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my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!! (link)
Well, if your boyfriend is trying to pressure you into doing these things, then are you sure you want to date him?
If it were me, I'd say
"Please stop pressuring me to do these things. If you cannot/will not stop, then we will have to break up"

you have to take a stand for yourself. You can't be pushed around like all the other teenagers that were pressured into sex, and the like.

^^; good luck.


my doctor said im about to start my period soon. really how long is soon? because i went to the doctor for my phyiscal like in feb. or mar. i think it was march. but i wish i knew when it would happen. thanks. (link)
It really just depends =] Your period could be irregular, and not come until 6 months from now.

If it doesn't come in the next 6 months, I suggest you re-visit the doctor, because he might need to prescribe some "period-inducing" pills for you.


everyone says that if you've been dating over 5 months you should have sex. i've been dating my bf for 7. no i dont want to have sex right now at this age. but my mom says she hopes/wants me to have sex AFTER or WHEN im married. i dont know if i can wait that long. but i dont want my mom not to trust me and get mad at me. help!! please! (link)
If you don't want to have sex, then don't. If your boyfriend is pressuring you, perhaps that isn't the best relationship for you.

If you do/are having sex, then make sure you use a condom, and if you can convince your mom to put you on birth control (say..for menstrual reasons), that's good too.

Good luck ^^;


allright im a 13/f

my best friend is a 13/m and... he drinks but i never seen him drink but i was talkin on aim and he seemed like he was drunk the way he was talkin. but i want to know if he really does get drunk or if he was just tryin to impress me or what! see he said to me "why dont you come to my house and get drunk on friday" i was very upset! :( i NEED advice on this
please help me! (cry)! (link)
Well, first, you need to actually go to his house and see what this is all about. =] if he is actually getting drunk, then you need to alert his parents.


Hi it's me again (cujo)
When I go to system and look up the video card ,I don't see where you find the info for how much it holds and I don't know where to upload on the internet. Can you help? Thanks (link)
Nevermind about the video card. =D if it doesn't say, then it probably doesn't have much.

Try Piczo.com, you'll have to make a website, but it only takes a few seconds. Upload your movie as a picture, there.

If the movie isn't too much, go to Putfile. =]

that's all I know. Hope it helped.


I downloaded a movie to my hard drive,but when I go to play it back ,I can't see it,I can only hear it. Any suggestions? Thanks Cujo (link)
Ah. I used to have this problem a lot with my old computer. My problem was that my computer didn't have the video capibilities, and that I was also opening the video in a program that I shouldn't have been.
Try checking the size of the video vs. your video card to see if your computer can handle it. Also try uploading it to the web to see if you can see it there. Go to My Documents--->My Pictures--->click the movie. If your computer is like mine, it should start to play in there. OR, open in Windows Media Player.
If all this fails, the video code is probably broken.

=]


Okay...I've realized a couple days ago that I really, really like this boy I know (I'll call him Bill)...and the same day I came to that conclusion, I was told by a very good friend of mine that Bill has something for her...and that she likes Bill too. (She didn't know that I liked him, of course)...Today, I found that they have officially paired up...and I didn't really do a good job of hiding my disapointment, because "Bill" asked me if somebody made me upset...I said "Not intentionally"...he then asked if it was him that had done anything to make me upset...(Did he suspect or know that I like him??)...Now, I'm not sure if I should tell him that I really like him or not, because I do NOT want to cause any discomfort between me and the two of them, because I care deeply for both of them...but I don't want him to feel like he's doing anything wrong, either. I think if I told them (Or just him) "Hey, I'm disapointed, but I still support you guys", that it would (maybe) make things better...

I really need answers fast on this one, guys...

S. (link)
Wow. This seems like my life =]

When this happened to me, I ended up talking it out with my "Bill", we came to a conclusion, we're fine now, and I've moved on.

I suggest that (eventually), you tell your friend how you feel, but don't get too caught up about it.

If you need any more help, feel free to PM me. I went through this as well :)


Who sings the song Angel... it kinda goes like...to me your like an angel someone who was sent to me from the heavens above to make everything alright... and where can i find the lyrics cause i tried some sites like letssingit.com and typing in the name or lyrics but i cant find it.... thanks mucho!
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Amanda Perez


I have to go on a diet of strictly about 10 apples(or more) and 6 water bottles(and more) per day for 3 days. Do NOT ask why; but I'm a HUGE eater, so ive been having really really bad urges to eat other food. I mean i will stand there and stare at cooler ranch doritoes qiestioning my will power, i just want to eat good food so bad! Soo bad! What is the world can i do to resist these urges to eat good food??!
Thanks for anyone who tries to help(and fives).

xxAnixX (link)
That's not healthy at all. Do not do that. at ALL. That's not fasting. It's horrible!


I really wanna do a cute style with my hair for school.. can you help me find out one..

I have Brown Straight hair and i can do basically ANYTHING with it.

Please help!! (link)
Side ponytails are very flattering.
And Two Ponytails give you an innocent, yet subtly sexy look.

Also, try waves.


Has anyone tried the prescription "Benzaclin" for acne? I really tried everything, proactiv/clean&clear/netrogena/clearasil/etc, and none of them are working, or worked...ever. Almost all of my pimples leave scars, and i have alot of pimples around my t-zone. It brings my confidence down so much cause makeup doesnt even cover it up, and a lot of people always point to it and laugh at me, i know its mean but it makes me feel horrible. ive gotten a prescription before but all it did was burn the hell out of my face so i just stoppped using it after a couple of weeks/months. If anyone has tried this prescription please let me know, and how it worked. I'll have to order it online with a credit card or something because we dont have insurance. thanks soo much.
xXx~*~LoRiix~*~Xx (link)
I've had Benzaclin, and it worked quite well for me, after I washed my face of course.

I suggest you try it!


Okay well first of all this is my first post and all so i really dont know how to do this so i would really like it if you could help me out.

I really really like this guy at me church and all and he told me that he likes me and all and we kind of went out and things but like he is really really touchy-feely and everything and he makes me really nervous but i really like talking to him and would easily trust him with my life.

my other problem is that i have known this guy "cody" for like, ever and he has this really mean and bitchy girlfriend (but she is nice and sweet to him) and all of his friends hate her and tell him but he wont break up with her . although he could do sooo much better. and i also kinda like him.

whats a girl to do?

i will rate high if you give me good advice. (link)
The first guy you described, I don't know him, but he seems a lot like someone I knew who just liked my friend because of her "assets", and basically manipulated. I can't judge you or him, but, I warn you.

Cody needs to deal with it himself.


Is it weird for a girl to practice french kissing on another girl or does that make them lesbian? (link)
It depends. If you like doing it, then maybe you are a lesbian. But a lot of girls in their life tine just want to see what it's like --not actually become one!


okay i have itunes and im sick of paying $1 per song. is there anything thts not illegal that you pay a lot less than $1 per song for that you can download to get music and that works for an ipod? a friend said rhapsody but it doesnt work on the go for ipods. like something you pay $20 a month for and unlimited downloads? pleeese help i need my music! (link)
Limewire isn't illegal. I paid for mine.


ok i like this guy alot but hes going out with one of my friends i mean were not bff but like we hang out and stuff like that and he says he likes me but i dont know...he wants to hook up with me and i really wanna hook up with him too but i dont think that would be fair to my fiend...but like i really really want to and my friends away on vayk in ohio untill sept 2 so she wouldnt find out but i really dont wanna do that to her...please help I RATE HIGH!

PLEASE HELP 14/f (link)
Don't do it. You'd be betraying your friend, and proving just how bad of a friend you really are.

Don't do it.


i'm watching my weight... when checking lables, should i go by the calories, or the calories from fat?
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Um, they're the same thing. Look for carbs AND calories.


how do you scrunch hair so it becomes wavy? my hair not really thick but its usually straight (link)
For making my hair wavy at the end, I sleep with in a tight bun at night. Usually, when I wake up, my hair has a nice bend ^^


i have limewire and i think it screwed my computer up.. my computer doesnt work that well AT ALL .. so do you think limewire is makeing my computer mess up? should i delete it? or if its not limewire.. what is it (link)
I'm not sure =/ I've got Limewire, and I know I've got spyware, but nothing too threatening. Delete it, and then see how your computer runs.
I know Limewire slows mine down a bit.


I've liked my best friend for a year now. we've been very close friends for three years, and we're just very happy being friends and never talked about a relationship. the thing is .. i've been getting jealous lately because he's been talking to this girl about hanging out and hooking up. I normally wouldn't mind, but he hasn't hooked up with anyone ever .. and we are seniors in high school. Eveytime they are supposed to go on a date or hang out, he cancels it and end up hanging out with me, which is understandable .. but when we hang out .. it's like we have a stronger connection other than "just friends".

i feel like he sends me mixed signals, and i know if i try to take it to another level and he's not up for it .. we won't be as close anymore. what's a good way to find out without asking? (link)
I, honestly don't know. You have to ask him. I'm in this situation with my close guy friend. Except vice versa. If you guys are that close, you should be able to talk it out =] we did.


I've been going out with this guy for a month now. I like him a lot. But lately I don't really wanna hang out with him, like the other day he asked me out on a date and I told him I'd talk to him that day. I dunno, but I just don't want to be around him. I am fine talking to him online somtimes, just hanging out in person, I don't really wanna see him. Why is that? (link)
Honestly, you're probably just getting bored. Perhaps it was just lust.

I think you should break up with him, and remain friends.




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