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ok..so lately things havent been the same with me and one of my best friends..i admit i was kinda mean to her a couple times..(it killed me because thats not me at all) but she has been having mood swings ..she would be all great then she would be bitchy and annoying...is there anything i can do to restore our friendship?i just dont know what to do..any suggestions?
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i think that you should talk to your friend and ask her why she is being all annoying and say sorry for being kinda mean to her. you really need to just sit her down and talk to her. she has no reason for being bitchy to you. you never did anything. you may have been mean to her a couple of times but u have said your sorrys.
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just let her kno how shes been acting and how sorry you are for doing it to her cause ur seeing how much you dont like it being done to you. and if she tells you she just needs time alone let her and just let her kno you r there for her to talk to if she ever needs you. just be completey honest with her and tell her what your feeling. if shes such a good friend she'll understand and in the end everything will be perfect again
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my advice is to just give it time.. leave her be for a while, and give her time to sort things out.. i know i've been like that before, and i just needed people to leave me alone so i could figure out what to do. if she doesn't come around in a couple of days, then ask her whats been bothering her when shes in a good mood.. she'd prob. open up to you if you catch her when shes alone.
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if you and your friend are talkin on the internet, phone, or face to face.. you hould just come outta the blu and say i know i have been mean to you a few times and im really sorry for all those times.. and say sumtimes you have been mean to me too and i dont like it when we are mean to eachother because you are my best friend and i dont want anything to come between us.. then your friendship should be as good as new!! .... hope i`ve helped you
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Both of you need to learn how to compromise a little. I mean, both of you are changing and anyway you're going to have to do this for the survival of your friendship. Try to be understanding in the things you do and don't repress how you are feeling. Repressing how you feel only adds to the problems ,and this isn't only advice for you but it's to your friend too.You all need to get those issues out and if one of you can't deal with it, rather it's a small isssue or not, then maybe it's a factor of you two out growing each other and that is perfectly alright. It means that you are growing in mentality . Anyway, if you want this friendship to remain what it is, then I think that you really should just try to talk to her about what bothers you . And she should do the same thing when it comes to issues concerning this friendship. And the most important thing above them all is to be understanding and patient.
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you just have to tell her how you feel..nd then tell her that your really sorry for being mean earlier! hopefully she'll forgive you!
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