So I am 17 and I was with this guy who was 18 [Josh] for over a year. We got in a big fight because I was with a friend [Angela] he didn't like and he tried hitting me so we ended it for good. When we broke up i was with my friend [Angela] and her family, and I was texting one of my ex named Max. Well in the car my friends Angela's cousin asked for my number so she gave him it.so I was texting him and max and max had been waiting for me to be single for a long time and then we started hanging out. I was texing my friends cousin and found out he liked me and I like him too and max found out and got mad. Then max asked me to stay so I did and we spent most of the day together. I went home and he wasnt texting me so I texted him. He said his phone was about to die so I told him I would talk to him later. Then my friend cousin said he was coming in town sometime soon and really wanted to see me so I told him I would think about it and decided I would. Then my ex josh asked for me back and I said no I really liked these other two guys. Now my ex max is back with his other ex because I wouldn't have sex and my ex josh is coming over [because my mom told him to] tomorrow and I really like this other kid. What do I do. I love josh but my friend cousin is so cute and sweet and we have this connection since day one. Even when I was with Josh I couldn't help but look in his eyes and he would look back in mine.He is the only guy I know who wont try to get in my pants.
cederian answered Friday June 4 2010, 6:21 am: Well it seems like your friends cousin would be the safest bet since he wont try anything when you dont want him too. but the safest bet is not always the right choice. it may seem that way at the time . but you said you both have had a connection since day one. if i were you id follow through with it. id see where it was going to lead. because well a person never really knows whats right until they find out first hand. [ cederian's advice column | Ask cederian A Question ]
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