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Friends Problem
Well my name eeyan...and hav 3best friends..whom is me(M),chester(M),and Zi(F)..Zi is a female..wel she has a bf named G..well i havent talk wit dis G like for ages coz i had heaps of problems need to be settled..he got mad at me..and he made a new rule..he told his gf who is Zi..iF Zi still contact with Me,He will broke his relationship wit Zi as Zi's Boyfrend...Well da main problem is..Zi still wana friends with me but she really love her bf n she has to obey her bf...(Well for me..its stupid because Zi cannot make friends wit me anymore only because her bf mad at me coz i dun talk to him or meet hm)
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It sounds to me as if her boyfriend needs to get over those old problems between you two and to move on. Use her as your connection with him, and tell him that you don't want to argue. If you don't feel that you can do that, then your friend Zi is going to have to get a new friend. Romance usually comes before friendship before it is recognized that the romance really isn't true..
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If Zi isn't willing to give up G for her friend, then she can't be that much of a mate can she? WHEN WORST COMES TO WORST MY GIRLS COME FIRST isn't that how it goes? She can't be worth it if she can't decide between a friend that will always be there or a boyfriend that will come an go. Talk to Zi and if she still can't decide then cool down your friendship. She really can't be worth it. sorry if that was harsh but i'm shocked that she's finding so hard to choose. PS: Please ask direct questions to my column!
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heyy eeyan, first try talking to zi's boyfriend. and just be like look it, zi is my bestfriend, like my sister, and you not letting us talk isnt cool. and if he really likes her, he should stop, but if he dosent than it defintly isnt worth it and hes not worth the time, and maybe if you talk to zi than she will do something about it but if not and she does stop talking to you dont worry,dont get mad at her, her boyfriend may only last a little while and who ever may break up with whom you be there for her and show her how much you care about her, she will respect you for that and probably see that listening to her boyfriend telling her not to talk to you was wrong! if that helped and you need anymore help you can visit my column or instant message me!
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Well I think her boyfriend is wrong with this situtation. You need to talk to him and settle whatever is bothering the both of you. Now I am not saying you two have to become friends, but at least make him understand that you can both be in Zi's life. Make sure you include Zi in your cnoversation too. Good luck!
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