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Heyyy!!!! What's up everyone. I'M BACK!!! my name is Catherine. I am 15 years old. I may be a minor you will be surprised of what I know, especially things I haven't been trough. Just leave anything you want to talk about in my inbox.advice
My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
Hun, if you do not want to do that, then just don't do it. If your boyfriend is caring enough (which I hope he is) then he will deffinatly understand. You shouldn't be pressured into having sex, if you do tell him your not ready for that yet. I'm sure he'll still be there afterwards. Don't worry hun, you'll be fine. Tell me how it works out. =]
My birthday was June 30th. It was my 16th birthday. I don't know why they forgot my birthday.. they've never forgotten anything of mine before. There wasn't anything going on around that time.. I don't know what the problem is! I am not a bad girl.. my GPA is a 3.85 and I'm always doing chores. Why did they forget? Should I say something? Because every time I tell them they did something wrong, even if it was that they didn't put on their seatbelt, I'm grounded for 2 weeks, and I'm not even exaggerating.
Its been almost 3 weeks since my birthday..
Well I have to agree with everyone that has given you advice. I have been through what you have. Last year EVERYONE forgot about my birthday, I felt bad about it, worse because I didn't have the voice to speak up and say anything ABOUT IT. Just talk to them, they might tell you what's going on in their heads, because at age 15-16 that's the most important year. Anyways just tell me how it turns out. I hope they listen to you. You deserve to speak out and be heard.
so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem.
Here is what I think. Me and my best friend are aways mean to eachother, but playing around you know. But if she is taking the meaness to a different level, meaning seriously. You need to say something or else she'll think she can take advantage of you. You can either treat her the same she treats you to let her know how it feels, OR you can just tell her. I mean she can't be a best friend if she is NOT willing to at least listen...Hope I helped.
all the boys here is a 34A in boob size big for you in a 14 year old girl thanks a lot.
xxx
Honey, I am ALSO not a guy, but 34A is not good for a woman your age, I JUST became 15 and I am 36C cup sweety.Anyways don't worry about it. I bet you are still beautiful. =]
i did an answer.. ive been bi sexual now for like 9 months .. i dated a girl for 7 months and now im with a new one.. but is this just a phase or not.. hoe do i know.. does anyone know.. can anyone help.. please.. thanks!!!
Well, I know how you feel, I sorta of have an interest in girls, but then again I wouldn't go out with them. So I guess you can say I am abit bi "curious", anyways, well it depends how you feel about the girls you have been with. I COULD be a phase. But sometimes fades can become a change in you entire life. Just don't be afraid to show the real you, til then you'll probably figure it all out yourself. Take care ^^
So there's this guy who i've liked for a year now. I told him I liked him a month ago because I thought he liked me too. He didn't really respond. So now it's summer and we don't see each other. I should get over him, but I really don't WANT to. It's fun thinking about him, and he also never really gave me a response, so there's a possibility that something could happen next year. Is that okay?
Honey, if your heart tells you not to move on, don't move on yet. But if he still has NO response next year. Then TWO words...Forget HIM....your waiting long enough. Sure you can still think of him once in awhile. No one is stopping you think of him. But I'm just saying. Don't WAIT for him to come to you. It will take him forever unless he KNOWS what he lost. If he doesn't realize what he lost. Then he wasn't worth waiting for in the first place. Hope that helped. Good luck.
alright so me and this guy we'll say his name is "josh" were going out for about 8 months and i really loved him a lot and right before school started he broke up with me and i was like in shock because it was so random that he broke up with me and after everything he's said to me about how much he loved me and he got over it pretty quick and it took me like over 6 six months to get over him and he was going out with all these girls and he barley even talked to me anymore then i finally said yes to going out with this guy "peter" and "josh" got really jealous and broke up with his girlfriend and he keeps calling me now and saying how wrong he was for braking up with me and how much he wants me back and i really like "peter" a lot but "josh" is trying to get me to brake up with "peter" and i dont know what to do, i tried telling him it was over between us but he hes a really good sweet talker and i just said i have to think about it but i dont want to brake up with "peter" so what should i say to "josh" so he'll leave me and "peter" alone? like i dont want to be mean and be like fuck off but i dont want him to keep calling and trying to brake us up..
Let me break it down abit hun, okay this "josh" person ou speak of. You need to tell him straight up, "you broke my heart once I'm NOT going to let you do that again". If he doesn't get the picture. Then at a certain point your gonna need to tell him to fuck off when needed to. Don't be afraid to be honest with "Josh", you don't need that heartbreak again. You need to tell him that. Hope it works out for you hun.
how long do you get your period for? like is it 4 days or a week? i get mine for only 3 days and it gets ligter every day. is that normal?
It deffinatly fine. As a matter fact, I get 3 days, once in awhile I used to get it 2 days nothing lower. It's absolutely normal. Don't ever worry about that hun.
at first i didn't pay her no attentions at all she was so in love with me but then out of certain we broke up. i do like her now but she told me that when i am really want relationship i should come back. i call her and beg her but she try to play me so i told her that i need her anyways the relationship should stay and she should get out of my car so she did and since then i don't call her neither her but the part of it is that she don't speak to me any more which i don't care but again she told me that she don't want relationship anymore i am cool but she don't say hi to me anymore so definately what going on and i don't have a problem with it either
Well, let me get this straight. You want to know why she is kind of upset about the relationship? Am I right? And yet she won't talk to you not even a hello. Well certainly she is probably ignoring you know, cause you must've hurt her really bad. Women like to CHANGE men. And yoou say you care for her. Maybe try showing it. The reason she doesn't care about you is cause...you gave up to easy on this relationship you once had. She wil come back to you once she knows you care, and will always care for her no mater what. Love her passionatly. Show it. Don't hide it.
Me and my best friend (kahli) went to party a couple nights ago. And emily came up to us and told us that Makayla was saying she was going out with brien (kahli's boyfriend,) And then makayla came over and said not to be mad at her because brien asked her out and said he broke up with kahli on the last day of school, but he never did.He also said that he didnt ask out Makayla .So kahli keeps texting and calling him but he won't respond. Is he cheating?
I think there might be a possibility, you need to find out the facts. If you notice spending WAYYYY to much time together, then that might be some kind of clue. Your friend needs to speak with both of them. If kahli gets the chance, look through his phone and his texts. Make sure he doesn't see ou do that, so he doesn't sense any jealousy.
okay well my mom saw my myspace pictures of me drinking and smoking and shes mad and she said im grounded for a month but thats like all summer and were going to have a talk when i get home and i dont no what i say do lie or what can i say"?
Well sweety, don't lie. It will make things work. Tell her your totally sorry, and you know what you did was wrong. In a matter of time she'll trust you again knowing that you know what you did was completely wrong. Hope this helps.
I have a friend and we used 2 go out. He now has a new gf but keeps asking me to go to te movies with him. Would it b wrong to go 2 the movies with him? would it b better 2 ask his gf first?
I think it's okay for two friends to go on a movie. But if he gets a little flirty and touchy tell him back off you have a girl, and you don't have to ask his girl if it's okay. It's both you and your FRIEND'S decision. ^^ Hope I helped.
im almost 15 and i have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. One of his good friends who is a girl needs him for what shes going through at home right now. He admits that he has neglected me for his attetion has been focused on her. (BTW she likes him) I have told him that she has beginning to get between us, but he fails to see it and says im the only one who sees it. So what is really between us then? Am I right? Or is there something else?
The thing between you two is the most famous thing in any relationship, Jealousy. Don't worry about it it happens very often. Just don't let it bother you, in fact help out with her problems too. She might need comfort, help HIM to help HER. ^^
My dad died when i was 8 and my mom recently got married to a guy who used to be in the army. I have two sister and now i have 3 step brothers. He is like way strict and his kids are like perfect angels but me and my sisters have never really been raised that strict and for lack of better words are pretty wild. my mom never really punished us for things and now this guy is trying to control us and take over our lives. What should i do?
Try to get him to lighten up. Not everyone is perfect. You need him to know that you and our family are just not used to the rules he gives. And try and spend mroe time with him, he may be strict. But think about it, he was in the army. Just give him time.
I feel like drinking BLEACH
So, my best friend got this IM from this random guy, so I added him on my buddylist thinking I would just IM him later to see who he is... and stuff.
And so, I IMed him today, and we started talking and he doesn't go to my high school and everything, and he seemed nice and all. Then my ex boyfriend, my best friend, and my other friend that went to school with him said that he was really weird, and he's just not my type. He always gets turned down, and I feel terrible. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah, because I didn't want to be like NO, I mean, what the heck, I just met this guy and he's asking me out?! I just don't know what to do. I'd feel way too bad just being like NO, and stuff.. I can't do things like that.
Help?
Hey, just give him a chance. There is no harm in that hun. If he doesn't seem like your type just tell him you want to be friends. GOOD friends...so he doesn't feel hurt ^^
hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop?
Tell her it's hurting you. Tell her if she keeps doing this you will end up in a death bed. And slapping you isn't going to help anyone. it just hurts...If it doesn't work call for help, she may be in trouble. But if you don't get help she'll be the reason of why you died in such an early age. Go be with your brother for awhile til she cools down for now. I honestly don't know what to say. Cause I'm abit bi polar myselff. But I controlled my issues...And I want to help...
15/f
I'm sort of dating this guy. Well we went out once to the movies. He wanted us to go to the movies last summer but i told him i just wanted to be firends then he asked me again and sence i have nothing better to do i decided to go see if things would work out. At the movies they never turned the lights off so i think thats why he didn't make a move but i've never been kissed and im kinda scared and kinda using him because i dont really like him and just wanna get my first kiss and hook up over with. It's really embarassing when people talk about guys and how far they have gone and i havn't done anything. So should i go to the movies with him again or should i say no because i don't like him...i also feel bad cuz i regeted him alot before...i just wanna be kissed ugh sorry this was so long. Thank in advance for the advice
Well hun, I think you should save your kiss for someone special. And you don't have to reject him in a boyfriend girlfriend date, just say "sure let's go, but as friends." Just cause your friends went to a certain limit doesn't mean YOU should...espicially for someone you don't even like. Hope I helped
I'm a guy, 16, and just need some advice on how exactly to flirt with girls. Like how do I flirt with this girl i like, without sounding annoying doing it and having her like it too? Thanks.
Okay, girl LOVE it when you compliment them, tell them teir beautifulm they have the most cutest eyes. And make her laugh, girls love guys with a sense of humor. and try and show them you can be serious when it comes down to relationships and stuff. I hoped I helped.
Sincerely,
Cathy
does anybody know any at home ways to get rid of bags under eyes?
Well, it might be that your are lacking some sleep. Get more beauty sleep, you'll feel refreshed. =)
I just shaved "down there" and I'm wondering why I get red, itchy bumps. I used a new razor, and shaving cream.. Is it the direction I shaved in? Or is it the razor? And um, How do you get rid of the red, itchy bumpss.. called "razor burn"?
Any answers will be appreciated!
Thank you.
Well, I wouldn't really know, but maybe your just not ready, well, to shave down there. It may be abit difficult. I'm sorry I abosulty don't know exactly.