fighting about everything. We always take breaks and never stick to them. It seems we never work out anything. We just have sex and the probelm goes away for about a day thin comes right back. I just don't know what to do. We just broke up the other day and had a big fight in the hallway, I was trying to hold him back from walking away and he grabed my arm and left a bruse. I know it should be over but I lost my viriginty to him and I am going Crazy without him. I know this relationship should be over, I just dont was to go through all the breaking up and being alone. What should I do? Ohh and by the way I met a 19 year old today (Im 16)at a concert and I was just drawn to him. I cant explain it we talked and I gave him my number. Oh I confused :-(

dear asker ♥ after dating brandon for a year and 3 months..of course you`ll be going crazy for a while but this feeling will go away. it`s just had to let go of something or, realize you don`t have it anymore, after having it for so long. think of all the advantages of being single carries..party like crazy, have flings, and be able to flirt with people. don`t worry you`ll be feeling better soon. hope i helped.

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time you need some advice
---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14, and he was 17. I'm 17 now, and he's 20. We always talk about getting married when I'm like 19-20, and I know it's what we both want, but I feel like my family would say I'm too young and that they'd be disappointed in me. But it's really what both of us want, we really love eachother. We know his family is cool with it, but why do I feel like mine wont be?

dear asker ♥ if its what both of you really want, try to explain that to your family..tell them that its really important to you. im sure after a while they`ll realize that you are really in love. his family is probably cool with it because he is the older one in the realationship. just don`t give up. hope i helped a bit.

`drop one in my inbox next
time you need some advice
---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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Ok so me and this guy have known eachother for 5 years..and I've kind of liked him the whole time and I didn't know how he felt or anything..well we just met up and exchanged phone numbers like 3 weeks ago and then he kept on saying how much he liked me and stuff..and we started to go out. well we just broke up because he said since hes moving he dosent wanna be together because we'll never see eachother..and we should just be freinds. well he hasnt called me since!! and it's been like 4 days..is he mad at me? does he like hate me? oh by the way he moved an hour away..

dear asker♥ 4 days isn`t that long..give it some time. i doubt that he hates you, maybe he`s just reajusting [sp?] to his move. my advice is wait a little longer, and call him [if you have his number that is..] and see how he`s doing, let him know you are okay with just being friends. hope i helped a bit.

`drop one in my inbox next
time you need some advice.
---> xOxO Alexxa♥

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Hey I dont have a question but you told me to tell you how it went with the senior dude and Im new at this so I dont know how to leave you a message on your inbox so yeah if you want to help me with that that would be greeat.I called him and it was busy so I will try again later.Thanks for all your help and I will def.call you if I need anymore advice.You can do the same also!!

~Ariel~

dear ariel♥ thats great! i hope everything works out ..and you can`t leave messages the only thing you can do is tell the person to erase the question..well just remember to make sure he knows you two just want to be friends. =]

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---> xOxO Alexxa ♥

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what are some exercises that i can do to lose weight in my stomach as fast as possible but without shrinking my hips?

dear asker♥ try doing sit ups, and crunches...also try running on a regular basis [say one every one or two days], try doing wall sits too. hope i helped a bit.

`drop one in my inbox next
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. . . . --->Alexxa♥

[ps on your feedback] wall sits are when you lean agaist the wall like your sitting on a chair..it helps you lose wait in your stomach and thigh area

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Ok there is this senior in my art class and I know him from our mothers because they work together.By the way I am a senior.I told my mom I think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and she said dont even try it.I wouldnt anyway because I only like him as a friend.Then on Friday he gave me his number and said call me if you want to hang out.I dont want to be mean but I want to hang out with him but I am afraid he will ask me out and I dont want to so does anyone know what I should if he does??Ill rate high for any answer

dear asker♥ go and hang out with him, try to go somewhere that isn`t exactely "romantic" and maybe bring some friends along with you. you shouldn`t not hang out with him because you`re afraid he might make a move. hope i helped a bit.

`drop one in my inbox next
time you need some advice*
. ---> xOxO Alexxa♥

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okay well i just got out of a relationship. and i like this other guy a lot. but he is taken .. and his girlfriend is one of my best friends. he also a very good friend. I am afraid if we did go out it would be weird. He alwayz tells me how he feels like he is getting distant from his girlfriend though. But everytime him and I get closer he mentions her. It seems like he has feelings for me too but is trying to convince himself he doesn't. what should i do ?

dear asker♥ well if she is your best friend, don`t get too close yet. and yes, it does sound like he has feelings for you. maybe he just needs some time to sort all those feelings out. why don`t you try to help him through this, let him know you care. i`m sure he would be very grateful and maybe he`d realize he likes you. hope i helped a bit.

`drop one in my inbox next
time you need some advice
. --->xOxO Alexxa♥

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I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that?

dear asker♥ some boys love to get complimeants and they adore finding out someone likes them..it boasts their confidence. others might think its coming off too strong. try talking to him first..let him know you like him after you`ve talked and he knows you like him..putting a rose in his locker would be a very sweet compliement to him, just make sure he knows its from you.

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--->xOxO Alexxa♥

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Ok all I need are some ideas on how to make some money. I am 13 years old so I am in 7th grade. I really need you guys help! Plz!!!!! I would like to buy something really HOT for homecomeing on sept. 30th!! Thanks a bunch to the ppl who answer! I will rate 5 for evey one!

dear asker♥ im 13 and in 7th grade too so heres how i make my money:
[*] babysitting [usually about $5 an hour]
[*] help with newspapers or pennysavers [great pay!]
[*] convince your parents to give you some extra money if you help around the house a bit.
well those are the ways i make money.

`drop one in my inbox next
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-->xOxO Alexxa♥

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