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Ok guys I'm 18 & female. Do yall happen to have any tips for me to make my man crazy over me? What do yall guys love for yalls girlfriend/wife to do that drives yall crazy. I mean I make him happy but, I want to make him even more happy. I've been doing the same routine for about 6 years, & I want to make him surpised & feeling so good, if yall know what I mean =) so do yall men have any tips for me?

You could try a massage i like massages. Or you could try a strip tease or lap dances.

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I play soccer a lot and I noticed that I sweat more than most, not only under my arms but on my back. Im a 14 year old girl, not even close to overweight, very in shape. I sometimes sweat just when it is hot too.. It is so embarrassing. Over-the-counter deoderants don't work and I don't think it is normal. Any advice?

It actually is normal. Idk if you know this or not. But everyone sweats in their lower back. Some Just More Than Other. But if it is really bothering you id see a doctor. because sometimes they have products to help.

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So I am 17 and I was with this guy who was 18 [Josh] for over a year. We got in a big fight because I was with a friend [Angela] he didn't like and he tried hitting me so we ended it for good. When we broke up i was with my friend [Angela] and her family, and I was texting one of my ex named Max. Well in the car my friends Angela's cousin asked for my number so she gave him it.so I was texting him and max and max had been waiting for me to be single for a long time and then we started hanging out. I was texing my friends cousin and found out he liked me and I like him too and max found out and got mad. Then max asked me to stay so I did and we spent most of the day together. I went home and he wasnt texting me so I texted him. He said his phone was about to die so I told him I would talk to him later. Then my friend cousin said he was coming in town sometime soon and really wanted to see me so I told him I would think about it and decided I would. Then my ex josh asked for me back and I said no I really liked these other two guys. Now my ex max is back with his other ex because I wouldn't have sex and my ex josh is coming over [because my mom told him to] tomorrow and I really like this other kid. What do I do. I love josh but my friend cousin is so cute and sweet and we have this connection since day one. Even when I was with Josh I couldn't help but look in his eyes and he would look back in mine.He is the only guy I know who wont try to get in my pants.

Well it seems like your friends cousin would be the safest bet since he wont try anything when you dont want him too. but the safest bet is not always the right choice. it may seem that way at the time . but you said you both have had a connection since day one. if i were you id follow through with it. id see where it was going to lead. because well a person never really knows whats right until they find out first hand.

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i found THE cutest moschino bracelet in the world! It has a white circle on a black band with a big red heart sorta off to one side on it.

here it is if you wanna look

http://www.moschinoboutique.com/item/store/MOSCHINO/tskay/BD67EC2D/rr/1/cod10/50116889WC/areaid//sts//mm/208

My only problem is I don't know how to pronounce moschino so I am asking here. Do you know how?

thanks! I will rate you!

moss shin no

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well... me and my cousin like these two boys they are best friends one of them says hi to us but the other one doesnt really know us we always want to go up to them but when we see them they are surrounded by even more friends or a whole bunch of girls. what should we do should we jus wait around like we always do or should we jus call them over to us, and boys how would you like to be approached by a girl?

Well you could start by calling them over to you and your cousin. Its not a crime for a girl to approach a guy she likes. Some Guys like it. Some don't you'll have to use your judgment here. If youre going to approach the guy try and come off as friend. Dont just go in a sort of i want him. kind of way. Be confident by not too. It can be intimidating. Just Relax. Youll Be Fine.
best of luck to you.

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what does it mean to pop someone's cherry

It means to take a persons specifically a girls virginity.

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In my daughter's school there is a swimming unit in gym class and both boys and girls have the class together. Is this appropriate? Even though its just one piece suits allowed. I assumed they would be seperate. Daughter is in 7th grade by the way

I agree with the others completely. Its really a matter of preferences for you. If you feel she shouldnt be around that type of environment then you could take the appropriate steps to rememedy the situation.

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HI!~ I wanna bleach my hair but I don't really know how. Can you use like regular household bleach like clorox to bleach your hair or do you need some special bleach? Thank you!

no its not wise to put such a harmful chemical in your hair . i believe there is a proper hair (bleach) clorox is a cleaning product . it will cause your hair to fall out . be safe dont use clorox bleach .

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19-f
when you have sex, especially in the missionary position do you have you bascially spread your legs?? like have your feet flat on the bed... kind of like your having a baby in a way?? haha. i mean usually you always have to have your legs spread though right?

Thats usually how it works . its essentially like youre giving birth . yes you usually do have to speak your legs .

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what does it mean when someone says im wearing my heart on my sleeve or anything like that? like just the whole meaning of "heart on my sleeve?" please help thanks

it just means they have just simply made themselves open to the person they're exposed to you they're emotions right there out in the open for you to do with them what you will .

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No matter what the hour, after making out with my girlfriend I'm always very tired after. As far as my body goes I'm okay but my eyes are all heavy and such and I have that feeling of fatigue. Does that happen to anyone else? Awhile later it goes away.

yeah its perfectly normal. its just hmm how do i say this its youre dazed
because generally when youre making out
your eyes are closed it nearly simulates sleep the kissing its sort of soothing and enjoyable .
but at the same time alot of oxygen
is being forced through your moths and noses all at once
a body gets exausted after breathing that many different ways .

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How do you go about giving a handjob to a guy? like i know the mechanics of it, but like if your just making out and then its like oh i want to give him a handjob. how would i go to that? and what do i do for like positioning myself for when he cums? any and all tips are great :)

well you could just like rub him but when he's about to cum just like point it away from yourself
to prevent it from getting on you if thats what you-re trying to avoid getting it on you . make sure you use lube . dry does not go well unless gentle
massage the head play with his balls . have him close his eyes its so much better that way for him plus it helps you get over the awkwardness.

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im really sorry the shows name is fetch with ruff ruffman

lol its okay

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whats dry humping?

dry humping is like when you two are naked you rubbing up against each other to stimulate your selves and there is no penetration involved

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so ive been going tanning for a month or so
and i went tanning two days ago and then i got like hive like things that itch on my stomach, they arent really red or anything but they just kinda itch
and then i skipped a day like i normally do and they went down
and then today i went and they got kinda worse
soo what are these?
and what should i do to take care of them and get rid of them?
thankss

it could jsut be hives but most likely its an allergic reaction from the tanning spray your body may not be able to stand the chemicals

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Does Anybody Know How You Can Write Your Own Advice Column Online And Get Payed For It.... Like An Actual Career ?? Cus I Want A Career As A Advice Columnist And Am Struggling To Find OUt How To Do It

Please Help

your local newspaper i would guess

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can people tell we your not a vigin..?how?
how can you have sex .but without popping your cherry..?
can you loose your virginity if your getting fingered?

dry humping is my guess

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i'm bringing my ex with me on vacation in july. we broke up in april, but we both decided that we were still gonna stay good friends and see where things go from there. i'm still in love with him. he broke it with me because he said his feelings changed, but he said he still wanted me in his life, and i know he means it too. we're going to myrtle beach together and do you think theres a chance of him falling back in love if we're like on the beach at night flirting and hanging out? what do you think of this situation? and what things can i do to make it as romantic as possible. i would do absolutely anything to get back with this guy.

17/f, 17/m
thanks so much for your time.

oh and we were together for about 9 months, if that helps. and we met in the summer and starting dating in the summer.

What i can say is , that you shouldnt pressure him about . what i think about the situation is that you should jsut go with the flow and late at night you two might think about taking a midnight stroll along the beach take flirt have fun enjoy yourself . dont present your self to him as being desperate . and do some of the things he likes doing . make him laugh lie on the beach run your fingers through his hair look into his eyes take you other free hand and run it gently along side his face thatll say it all trust me .

signed concerned columnist XOXO i hope it goes well

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what is a cute or funny text to send to a teen guy that will make him smile or laugh?

the cake is a lie o.O

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so i had a break up fairly recently, and i just sort of miss having someone to love, someone to be myself around. its gotten me kind of down but im determined to find love again, but for now i feel empty. are there any songs about feeling empty?




either it can be upbeat like "love save the empty" by erin mccarley or slow like "something vague"
or just kinda random like "rest, shame, love" by augustana,
"there was no theif" by relient k
or "if youre gone" by matchbox twenty



anything is appreciated, except rap or hip hop or r&b
haha :DTHANKS

um i know a brilliant song by one republic called
come home check it out its amazing

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