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i litterally always wear my hair the same way up and in a ponytail..i like having it up and out of my face though..i have long thick wavy curly hair..any ideas on what i can do and how? (link)
wear it down but take the part thats in your hair nd bobbypin it like on the top of your head! a lot of my friends do it nd it loox really cute!


hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help. (link)
just talk to girls the same way you talk to guys! we dont care what we talk about..so just bring up a random conversation about anything! lol!


i'm a busy kid. i'm 13 and go to school and i have a part time job. my uncle owns the store. Well school is out. and even though i'm around people all day i'm lonely. i don't know if it is because i am not around my friends all the time or what. i know that sounds weird, but i love school. i love the teachers and the homework, and going school supply shopping, and clothes shopping. i truely love everything about school. can you give me advice about getting my mind off school. if so please let me know
*~Lucy~* (link)
i like school too because i know that if i do all the work nd stuff then you can hang out w/ yoru friends every day nd everything! nd i think that its great that you get excited about everything! nd i think that you have the same problem as me..im so bored in the summer even like when my friends spend the night! i just dont think its the same! so try having a party w/ all the people that you talk to in school..i bet by the end of the night you wont be thinking about school!


ok well i posted before about some guy....i told him how i felt and he just said things like ohh i knew it but hes totally ok with it....now the thing is that i REALLY like him...so now i dont know what to talk 2 him about because online hes usually the quite one..so what should i talk 2 him about...and i wanna talk 2 him about me liking him but i dont wanna really other him..what should i say without him getting annoyed??? ILL RATE HIGH 4 good answers!! THANKS!! (link)
dont tell him how you feel right away again! just talk to him nd become really good friends! nd then wait until he likes you again! or..you can get one of your friends to ask one of his friends if he still likes you..nd if he does then tell him that you made a terrible mistake nd then ask him out!


I'm thinking about getting side swept bangs. All of you that have them, are there disadvantages? Does it get in your face, and will it take quite a long time to grow out? I also do track, so will it annoy me when I'm running? THanks (link)
side swept bangs are great! i have them nd i love them! nd when your running for track you can use prewrap nd get them outta your face!


i feel like i should exercise more but i don't know what to do, i'm really bad at sports and i'm not into running, got any ideas? (link)
you can lift weights, do sit ups, pull ups, push ups, you can swim or just go outside nd play tag or something w/ your friends!


ok..so lately things havent been the same with me and one of my best friends..i admit i was kinda mean to her a couple times..(it killed me because thats not me at all) but she has been having mood swings ..she would be all great then she would be bitchy and annoying...is there anything i can do to restore our friendship?i just dont know what to do..any suggestions? (link)
you just have to tell her how you feel..nd then tell her that your really sorry for being mean earlier! hopefully she'll forgive you!


I still dont understand eating a girl out. How do you "eat a girls' vagina"? Can someone please tell me how a guy goes about doing it and what he actually does? Like how does he start to do it nd what does the girl do?

sry it jus doesnt make sense.

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hahah! its like when he licks your cilt! it feels really good! you just kinda sit there when hes doing it..or..you could 69..but i think its easier for you to just sit there..but when he does it you have to look like your enjoying it! hope i helped!


okayy this may not seem like a big problem to some people but for me it is. Well ever since september 3rd i have liked this kid luke and for a little bit he liked me but now he doesnt and i still liek him but now two more boys came in the picture. I can go out with one of the two other boys but i will feel so weird cause i still like luke but i know he will never go out with me again and even if i didnt like luke i wouldnt know who to chose with the other two guys. One guy is really sweet and hes liked me for a while but the other one is the same way only hes kinda.. well lets just say he likes sex but he has also liked me for a while and ive gone out with him twice before.. so im really confused right now if you have any ideas on what i could do please answer me (link)
if luke doesnt like you then i wouldnt even bother trying! i know you still like him and its hard to just stop! but if hes not gonna go out w/ you then hes not worth your time! i think you should go out w/ the one that you havent gone out w/ before..just to give him a chance! he seems like a nice guy!


im going to be moving into a new house and the room that i get is pretty small compared to the bigg room i had before, does anyone know any good idea to make the room bigger??
and also any good themes for my room, and if u do any good websites to check out for room decorating?
thanks so much! (link)
www.pbteen.com


ok..if this is the second time i wrote this sry. it says i didnt ask a question and i need some advice. well i am 14 years old and there is this guy. we have been talking for about a month and a half now. he tells me he loves me and we almost had sex. everyone always asks me if we go out, i never know what to tell them so then i just asked him what were we?..were we just talkin or do we go out?..and he said we are just talking. i mean i like u but i want to talk to other girls.

should i keep talkin to him to see if things get better. or shut him outta my life? i just dont wanna get hurt. yah kno? (link)
dont let him outta your life! he just doesnt wonna have a girlfriend..nd i can understand that..becuase sometimes its nice to be single just so you can see what different kinds of people are out there! nd you have to respect that..but have fun w/ him nd who knows..mabie not going out w/ him but still doing stuff w/ him will help you find someone knew!!!


There's someone, someone I love. We were so perfect, but if there's something he doesnt like about me, he'll confront me on it after we have broken up. We were "friends" everytime after we broke up, except this time. It's gotten so bad. He cusses me out on everything, and leads me to believe that he wants to get back together. I want him really bad again, and I keep falling for him, really hard too. It's crazy and mixed up. Everything is so weird and my relationship is way too long to explain, but from that what should I do? (link)
ok..the same thing happened to me w/ a guy..nd he was a total jerk around me nd all my friends..nd i just kept liking him..no matter how hard i tried to stop..but then i went out w/ him..nd it helped me a lot that I broke up w/ him instead of HIM breaking up w/ me..because then people asked me why i had done it..nd it started to remind me of all the things that were wrong w/ him..nd now were really good friends! i hope i helped:-/:-/ ♥


well i dont know what to do....ive liked this guy since 3rd grade and know im in 8th...i really wanna tell him that i like him but he has a girlfriend....im the type of person that doesnt like starting problems....i really wanna tell him but i dont want to just bring up the topic i want to talk 2 him about things that lead the topic....he lyked me in the middle of 6th grade and in da middle of 7th grade but now he has a girlfriend....im planning on talking to him tomorrow cause we always talk at night..so please respond before tomorrow night!! thank you soo much...what do i do?? (link)
wait until him nd his girlfriend brake up..that way his girlfriend isnt mad at you nd you can accually go out w/ him because hes single! i hope i helped a little bit!♥


Well, my bestfriend and i have been best friends for 8 years *I'm going to be a junior* and we've been tennis doubles partners since 8th grade. This summer she's been slacking off and I've been working out everyday. I play tennis atleast 3x a week but i'm starting to play more, and the days i'm not playing i'm reading a book on it or running! I really want to get better and I'm working really hard. But she really isn't. She's played tennis 3x this entire summer! Sometimes she skips tennis practice for work *understandable but she's just afraid to ask to get off an hour early even though she's done it once before and they were fine with it*, but tomorrow she's missing it for a party for some girl she just met! And practice are over at 7- and i doubt the party is even started by then. My friend, who's a year younger then me but also is working hard this year has asked me to be her doubles partner for a tournament coming up. I was like heck yes! I really would rather play with her because I know we'd do really well and my other friend isn't even trying! What to do? (link)
still stay friends w/ your best friend..but mabie she isnt intrested in tennis nd so you should stay w/ your new friend thats a year younger w/ tennis nd working out..but mabie try to help your friend find a sport that she likes nd then mabie you can run or something w/ her so that you both keep in shape!♥


ok so i really really really like this guy. and he knows that i like him but he doesnt seem to care. hes always tellin me how much he likes other people and he has no idea how i feel but thinks that i dont kno how he feels.should i give up and move on or not let go and see what happens
please help me!!!! (link)
if he doesnt care hes not worth your time! i think you just find someone else that you can have fun w/ nd that likes you!♥


Dear amazing people,
One of my best guy friends who I just happen to like is gonig out with this girl...lets call her Shelly. I over heard her talking to her friends about wht shes going to do friday because they dont want to invite my guy friend (alden). I heard her say I can go to 1 and 2 but not 3 and I think she meant base wise. I wanna tell lden but it would break his heart and he would proably think I was lying what do I do?? (link)
first tell Alden..if your really good friends w/ him he should believe you..but if not be like i care about you..why would i want to hurt you like that?! nd then if he still doesnt believe you just tell him i tried to tell you..nd then when he finds out((becasue hes going to in the end))you just have to comfort him nd make him feel better! but dont worry..after the 1st time..he'll always believe you again! i hope that helps! good luck!♥


i feel terrible, because my friend told my other friend that i like him and now hes mad at me. im really mad at the friend who told him because i didnt want the one i like to know because i already knew i couldnt have him and i didnt need proof. I dont know what to do, how can i get him to stop being mad at me?

And my other friend, i thought he was mad at me but hes not, and when i said i dont have anyone left he said "you got me" and i said not really because i feel like your slipping away" and hes like, "well im not" and now i feel like hes so sweet, so i dont deserve him.

also, i feel really sick, like im holding it all in and i just wanna let it go but i can't, anyone know how i can cure this?

also, my 2 friends were talking to me, and the one said ive been in a bad mood lately, and the other one said i need a vacation to relive all the stress, but the only reason im in the bad mood is because the friend i think is so sweet keeps talking about this girl who i dont care about, because i just stopped liking him and im just getting over it, and he knows im sick of hearing it, and i think he's trying really hard now not to talk about her, but i still feel like thats all he can think about.

thanks.

love much (link)
well..first of all if the guy you like is mad at you becasue you like him..hes a jerk..but the other guy seems really sweet! ok..i can understand why your in a bad mood though..becasue that sux for all of that to happen to you..because it happened to me! nd it fixes it all if you get your best girl friend to spend the night nd just have her spill everything thats been going on in her life..nd then you spill everything thats going on in your life! ususally your friends will try to help you out w/ everything nd try to make your life a whole lot better! good luck w/ it all nd i hope everything works out in the end!♥


what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean? (link)
flamer means gay..


I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all. (link)
its ok to hang out w/ guys more! i like hanging out w/ them because they dont judge you on like what you look like nd they dont gossip nd they dont care what you wear to certain things! girl friends are good to have too though..like just because i said that dont ditch all your girl friends..because you do need them too to help you out w/ relationship problems..nd every once in a while its just always good to have a girltalk..but dont worry..hanging out w/ guys is fine!♥


ok, i relly like this guy and i'v liked him for a bout a year. we are really good friends adn i have told him i liked him a few times in the past, but he never really liked me (exept he did otehr times, but i didn't really like him) So in other words our relationshipp never really panned out. But recentally we have become really good friends and i get the feeling he kind of likes me.

but there is a really hot guy who wants to get into my pants. He is acctually really sweat and irrisitable. And i really want a first kiss soon and i knid of want to make the guy i have liked for a long time jelouse. plus he is against this guy who wants to ge in my pants.

Should i try to make my crush jelous? and make out w/ another guy? (link)
ok..i know it sounds bad..but i think you should make your boyfriend jealous..because honestly guys like girls more that they cant get! nd if he liked you when you didnt like him..after your finished w/ the other guy..he'll be all over you! good luck♥




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