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Q: 'fingering girl, may have precum on finger, but girl took ipill after the incident....will she be pregnant?

I don't believe she will,but I'm not 100% sure.

Q: I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do

Well you never know unless you ask. They're probably afraid that something bad will happen. But as long as you know how to protect yourself on social media,you will be fine. Just sit down and talk with them,but make sure you let them know that you will be careful and protect yourself.

Q: I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything?

If you are under 18,it is considered child pornography if I have the term right,and he could get jail time for that. But it still is something the police could do.

Q: I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone like me and that he needs a submissive kind of girl who doesn't pick up on the wrong things he does, like I did.I always picked up on all his lies and everything he hid from me. It hit me all at once, last night that he's been using me this past year and using my vulnerability. I cried in front of him for two hours straight and he kept saying the same things like "You're not my first love so I can't hold that much love for you" and "I told you I didn't want a relationship" "My first made me lose all my emotions" . I don't know why I'm so attached to him or why I'm even this devastated over a jerk like him. I just need someone to talk some sense into me. I worry, that I'll never be good enough for someone. What else can I do for someone to make them appreciate me? I allowed him to cross so many limits of mine and went above and beyond for him, and I get this, in return. How will I expect the next guy in my life to appreciate what I'll do for him and not break my heart again?

First of all,I'm so sorry about everything. And I totally understand how you feel,because I was in almost the same situation before. I've dated a lot of jerks.

But don't for a second think that you'll never be good enough for someone. He didn't realize what he had when he had you. But I can promise you that someone will come along and appreciate you. Someone out there is looking for someone like you,and they'll find you one day.

And I know that right now you're heart broken,and in the worse place possible. And when your heart is broken,it feels like every other piece of you is broken and hurting as well. But you can't let that stop you. Getting your heartbroken by someone is definitely going to hurt like hell,and is worse than any physical pain you can experience. But it's also going to help you. It's going to help you realize what you want in your next relationship and what you don't want.

Q: recently i am irritated with peoples stupid questions asking me if i play games on the computer i dont period i have no interest in such things and i do not care if somebody says its fun its not fun to me so is there something you can download to get them deleted from your computer that way when you click on start games wont be up there please give me a list of things to download to get it done thank you .

You don't need to download anything. All you have to do is go to your control panel,which is located in your start menu. Then once you get to your control panel,go to programs and features. From there,you will be able to access every program that's on your computer. Once you find the one that you want to delete,just right click it,and hit uninstall/delete,and you're done.

Q: will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up

Please don't go through with suicide. I know that right now you have a lot going on,but I can promise you that suicide isn't the answer. It won't solve any of your problems. Sometimes us losing everything is a way for us to start over fresh and new

Q: Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg

I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.

I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me.

Well first of all,don't listen to the people who say your're ugly or make fun of how you look,because apparently they're looking at a completely different person,because you are no where near ugly.

I think your haircut looks nice on you as it is. Maybe you can try styling it a different way. For example you could spike it,things like that.

Q: What qualifies someone to give advice on this site?

Anyone can give advice. Personally,I only give advice on subjects I'm familiar with because of personal experience with myself,or friends,etc. Some of those subjects are:sexuality,depression,family problems,friendship problems,etc. I feel that people should only give advice on subjects that they are familiar with.

Hope I helped

Q: My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).

Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.

I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).

My problem is my mother.She's always been an mental abuser and only to me.She says that "I'll never be anything","I'll never go to college,and even if I did I'd fail it","Ill never be anything in life,or have a husband let alone a boyfriend"... That was just this week.

She said that to me because I told her to "hold on one moment" while I was filling up water bottles,and she wanted me to look for a phone number for her.It only took 2 minutes and I couldn't look away or I'd have water on the floor.

My sister is a major suck up to our mother.She sides with her even when moms wrong.She won't stick up for anyone and can't even keep a job that long.she keeps calling out at work and lying to them about why.I tell her to quit it and I get screamed at by mom (mom encourages her to call out).

Right now I got no friends,because I don't have time.I got no other family to go to,and right now mother plans on leaving with my sister.They plan to go to grandma's and I can't come.she made that clear.Were all old enough to be on our own,but we weren't ever encouraged or pushed to go on our own.Our mother was one of those ones that did everything for you,even when you didn't want her to (tried getting her to stop,but that only made her mad and she'd guilt me into letting her).

So where do I go?Do I leave my job and beg my deadbeat dad to go,live with him in another state?
Or do I take my chances on the street?If I do that I lose everything I own.

First of all,I'm sorry for everything that you have had to go through,and is still going through. And your mother is wrong for the things she says to you.And they aren't true,so don't you dare believe them. You will be something in life,and if you choose to go to college,you won't fail at it,and if a husband/boyfriend is what you want,then you will get one.

If you choose to go live with your dad,you shouldn't have to beg. Hopefully sitting down and talking with him will help. You can just let him know that you just need to stay with him until you get on your feet,and have everything fixed and sorted out.

Hope I helped

Q: I'm a 14 year old girl. I've stopped shaving, started wearing more masculine clothes. Thinking about cutting off my hair, etc. because I feel like a boy. I've always been a tomboy but now I want to be a full out boy, that's just how I feel. I think like a guy, act like one, I just don't want to be a girl anymore. I've been thinking about this for a while but I've been holding it in because my mom would accept it but my father would hate it. He'd probably yell at me and force me to stay a girl. But my main problem is I'm 14. I've hit puberty. B-cup boobs, hair down there, menstruation, etc. So I was wondering, is there anything I can do. Is there any like "breast removal surgery" so to speak. And how to I start transitioning and talk to my parents?

There is quite a few things you can do.

The first thing you should do it talk to your parents about it. Gender is something that is assigned to us at birth,but that doesn't mean that it's our true gender. When talking to your parents,you should explain to them how you feel.

After talking to them about it,you should go see a doctor,and they can explain to you your options. One option when transitioning is to take testosterone shots. With the testosterone shots,you will begin to grow more body hair,gain more muscle mass,and eventually your period will stop,and your breasts will become smaller.

After some time on testosterone,you can have "top surgery",where they will remove your breast tissue,and shape them more like men's.

Q: So I'm 15 and yes I know that I have not experienced real love yet with a boyfriend. When I'm in a relationship I never say I love you first because frankly I don't know how to tell if I even love them, so when they say I love you I just say it back. Which I know isn't right and I should be upfront about my feelings, I just rather not break someone's heart. When do you finally realize what love is and how do you know if you truly actually love someone ? Any advice is welcomed, thank you for anyone who answers my question.

Personally,I think there is no one definition of love.Love is different for everyone.It's also something that can't be described. But trust me,you'll know love when it happens.

Q: I'm from asia and i will hopefully graduate BS Biology as my pre-medicine course. I want to study medicine, however I want to have my further study in Finland because they have free education and I don't want to be stuck in my country in my whole life. I'm so confused on what to study to become a doctor. It says that I should study licentiate of medicine and or study an undergraduate degree first before licentiate. However i'm not so sure if i am qualify to study licentiate with my BS biology degree only. Pls help me about this because I'm confused. Am I qualify to study licentiate? I'll be 20 when i will hopefully graduate in my degree now. I did various research but still confused. I made early plans because i really want to study their. Thank you very much.

Well I'm going to help as best as I can.

Since you want to study in Finland,you can choose to study abroad if the school you're going to or at offers it. With studying abroad,the school provides you with a place to stay in the country you choose,and they pay for everything. All you have to do is pay for your plane ticket.

But I believe to become a doctor,you have to take things like chemistry,math,english,biology,etc. But it would be best to talk to the school's counselor,because different schools offer different things.

Hope I helped

Q: How can i make my girlfriend make sex with me

That's just the thing,you can't make her. She has to when she's ready,and you should respect that.

Q: Eyyy. 14/F. So me and my bf have been togheter for a month and a few weeks. I love him a lot. But I also love my friend. He is kind and he plan to kiss me ( my friend) me and my bf havend kiSsed yet!.....* I need help..* what should I do?

Well,I think that you should give yourself time away from the both of them to think it over.Ask yourself such questions as : Which one do I like more?Which one do I love?Why do I love him? Could I see myself in the future with him?If not,why not?

Q: So i like a guy who is a year younger than me. Im going into highschool while he remains in middle school for another year. We're bothsuper mature for our age. We've kissed and madeout several times and im just afriad of next year. I dontwant to leave him. Today he actually came to my house which i live quite a bit out of town where he lives and he just eanted to hangout for a bit. So how will i saw goodbye after when summer ends? i think i might love him:$ ive liked him for a year and a f fewmonths now.

The thing is,if you love him,your not saying goodbye,your just saying see you later.If your both mature for you age,then I think he will understand this.But when you get to highschool,don't forget him.Please don't let another guy get in your head.If you both remember how much you love eachother,then you can make it through.

Q: Summer is coming and I have to go to Busch Gardens for an orchestra competition. Right now I go to a hair salon every two weeks to get my hair flat ironed. But if my hair gets wet it's gonna frizz into an afro. My mom wants me to get braids, but I want my hair to flow. Is there anyway I can have both somehow? (btw I'm black (not to be races) and my hair is naturally curly)

This was the first question that caught my eye.Why?I just changed up my hair also.I'm half black,so can understand your problem.

But it's easy to solve.How? I sometimes get a side of my hair braided,and leave the rest down,because I like the way it looks.If you do that,then you can have your hair both ways.

Here's a link that shows the hairstlye I mentioned :http://www.flickr.com/photos/mynameisjeremy/4770764036/sizes/l/.

Hope I helped

Q: Ok so I like a freshman. I know it

There's nothing wrong with that.My ex bf is a junior and i'm a freshan.But now there's a senior who likes me and I'm a freshman.
My grandmother always say you can't help who you fall in love with.

Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and we live together. He is best friends with his ex girlfriend, which whom he talks to every day. They text at all hours of the night and have a very odd friendship. one time I was going through his messages and he had a message from her at 3 am telling him to come over and "cuddle". We have gotten into arguements over this girl many times and I don't know what to do anymore. He cheated on me during the beginning of our relationship so I am of course paranoid. He swears to me they are just friends but my gut tells me other wise. How do I approach him with this or should I let it go?

He dated her 2 years ago and lived with her. I have told him that I don't want him to cut ties with a close friend but I there is nothing I want then for him to cut her off.

Well,I can understand your situation,because I'm also in one similar to yours.
My boyfriend dated his bestfriend,because he felt I was taking to long to decide if I wanted to date him.They did break up,and now we're together.
Then,he almost kissed her,because he claimed she looks like me,but she looks completely different than I do.
But that's not the point.The point is,is that if it's making you feel like this,then I feel you should confront him about the situation,and explain to him how it's making you feel.

Q: What do i do if my boyfriend is four years older than me what do i do?

Well,first of all,age shouldn't matter if you love eachother.
There's nothing you can do about,if your attracted to him.
Sure,he could go to jail but only if your parents have him sent to jail.
Other than that,keep loving eachother.
Check out Rebel Love SOng by Black Veil Brides,or Seventeen Forever by Metro Station,they apply to your situation.

Q: Okay so the other day my boyfriend sent me the song 1,2,3,4 by the Plain White T's. If you've never heard it its like" there's only one thing two say, three words, for you: i love you." Ya you get the point. So anyways, im trying to find a cute song to send him. It needs to be sung by a girl and i prefer fast songs or country. Any suggestions? Thanks:)