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So, I am a HUGE fan of Lady Gaga. I love to listen to her. The other day, my mom pulled me aside and told me she might ban me from listening to her because I am "obsessing" over her. I have tried to convince her she is good, but she says that she is evil and a horrible person. I respect Lady Gaga so much, and it hurts me to hear what she says about her. I am 14 and really want some help. I just want my mom to accept that I really like Lady Gaga. (link)
you probably wont be able to convince her to like Gaga so just dont tell her you like her or listen her infront of your mom,no headphones,she has to accept it,thats who you are,when i started listening acdc and led zeppelin my parents didnt like it that much(i was 12) but i put their songs on all the time,in home,in the car etc. and in the end they accepted the fact that their daughter likes rock music and they are ok with it...you mom has to love the way you are,you are born this way :))


I have an assignment on Music.
I have to sing a song.
I'm so confused on what should i sing! My voice cant reach a note to low. But i can reach a high note. Help me please. I want the song to be something about love. (link)
something by Lana Del Rey :)


My green eyes are my best feature, but how do I enhance them? Either advice or links please as I can't find anything on the internet! (link)
i have green eyes too and i use the dior khol eye pencil(looks great):http://www.dior.com/beauty/usa/en/makeup/eyes/eyeliner/khol-pencil-with-sharpener/py0739100-cliners.html

aand also the helena rubinstein red gloss which really works,makkes my eyes look more awsome :)
http://www.myshopping.com.au/ZM--907226086_Cosmetics

they arent the cheapest stuff but they are fine quality and are worth it :)


My crush just got on Facebook but Im scared to talk to him. What should I do??? I need an answer before he gets off. Hurry!!! (link)
dont be a fucking pussy,just talk to him in REAL life :)


I'm 13 and an girl and I got my first bf like a 1 week ago and I'm really shy around him. I have known him for about 9 years and Im kinda shy normally and I told him so.. But it's just really awkward when I'm with him.. Please help (link)
he's your boyfriend and you've known him for 9 years,im a bit shy too with new people but 9 years and still shy around him...well thats a lot,just try to relax,be yourself,he's with you because of YOU so chill aaand maybe go to a shrink,seems to me like you have problems with socialising with people and thats ok,it can help you,i was shy like that with people before a couple of years but then i got friends with this girl and she somehow helped me be more confident aand now im not shy at all :)


Mormons believe there are 3 levels of Heaven, but the Bible only mentions Heaven and Hell?

The Bible doesn't say anything about the Celestial Kingdom, Terrestrial Kingdom, and Telestial Kingdom. It just says Heaven & Hell.

Are there 3 degrees of heaven? (link)
Everyone have different beliefs,i personally dont think that there are 3 levels of heaven,but im not a mormon,i dont like their beliefs and understanding of the world...if youre a mormon you should know those things about your religion,i read anything i can get my hands on about my religion because i find it fascinating...just go to a library and make a research or to a mormon church :)


He saw me going to the shooting range with his 12 year old brother and now he wants to shoot my rifle. It is a .22LR Henry Lever Action. Should I let him? (link)
i think its good to teach them how to use a weapon but maybe waite for the 6yearold to become a bit older,hes too young,other than that its actually very good for them to know those things,youre good parents :))


13/F

A lot of people talk crap about me at school and I'm just getting tired of it. There's nothing I can do, so please don't say "tell someone" or whatever because I've tried everything. But anyways, I'm just getting tired of it and I want to be homeschooled. Some people that talk crap moved to the schools I was thinking about moving to, so they'll just say stuff about me and have MORE people not like me.

How can I talk my mom into letting me be homeschooled? I always have a parent here to homeschool me, so that's situated. But how do I talk my mom into saying "ok"? (link)
dont start homeschool,its not a good idea,it can make you very antisocial and detached from people,just dont pay attention to the assholes at your school,be an ignorant,life isnt easy,you think that there wont be any bastards later?! well there are very bad,shitty people and you cant avoid all,you have to face them,just dont care about what they say,be fuckin strong :) think about it


Do you guys believe in those pictures or comments that say something like "Repost in 4 minutes or else"? I'm scared of those things... (link)
dude get over it,its just bullshit


My friend likes to have sex with his dog! It's so sick! I don't even know what this kind of problem is termed. I have to help him immediately since I know he's not right. What can I do for him? I'm really sorry if this steps on someone's toes, but I just thought someone on this site might be able to help me. Thanks! (link)
this is fucking sick,why the fuck are you a friend with a bastard like that? report him


13/F

So my friend got mad at me and we were texting, and she said the whole school knows I'm "mean"... I honestly don't care, but do you think she meant it? (link)
she probably didnt mean it,but when your angry you say stuff,bad stuff and thats ok because you really dont mean them.you can just ask her though


Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy and I have dated on and off for the last 9 months. We hang out and stuff but I feel like he'd rather play football with his friends. We just started dating again today and I want it to be different this time. Not me always making the plans and chasing him. I want him to be crazy about me, how can I do so? (link)
dude just be your fucking self and chill :)


today when i got home from school she told me she had to talk to me. My mother had found my tumblr. Yes, there were plenty of things i shouldn't have blogged about. I know they were wrong, bad words, drugs, anything a mother would be disappointed about was on that tumblr. She was extremely disappointed. She started crying and i started crying. Now she thinks that's the type of person i am, but i honestly am not. I just blogged those things to look cool or because other people thought it was funny. I know, very very immature. I am so stupid. while she was telling me this there was nothing i could do besides cry and tell her i am so sorry. now she won't talk to me only when she needs to. She can barely look at me. I really am a good kid. I deleted the entire blog. I am done with tumblr forever. I just want me and my mom's relationship to go back to the way that it was. Nothing good has happened between us the past couple days,I can't take this anymore. It's tearing me apart. I need help? (link)
she's your mom,she should/must accept you for who you are,but since those stuff you posted were just to make you look "cool" thats stupid,just tell her why you posted them,i hate it when they get the disappointed look on their faces its not like they were angels at our age,believe me


How many sleeping pills would a 13 year old girl who weighs 45 and is 155cm have to take until she dies?
How long would she sleep for if she took about 8?
How would she feel the next morning( eg.tired,nauseas ect)
Would she die if she took 8?
How would she look the next day?
If she took it at 9 would she wake up at 6:30 the next morning if someone had to wake her up?
This is NOT for me or anyone I know its for a school thing (link)
yes its about you,i saw your other question :p whatever,dont kill yourself! i wanted to do it too before,just find something that keeps you alive,worth living for,your 13 ,noone should live that short, :)) aand smile :)


13/F

So I get super bored in some of my classes - Whether if I'm done with everything, or if my teachers are doing something for a long time.

I can't have my phone out, so what else can I possibly do to make class time to go a little faster? Thanks! (link)
when i get bired in class i read a book or draw somethingg,i draw a lot or talk with the person next to me :) but it doesnt get boring in the class a lot because pur boys are quite wild and loud and awlays talk haha ooor i somethimes fantasize about boys that i like


Hello, I am a freshman in college, female. There is a cute guy that works at my school, he's a desk receptionist so his job is to just say hello when you come in a bye when you leave. But, he is also my neighbor. I think he is the most handsome guy and I would love to get to become friends with him but see, he's kinda really cynical and has a dry sense of humor. I heard that he's that way now because of a girl that messed him up a little bit. Anyway, he's in a frat, I know someone else in his frat that I've known since high school. I grab breakfast with this kid a lot and he always talks about my DR and how he's so cool and how he really looks up to him. I was thinking of messaging my cute neighbor/DR on facebook saying something along the lines of "hey, I was grabbing lunch with ______ and he was talking about how much he likes you and looks up to you. I just wanted to say that I think that's really cool and definitely solidified all of the positive thoughts that I've had." I feel like that's worded really retarded-ly, though.

So, if you would be a doll and try to help me figure out when I'm gonna say to him on facebook, that'd be great!! I'm the type of person that knows what I want to say all the time but can never put into words what I want to say. So, if you could really, please, help me with how to say something to him that's coherent and sounds very nice so he has nothing to be smart-allicky about. I want to say that his friend does look up to him, I also wanna say that, somehow, I do think he's cool but I don't want the message to seem like I'm the main point because I'm not. The main point is that people look to him as their role model. I want him to know that, too, because he sometimes gets down on himself. So, if you can somehow put all of that into a small passage that sounds not retarded, I will be forever grateful! Thanks!! (link)
i think that you should just go and say that to him,not on fucking favebook,thats bullshit,just get over ur fear(maybe) and talk to him :)) even if you say something silly,its better to do it to his face than through a fucking computer :) good luck


ok so i have small boobs. I am 15 years old and will be 16 in may this year.I'm a softmore in high school and I am a B cup. it seems like all the other girls in my grade have big boobs that fill out their shirts but mine are just small i even wear push up bras but that barely helps.:( all guys ever talk about is boobs and I want bigger ones or atrleast decent sized ones to my body is proportional. I have a nice butt alot of guys say but i have never once ever heard a guy tell me i have nice boobs. Its frusterating, what can I do to help this situation? (link)
if its the right guy he wouldnt just care about ur boobs and honestly you shouldnt care that much either :) just try to love yourself the way you are,plus some girl grow till their 18 dont worry


I'm 13/F. I really like this guy, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back but the problem is this: everyone keeps telling me he is a total jerk. My best friend said she used to live near him, and one day he was riding on his bike past her house, and decided to pay her a visit. And by pay her a visit I mean, he got into this huge argument with her dad on purpose, and called her family some names that I don't feel comfortable repeating on here...

Another girl in my class used to go to school with him, and said he told her mom to 'go f**k herself'.

Yet another girl in my class, said she also knew him, and he stole her bike. (I'm guessing that was just the start of everything, because I think that was before everything else I just mentioned.)

But... He just seems so nice. I mean not like, overly nice, maybe just as nice as the average person. The point is, he doesn't seem like the kind of person that would do any of that.

I'm almost positive he likes me back. This is probably going to sound like I was eavesdropping, but I swear, I wasn't. My teacher had gone to ask another teacher about something, so everyone was talking to friends. The guy I like's desk is behind mine, and I had just gotten back from the bathroom, so I don't think he realized I was there. Anyway, I heard him talking to his friend about how he likes someone. I didn't catch the name, but I almost knew it wasn't me at the time. Then later, I caught him staring at me. But I thought he had to be staring at the girl next to me, as almost every single guy In my class likes her. He talked to me about twice that day, which is weird, because the only person that really talks to me is my best friend, and the only people he seems to talk to are pretty much always guys.

But anyway, later, I overheard (again, I swear I wasn't eavesdropping) a few girls talking about who likes who when they said something about who my crush likes, and I realized, the girl I thought he was staring at was with them, so it couldn't have been her. Again, I didn't hear who he actually liked so I can't be sure it was me. But I thought maybe, just maybe... He might like me.

Wow, that was long. I probably sound like the stupid, boy-obsessed pre-teen thirteen year olds are stereotyped to be, but I don't usually sound like this... I just really like this guy. Anyway, I was just wondering, do you think I should give him a chance, or just abandon all thoughts of asking him out?

P.S- please don't tell me I'm too young to date either... If I ever gathered the courage to ask him out and he said yes, it would be my first boyfriend, but I think I'm mature enough, my
parents think it's okay, and I'm fully aware that I could get hurt.

Thanks in advance!
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i didnt read the whole thing,but about the guy(the "jerk") if you like him and he likes you dont give a fuck about what others say,go out and if he really is an ass just tell him to fuck off :) simple as that


13/F

Hi so today I got asked by this guy I've been to school with for about 4 years if I had a ...... You know. I just didn't answer him.

But do people really think I'm a boy? I don't really look like one in my opinion. I have a deep voice and not really big.. You know.. But still. I know this is a dumb question.

This is what my hair looks like, only I have bangs that go down (Not side bangs):

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma3numHueJ1re6kmco1_500.jpg

I don't dress like a guy. I wear jeans, but not baggy jeans. I wear cute shirts and stuff, if you know what I mean and I wear a lot of jewelry. I do play video games, but I don't say I do. Do I sound like a boy to you?
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hes probably just fucking with you,high school guys think that they are soo original,phhh idiots :) but anyways,do you give a fuck? (:


My dad cheated on my mom with two women and now he regrets it but he also wants my mom back when their divorce. my dad hurt us so much even when he was with us. I realize my dad use to be the best dad to me growing up but once I grew up more me and my dad dont get along my dad left me with an emty space inside of me I dont know what to do. I have anxiety problems and I have social issues negative thoughts with fear..help... (link)
you need a shrink,you can get really fucked up because of that bastard.the fact that hes ur father doesnt mean that you have to love him,thats just bullshit,but i cant help with the anxiety,you need some antidepressant just go to a shrink,talk it all out get the pills and then ull get better :)




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