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E-mail: blond4life18@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 12, 2004
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Last Update: July 30, 2004
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Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?
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You need to tell her, as much as you love her, you can't stand hearing about your ex all the time. It was okay at first, but she has gone too far. Maybe try to meet her to someone new you both like and can talk about! But you need to tell her or else she will never stop. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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Well I don't know the choices he makes that upset your parents, but I think if your brother really loves you still, you should give him a chance. You don't want to shut him out from all family because one day he is going to need you. If you all shut him out, then he would have no where to go. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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alrite..this is confusing and will sound dumb, but anyways i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for..awhile now and i wanna make out with him but i dont know how to bring it up...i don`t rly see him that much so idk..any ideas? (link)
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I say next time you are going out with him, if the moment is right, just go for it. If you have been together this long, then I am sure he is feeling the same. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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What is the average weight for a 17yr old?My sister is 17 goin on 18 soon, and is 5'3" and ways 86lbs. She is rele skinny and it almost gets me wonderin............ (link)
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No offence but your sister is too skinny. I am 5'3 and weight 110lbs and I know I am skinny because I wear smalls in juniors. Don't become as skinny as her. I am sure whatever you weight is just fine!
Love, Blonde
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Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think? (link)
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You are skinny!! I am 16, 5'3 and 110 lbs. and I am very skinny! I wear all the small sizes in juniors and I am sure you are wearing XS and S, maybe some M. You are skinny. If you really think you are fat, make sure you dont try to lose weight. If you do, seek help. But trust me, you are skinny!
Love, Blonde
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ok. i am 13. and just recently i fell in love for the first time with this guy but then he moved a few months ago to like the opposite side of the U.S.A.! Before he moved we went out like 10 times on and off. I was so in love! and after he moved i was very very heartbroken and I still am. and we still talk on msn messenger and AIM all the time. and we are still really good friends. but for a while he has had a gf. since he has moved he has gone out with a few girls but sadly their relationships didnt last that long and now he is really in love with this girl. And even tho i am happy for him it still hurts me and it kinda seems like he still likes me but i cant be sure. i know i still love him but i told him i didnt bcuz i am really trying to get over him. but i cant tell if he likes me or not! and now he is coming bak here to visit in a few weeks and he said hes going to come to visit me. and i dont know whats going 2 happen!!! bcuz i still really like him and he was my first love and i dunno if he likes me or not ne more...i think he probly doesnt but we have never really hung out as friends cuz we were basically always gf and bf. i dont know what to do!!! Plz help! (link)
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Well of course he is going to get new girlfriends and enter new relationships. You are telling him you don't love him! If you want him to feel the same way that you do, you have to tell him how you feel and be honest about it. Maybe if he knew that you really did love him, he would be more open to telling you the same. Right now, he could be thinking the same thing you are. You told him you don't love him, but he thinks you still do. He might wonder if you are lying or if it is true. Be honest with the boy. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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im 16, 5'3 and i weight 110 pounds? am i really skinny???????????? answer asap plz (link)
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I am the exact same as you. I am 16, 5'3 and 110 lbs. I am skinny. I fit into smalls in junior departments. You are skinny, but not to the point of being sick. When I was in fifth grade, I weighed 62 lbs. and I was sick. For your size 110 is okay, but don't feel like you are getting fat if you gain a couple pounds, because you are skinny.
Love, Blonde
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hey im katie (( female )) i weight 160 .. im also 5'6 and 14 .. i know im only supposed to weigh like 140 sumpthyn but i cant seem to lose weight i hate the way i look my parents are always giving me a hard time i cry sometimes because i cant be a size 5 or even a 7 or 9 i try so hard to diet and work out but nuthyn seems to work for me i get so depressed sometimes cause of the way i look i hate going to the beach and stuff with my tummy and i have the hardest times finding cute cholthes that fit meh right i always get stuck with oversized shirts i need help i mean i dont really have any questions i just need help to make meh feel better ;; much love Katie Sumner (link)
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Well before you can "fix" your problem, you have to believe you are beautiful. Although you may not be the size 5 you want to be, that doesn't make you any less of a beautiful person. To me, a beautiful person is someone with a good personality. Someone who makes me laugh, someone I like hanging out with, someone who shares the same intestes as me, and someone who is care free and presents themself well. If you are any of these, then you are beautiful. Then from there, if you want to lose weight, add more fruits and veggies to your diet. Excercise more and don't worry about loosing weight. The more you worry about it, the longer it will take. Just eat healthier, get more exercise, and don't stress out about it. Good luck and keep your head up!
Love, Blonde
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Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music ! (link)
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My sister is a huge fan. She does to concerts and everything. She actually gets a Country Weekly Magazine. She knows where you are coming from.
Love, Blonde
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What do you all think about people posting up a "question" for people to check out their column and ask them questions? I don't really like it, but it's not like there's a rule against it or anything that I remember. Just askn for your opinions... (link)
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I just engore them.
Love, Blonde
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I'm 15 and I want a job sooo bad! Does anyone know where I can get one? (link)
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Well a lot of places are strarting to hire people at age 15. Go around your town and see if anyone is hiring. If not, try getting a babysitting job or do some labor. A good thing about doing yard work or babysitting is that it is labor and it is all under the table, so no taxes are taken from what you are being paid. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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whats in style these days ?!
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Well for girls, skirts! It seems that skirts are over powering the shorts. I am not sure for guys. The one's I see just wear the same thing. They don't really have a style, but I can't say that for sure cause I am a girl. But girls love skirts this season.
Love, Blonde
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Well my name Eeyan..I Have a friends name Dily who is a female of 16 and Qayum who is male of 18years old..well Me Myself known Qayum and Dily For a Long time..Three of us known each other very well...
Well Rite Now Me Myself in Love with Dily and Dily also In Love with Me..And Also Qayum In Love With Dily,Dily Also In Love With Qayumm
Da Problems are dis is hard for Dily To choose whether Me o Qayum..Coz She told dat Both of Us are equal..She Likes Everyting bout Me and Everyting Also bout Qayum..Rite now Nuting new came up..Still Duno
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The three of you should sit down and talk. Don't leave the topic until this issue is solved. Make her understand that she can't just play with the two of you. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me (link)
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You have to talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Basically, tell her what you just said. If she is a good friend like you said she is, then she will listen and try to change. If not, then maybe she isn't worth it. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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oh will u suck my dick (link)
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Don't be a dick!
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ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused (link)
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First off, tell her exactly what you just said. You need to let her know you will treat her right and that you really care for her. If a guy told me exactly what you just said, I would date him, given that we were good friends. You just need to let her know how strong you feel about this. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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can anyone tell me what they did for their room to make it look nice, some ideas they wish they did or are going to do.. maybe an idea about how to decorate a picture frame or make one ,, things like that!! please help!!! (link)
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What are you hobbies? You can create a new look for your room by using your hobbies. Ex. if you like sports, make it a sports theme. If you like the beach, make it a beach theme. My brother make a beach theme. He got a beach bedspread, wooden blinds, and he hung his skim board on his wall. He got wooden dressers to match and make his walls a yellow sandy color. But get creative with what you enjoy the most. Good luck and I hope you get a good idea from what I or the other advisors tell you!
Love, Blonde
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Im 5"7 and i weigh 165 pounds... thats fat right? how do i lose that weight to get to a helathy one? (link)
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Add more fruits and vegies into your diet and make sure you get lots of exercise!
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Well my name eeyan...and hav 3best friends..whom is me(M),chester(M),and Zi(F)..Zi is a female..wel she has a bf named G..well i havent talk wit dis G like for ages coz i had heaps of problems need to be settled..he got mad at me..and he made a new rule..he told his gf who is Zi..iF Zi still contact with Me,He will broke his relationship wit Zi as Zi's Boyfrend...Well da main problem is..Zi still wana friends with me but she really love her bf n she has to obey her bf...(Well for me..its stupid because Zi cannot make friends wit me anymore only because her bf mad at me coz i dun talk to him or meet hm)
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Well I think her boyfriend is wrong with this situtation. You need to talk to him and settle whatever is bothering the both of you. Now I am not saying you two have to become friends, but at least make him understand that you can both be in Zi's life. Make sure you include Zi in your cnoversation too. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!
thanx,
~*RiSs*~
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He cheated on you! You need to sit down and talk to him. If he changes his ways, then he's a keeper. If not, then despite your feelings for him, you must break up. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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