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hey everyone, i'm kaleigh.i've been through alot, so feel free to ask me
anything, i'll probably be able to relate.
im not a shit talker and ill tell you straight out what i think, im no afraid of what people think of me, i'd acctually like to know, so inbox me and let me know.
feel free to inbox me or ask me a question.
ill try my best to help yah out.
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If you know that a guy is interested in you and he sometimes caresses your legs and you dont tell him to stop but you dont make it seem like your even phased by it, what impression would the guy get?
well, if you act like your not phased by it
then eventually he will get the impression that you dont want him to do it, or hes notgeting your attention, hense your not interested in him.
and idk what kind of impression you want to give off, but if you do like him, and you want him to keep doing it, if hes looking at you, look at him and smile.
but, if you do like him but you dont want him touching you like that, then just hold the hand he is doing it with, make eye contact and while your looking at him grab his hand.
hope this helped. :)
I have to write a rhetorical (persuasive essay),- and I was wondering if it would be appropriate to put some narration at the beginning of my introduction for lighthearted humor. I want my essay to be sophisticated but creative at the same time. I want it to stand out in a good way. Is that OK?
yah, i think that would stand out.
but, i would base your decision on your teacher.
if they're comical and have a sense of humor,
then go for it.
buttt, if theyre straight up- get the job done, no short cuts, straight to the point kind of teacher, i'd hold back.
k, so there is a way to delete history of the internet. Is it permanent, or do you have to go to control panel or something like that to actually delete your history?
or, you could also do this.
on your webpage on the right there should be a symbol of a wheel type thing with the word tool next to it, click that and the first one on the list is delete browing history.
both work.
http://shop.avon.com/shop/product.aspx?src_page=product_list.aspx&level1_id=300&level2_id=301&pdept_id=510&dept_id=&pf_id=32581
these kind of eyeliners require a special type of sharpeners or just a regular pencil sharpener?
coz i wanna order it but when if it cant be sharpened RIP OFF
well, if the part around the eyeliner is wood then yeah, you could use a normal pencil sharpener. but, i recomment one like this.
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P99810
but then again, if it isn't wood then you could push the tip up and draw with it on a piece of paper, twirl it around until it is at your desired sharpness.
hope this helped.
ok so theres this guy that always makes fun of me like for what kind of car i drive and just stuff like that and lots of people think hes annoying aswell as me and my friend mitchell is a good friend and he thinks of comebacks really quick but by the time i think of a good comeback the conversations over and if i said it it would be really akward
so how do i start to stick up for myself instead of my friends doing it for me
thanks
haha i'm the same way, i'm bad at thinking of comebacks too. :p
but yah, it's always good to have a friend there to back you up when you need it.
but, what i would do if i were in ure situation i'd just eb straight forward with him.
tell him that he's getting on ure nerves and your sick of his comebacks, and maybe if you don't do this then the next time he says something to you about you then be like, tell it to someone who cares.
and eventually if he realizes its not bothering you.. he'll stop.
but then again, if that doesn't work compliment him on something, maybe something he's wearing or what he;s driving, it will confuse the hell out of him and might just turn his head around about you.
Over the past few weeks i've slowly stopped really wanting to eat meat. I ate it for dinner and stuff but i just sort of went off it.
Tonight though, i had chicken and i just have this really sick feeling in my stomach. Not vomit sick but like, im disgusted in myself for eating it.
Just thinking about eating meat or anything from an animal makes me feel queezy.
So my question is, is it just a phase?
It's just strange because i've never had a problem against eating meat till now and i dont know if i'm just having a moment or i really cant stand meat anymore.
try it out, it may or may not be a phase theres not really a way of telling weather or not it is.
try not eating meet and see if that stops all those disguisted feelings, and if it does then stick with it. :)
Me and this guy I have a huge crush on are in our schools band together. We know eathothers names and say hi to eachother and we chat somtimes at band practice and competitions. The problem is, I dont know how do get any closer to him! Yesterday, I went out of my way to sit by him in the bleachers at our band competition, and I talked to him alot durring it, but never really got into any real conversation, just like little comments. I am not shy at all, but I really just cant think of anything to do to get his attention and get him thinking about me. He probably just thought it was a fluke that I sat next to him for all that time yesterday, if he even thought about it at all. I want to invite him to do somthing with my freinds, because he is sorta friends with some of the guys in my group, but my friends havn't done anything lately as a group that would be appropiate to ask him to come to. Another problem is, we only have one week left of band practices and competition... then its totally over for the year, and I dont even have any classes with him. So please help! I really really like him but only have one week to get him! Any ideas?
Oh yes, and I want to flirt with him, but I just dont want it to be too obvious, because you know how it is when you're with your friends and one of them is getting flirted with really hard, and as soon as the flirter leaves you all talk about it and discuss it with the person who was getting flirted with... you know what I mean? Like, I dont wnat to flirt with him alot and then as soon as I leave all his friends will turn to him and say "Woah! She was really trying hard to pick you up, huh?" So what are some really subtle ways that I can lure him in without making a scene?
you said ure not shy, but he may be..
maybe he likes you back but just isn't saying anything or making a move to show you.. alot of guys are like that. but, maybe one day after band practice you could invite him to go get something to eat or something, just you two or maybe a couple other people.. but, not just people your friends with because then that will make him feel akward.. but, when you do hangout with him in a group you should pull him aside and talk to him just you two or have a conversation just you two to show that your interested in what he has to say.
and yah, i know what you mean about the obvious flirting, it's happened to me many times.. but, it's not always a bad thing, because it will get him thinking more and more about it.. but, if you still don't want to make it that obvious ask him to come sit with you, or just sit with him alone.. and i know right now this seems kind of a big step, but he'll get the idea that you want more than just some friend action. :p and if you two do start dating, later on it will be easier to hangout with him, just him if you start doing it now when ure just friends.
hope i helped.
im 16 and i just met this guy at the beginning of school and hes so sweet and nice but hes also such a flirt. For a few weeks we talked every day on the phone and it seemed like he liked me too. But now im not sure because he always talks about other girls. Should i just give up and move on? He still flirts with me alot and occassionally calls, but he could be doing that with other girls tooo. im also way to shy to just come out and tell him i like him. help me!
well, if you know for a fact he flirts with oither girls then i'd say stop before you get yourself into something that will be harder to get out of later. he may be sweet, and he may be nice.. but he's also being the same exact way to other girls. you can't trust guys like that.
being nice and sweet over all is a great quality. but being a flirt isn't.
I'm 12, &I can't tell if I've started my period yet. I'm too embarrassed to tell my mom cos I don't know how to put it in words.
well, believe me you will know when you start your period.
but, it may be embarrassing to talk to your mom about it but it will save you the embarrassment of getting in somewhere where you don't have anything to cover it up..
for instence if you don't talk to her and you get it in..
idk lets say school, then it will show through your pants.
it seems embarassing to talk to them but they have been through it too and they're not going to laugh at you or make jokes.
i was scared to tell my mom at first too but once i did now it feels like i can talk to her about anything.
I'll summarize the story for you.
I like a guy. I don't know if he likes me back. My friend (our friend)(unbeknown est to me until a few days ago) told him that I liked him. He started chuckling nervously, and saying "No, I don't believe you. That's not possible."
A day or two later, that same friend talked to him again about it, going "Do you seriously not believe me?" And he goes "That's such a lie."
I was at this friend's house yesterday when she told me that she told him, so I figured that I needed to talk to him about it. I was going to call him, but that'd be weird, since he'd wonder where I got his number from.
So she texts him, and tells him that I am at her house, and we were messing around, etc. etc. Basically, just to give me a reason to text him. He responds back going "Whatever, haha, liar." My friend and him were texting for a while, then she asked him what he thought of me. That was yesterday night, and he hasn't responded back since.
I don't want my friend to annoy him, but I need to know what's going. He already seems slightly freaked out, for whatever reason, so I don't want to call and freak him out some more.
Help me, please!
And I've been trying to talk to him in school for the last day or two, but there has literally not been a moment for me to even ask.
alright, well. i think you guys are over whelming him. he probabaly doesnt know if he likes you back yet and isnt telling anyone anything because hes just not sure, so give him a couple days, just have a couple normal conversations withh him, without asking him anything or questioning him, then after a couple days ask him and clear everything up. maybe when ure tallking to him drop a couple hints that you like him, but not too many.
leave him in question. :]
hope i helped.
Okay this is embarassing for me but whatever.
15/f
I went to the gynocologist[sp] for the 2nd time in my life today. And I was given more birth control, had blood taken--no stds for me! and I had the body exam or whatever they call it.
Well, My left breast has hurt this bad only twice, always around the time of my peroid but last time, there was no discharge, but I can't be sure because the discharge only comes out if pressure is added to certain parts of my breast.
So Facts:
*major pain on left breast, not so much the right.
*discharge that is milky colored and watery comes out ONLY when pressure/squeezing of the breast.
*around the time of my peroid
*I haven't had kids so I don't think it's breast milk.
Any one know what it could be, like any ideas of what you think?
And do you think I need to get it checked out asap?
Thanks so much in advance.
alright, well. i dont have experience in this but i definetly think you need to go and get this checked out because i have never heard of someone haaving this happen.
sorry if its not what you wanted to hear.
I'm so confused. Let me start way in the beginning. Well, there's this one kid, Tom. I never talked to him before, just saw him in school. He found out I thought he was really hot, so he sent me a message on line saying we should hang out. This was back in November. We never hungout but occasionally talked on facebook that week, and he invited me to a party that weekend to meet up with him. I never went and ignored him in school, because literally, a week after he asked to hangout, he was dating someone.
So we stopped talking for about like a month or two. And in that time he was in 2 relationships. He broke up with his girlfriend a week after they went out to date someone else like 2-3 weeks later, and that relationship didn't last long either, because she broke up with him within 2 weeks.
About a week later, he started talking to me again. (because he finally saw me in school i guess? And this was like the second week on Jan). He would aim me like everyday through out all on January, saying we should hangout and stuff. But i didn't want to hangout with him because i didn't want to get used. But he still talked to me, even when we never hung out. I even would still ignore him in school, but smile occasionally. Then i found out he was going to ask me out, to like date. I told him no because i liked being single. BUT he still kept talking to me online like everyday for hours. During February he was constantly calling me gorgeous and all that weird shit, and he acted as if we dated online or something (he was REALLY weird). I still never hung out with him, but kept on saying we should sometime. He also brought up dating me. I asked him what he wanted out of me, i told him i don't care if all he just wanted to do was hookup, just tell me before i started “hanging out with you and liking you”. But he said he still wanted to date me at some point. Through out these months though, i know he has been planning to “hangout with other girls too” and i know he's hooked up with a few ones too.
Well, we started talking in school since the beginning of March, and he waits for me and walks to my classes and stuff. We hung out last weekend, and hooked up. I was drunk Friday, and told him I wanted to date him. (i know, sorry). But he hasn't brought up dating or anything. I know he was planning to hangout with other girls too, because i read there comments on myspace and facebook.
My question is, is should i still try to talk to him, or ignore him. He's asked me out twice, and admitted to liking me. But both times i told him no, and i think he got the impression was all i wanted to do was hookup. And he still talked to me for like 2 months even though we never hungout. However, then why is he still trying to hangout with all these other girls then?! Like, wtf dude? I don't know, I'm so confused. Like he still aims me all the time, and shit, and trys to talk to me in school whenever he can and even trys sitting with me at lunch. But if he's “supposedly interested” then why is he still talking to all these other girls. I'm starting to like him, but don't want to get hurt, so I'm debating if i should just ignore him. My friend asked him what was going on between me and him, and he said if he had an idea he would tell her.
What the hell should i do?! Thank-you
k, well first off. that was really loooonnnnngg. :p but, anyways.
i say ignore him, hes trying to get you to like him then eventually date and whatever but, im sorry and u may not want to hear this but i really dont think he likes you. i think hes using you and i also think that you should maybe after you stop liking him start talking to him andbeing friends with him, but after reading that i take it hes the guy you cant just be friends with, and i have had experience with those kind. :P but, yah. hes saying all this stuff to you and probably saying the same stuff at the same time to another girl, don't give him the impression that you would hook up with hiom because i have a feeling thats what hes trying to get out of you. and, i know people make mistakes but, if u do it again hes going to keep wanting it and expecting it.
hope i helped.
well now my friend knows i like her
cousin but i dont realley know how to flirt =/
any suggestions on flirting???
myjellybean.com/guys/flirting
Are there any fun clubs, in St. Louis MO, that teenagers could go? We're gonna be getting make-overs and want to go show them off, what are some fun things to do? Also, what are some fun things to do when we get back to the house for the sleep over?
uhm, i don't know about the club thing but when you get back to ure house you could play rockband, if you have it, ddr, wii, whatever you have, but one year me and my friends made t-shirts and stuff with the paint pens, metallic on a black shirt and they were pretty cool, but we made then for volleyball. but, maybe something like that.
hope i helped.
Should I get my boyfriend a picture? In a heart shaped frame? And if yeas, should I get him a picture of us, or a picture of me? We've been together for 15 months...any help within the hour please.I'm also getting him a card I'm making with a picture of us inside of it, and a cupcake from school with a message in it. What do you think??
yeah, i like the idea of a heart shaped frame, but get a picture of you guys. 'cause idk if it's just me but i think it would make you seem kind of conceited, but if you do that don't get him a card with a nother picture of you guys, and yeah, i like the cupcake idea, it's random but very cute, i never would have thought of something like that.
my knee has been hurting for a week or two now. i dont remember doing anything that hurt it, but its my right knee just to the left of my knee cap. its usually fine just walking but shoots pain when i extend it or bend my leg up. anyone know what it could be or what i could do to help it? i cant really afford to see a doctor about it.
uhm, i'm not a doctor but i have had the same problem. and i went to a dfoctor about it and they referred me to PT. but, the physical therapist told me that the knee cap was twisted and out of alignment, i had to do physical therapy for a while and now it's not completely better, it still hurts alot. but, if it doesnt get taken care of then it will eventually tear the tendon on the side it is twisted towards and it will be permentaly like that. now, im not sure if thats whats wrong with yours but, if it hurts on the side on if and sometimes under it and it feels like it shoots down your shin, orrr ifthe top hurts, also if it feels like it hurts under the knee cap. but, if it does any of those things inbox me and i could give you some exercises that i had to do for mine.
hope i helped.
i heard this song that i like a lot..but i dont know its name...can someone tell me the name of the song so that i can download it...it goes like "we are sending, a message to the world"....another song i like is a song by olivia...part of the song goes like "as i walk by quiet streams, the caress of the wind blowing over me, brings a chill to my skin"...pls i will appreciated it you told the name of any of this songs
the first one might be unopened letter to the world.
im not positive, but i hope i helped.
Me and this girl have been talking for a while and we both sound interested in eachother but i was wondering how to ask her out. We hardly get a chance to hang out and now i'll almost never see her in school and i want to ask her out very soon so she doesn't think we arn't going anywhere and move on...cause i seem to find that happen with girls lol. So would it be ok to ask her out via text message or what? Thanks.
don't ask her out over text messaging. thats kind od tacky. but, asking her to hangout over text messaging is a good idea. i suggest ask her to hangout(however you want, texting?) but then if everything goes well when ure together ask her out. like, to date. :p then go from there.
hope i helped.
I feel really fat, all my friends think im like really skinny. I weigh 7 stone and im 13 years old nearly 14 and im 5 ft 3ish. Am I really fat or am I just paranoyed?
uhm, im not sure what 7 stone is but, your probably just paranoid. all girls at this age get paranoid about their weight and feel they are fat and their friends are lying to them about their weight. but, if ure really unconfident maybe try eating a little healthier and go for walks or runs which ever you prefer.
i hope i helped.
for about a month i've been doing lunges to increase my butt size and push ups to increase my upper body strength. i'm only 110lbs (16/f, 5'7") and all of my strength is in my legs, i have NO upper body strength, and i have no butt what-so-ever. i was doing about 15 push ups a day and 20lunges a day and i've been doing this for a month and i haven't seen any increase.
how long is this going to take to see a difference?
~i've also been drinking these milk drink things that have extra protein in them to help me gain weight.
i guess this is a two part question so the other part is:
i've been about 110lbs for a year and a half now. i have a rediculously high metabolism and if i don't eat constantly i can loose a lot of weight which i dont want to do. for example, i'll wake up and be 102lbs, eat breakfast(cereal and toast), lunch(sandwich, soda, chips, maybe ice cream) and dinner(large plate of whatever is for dinner that night) and then i'm constantly snacking all night. before i go to bed i weigh myself and i'll be anywhere from 108-110lbs. go to bed, wake up and weigh myself and i'll be 102-104lbs again. its very frustrating and hard to gain weight when i lose it while sleeping! my new years resolution is the oposite of most americans these days. i want to gain 10lbs by the end of the year but i dont know how. i'd be willing to gain muscle as long as i didn't turn like super buff.
any help for my questions?
well first of all, if you want to gain weight it has to be the rigth kind of weight. like, you dont want a bunch of extra fat. so, you have to eat healthy things. and try doing diffrent things besides pushups and lunges for ure workout and have it scheduled, for ex. like everyday at 4 i have to do this and this. diffrent workouts pinpoint diffrent parts of ure body, you just have to find the right one that works for you.
hope i helped.