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SO Confused!
I'm so confused. Let me start way in the beginning. Well, there's this one kid, Tom. I never talked to him before, just saw him in school. He found out I thought he was really hot, so he sent me a message on line saying we should hang out. This was back in November. We never hungout but occasionally talked on facebook that week, and he invited me to a party that weekend to meet up with him. I never went and ignored him in school, because literally, a week after he asked to hangout, he was dating someone.
So we stopped talking for about like a month or two. And in that time he was in 2 relationships. He broke up with his girlfriend a week after they went out to date someone else like 2-3 weeks later, and that relationship didn't last long either, because she broke up with him within 2 weeks.
About a week later, he started talking to me again. (because he finally saw me in school i guess? And this was like the second week on Jan). He would aim me like everyday through out all on January, saying we should hangout and stuff. But i didn't want to hangout with him because i didn't want to get used. But he still talked to me, even when we never hung out. I even would still ignore him in school, but smile occasionally. Then i found out he was going to ask me out, to like date. I told him no because i liked being single. BUT he still kept talking to me online like everyday for hours. During February he was constantly calling me gorgeous and all that weird shit, and he acted as if we dated online or something (he was REALLY weird). I still never hung out with him, but kept on saying we should sometime. He also brought up dating me. I asked him what he wanted out of me, i told him i don't care if all he just wanted to do was hookup, just tell me before i started “hanging out with you and liking you”. But he said he still wanted to date me at some point. Through out these months though, i know he has been planning to “hangout with other girls too” and i know he's hooked up with a few ones too.
Well, we started talking in school since the beginning of March, and he waits for me and walks to my classes and stuff. We hung out last weekend, and hooked up. I was drunk Friday, and told him I wanted to date him. (i know, sorry). But he hasn't brought up dating or anything. I know he was planning to hangout with other girls too, because i read there comments on myspace and facebook.
My question is, is should i still try to talk to him, or ignore him. He's asked me out twice, and admitted to liking me. But both times i told him no, and i think he got the impression was all i wanted to do was hookup. And he still talked to me for like 2 months even though we never hungout. However, then why is he still trying to hangout with all these other girls then?! Like, wtf dude? I don't know, I'm so confused. Like he still aims me all the time, and shit, and trys to talk to me in school whenever he can and even trys sitting with me at lunch. But if he's “supposedly interested” then why is he still talking to all these other girls. I'm starting to like him, but don't want to get hurt, so I'm debating if i should just ignore him. My friend asked him what was going on between me and him, and he said if he had an idea he would tell her.
What the hell should i do?! Thank-you<3
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k, well first off. that was really loooonnnnngg. :p but, anyways.
i say ignore him, hes trying to get you to like him then eventually date and whatever but, im sorry and u may not want to hear this but i really dont think he likes you. i think hes using you and i also think that you should maybe after you stop liking him start talking to him andbeing friends with him, but after reading that i take it hes the guy you cant just be friends with, and i have had experience with those kind. :P but, yah. hes saying all this stuff to you and probably saying the same stuff at the same time to another girl, don't give him the impression that you would hook up with hiom because i have a feeling thats what hes trying to get out of you. and, i know people make mistakes but, if u do it again hes going to keep wanting it and expecting it.
hope i helped.
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