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I LOVE chihuahuas! Im Christian and a full believer! I like talkin basically anywhere. I live in Texas. I love goin to Six Flags! I live in a big house, i have 6 dogs! I love my life and someday ill go to College to become a Veterinarian!

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I like this girl so much but she is practically dedicated to this guy but he doesn't love her the way I do but I can't tell her that I love her because we are likebest friends and I really wanna date this chick but she is to tight on this other guy what do I do?

I think you should wait for them to break up, then you need to comfort her in all ways you can when and if he dumps her. Until then, you should wait and let her have her time.

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Hi, I've been trying to convince my mom to get a trampoline..FOREVER. She's finally considering it....but we need some help.

Where can you buy a trampoline from? (We need one with a net)

How much on average do they cost?

Do you have to set them up yourself, and if so is it difficult?

Have you had any bad experiences with trampolines?

Thanks!

Wal mart has tramps.. so does Academy
Usually the net you have to but seperately
Their not too hard to put together but its definetly something that you would want your dad or uncle to set up

hope i helped good luck with ur trampoline

love always.Stacey

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I have had my heart broken alot. Since my ex (which was ended about 9 months or more ago) I still haven't moved on. Now I have someone I really like that likes me. I want to be with him I am just scared I will be hurt again.. Should I trust him?

He is a wonderful guy and really gorgeous. I am just afraid to give my heart to someone again and then it be handed back broken.

If you truly like this new guy, you should totally go for him. Since your former boyfriend dumped you, thats just him proving that he obviously doesnt want you, so go for this new guy, but make sure you know him well and that hes not "risky".
hope i helped

xOxO

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Hey! My sister is 10 and she wants a Summer job. Her and her 2 friends want to. They keep bugging me for jobs they can do and I really have no idea what 3 ten-year-old girls can do! If you have ant ideas please tell me! Oh yeah, remeber they're 10!!! 10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10
Please don't say any hard jobs for teens or I rate 1's. Thanx! I RATE!

Well they can never get an official contract job, so suggest a lemonade and coke stand! Maybe even try a snowcone stand if you have the supplies. If they are just aiming towards making some money, suggest a garage sale. However, if they want to work try stands with food,drinks,bracelets,etc.
hope i helped

xOxO

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ok so theres this new hot guy at my school,and my friend,well call her beth,well beth was like oh my gosh,well call me ann, oh my gosh ann did you see that hot new guy?!? i was like yeah he always wears my favortie band shirts, his name is,well call him mark, mark,so anytime im around beth shes like o my gosh ann hes soo hot! today she told me she liked him,she hasnt spoken one word to him and yesterday he was wearing one of his awesome band shirts,and in our little group of friends no one knows how she feels about the music i like, but anyways she was like oh my gosh i want that shirt sooo bad!!(oh let me mention this is the girl that refuses to listen to my favorite bands because they scream and they look scary) so i looked at her and i said beth you dont even like that band..they scare you too much. she was like so!! how do i get her to stop acting like such a freakin' poser over a guy!??!?!?!? ill go crazy!!

well for starters you can say " You will never get him to like you, when you is not really you, because one day i promise you will forget what band you said you liked yesterday, be yourself."
Or say something like " If you guys date i cant wait to see your face at The Used concert." haha or something like to make her be HERSELF!
hope i helped

xOxO

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!! There is only one race, the HUMAN RACE. Every living body is human, no matter how you want to judge them for the color of their skin. What makes race colors is judgemental, rude people. Don't make African-Americans suffer like they once did. Back then you have more decency for a pile of poop laying on the ground because you would be nice enought to step over it, and the blacks weren't even given that much respect! I have an open mind and i am not afraid to share it!

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when is mothers day?? thanx!!

Sunday, May 8th.
Please rate me high!!
Hope i helped!

xOxO

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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!

*depressed and sad

Well in the hall give him a small wave or a good ol' HEY. Pretend that if you say 5 words or more to him a day that you get to kiss him....who knows it might really happen. :)
Hope i helped

xOxO

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Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad

This must really hurt. Confront him about how you feel about him not letting you call him Daddy.
Ask him why he wont let you call him daddy on the field.
Hope i helped

xOxO

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My friend lets call her Ashleigh well Ashleigh always is assuming she is fat.. and she is gunna dye.. she is never thinking positive.. she is always thinking negative things about her self.. i really want to help her control her self.. she told me it's mostly b.c of her dad and brother..
her dad has cancer and doesn`nt have much time to live mayb 2 more years..hopefully god will help him and her brother just got released from jail.. and i feel bad for her..if you know ANY way for me to help her please tell me i will rate high if thats what you want

Meli

well if she is fat try to get her motivated to try a diet. If you really want to make her happy give her a really good makeover so she can see the good things about her and how pretty she is. Release her inner beauty and help her with her outer beauty. Give her nothing but confidence. Try to say good things to her and give her alot of compliments. Go to someone you know will help at school, like some of your other friends and ask them to say to Ashleigh " i love your shirt, where did you get it?". Stuff like that will help. Tell your counselor and teacher to give her confidence and boost her self esteem!
Hope i helped

xOxO

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Im 13, and im in 8th grade. Theres this girl, her name is Ashley. She is VERY annoying and she constantly follows me and thinks im her best friend. Shes not my best friend! I have 3 best friends and she is tearing us apart becasuse whenever I leave her for them, she gets mad, and I can't even talk to them without her there! I don't know how to get rid of her because I really want me and my best friends to hang out again without her! I know it's mean but I dont have a choice and shes very geeky and nobody really likes her! Please don't tell me to tell her to go away because everyone is telling me to do that and I don't have the heart to. What should I do?

~Kylie~

Well you can ditch her, which i must say is very hard. Or, you can say to her I really need some time alone and some personal space, can you give me today without you bugging me. If she always wants to hang out, say your busy and make plans with your other three best friends.
Hope i helped

xOxO

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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

Well you need to sit down with him and come up front and ask him " Are you going to change the way you talk to me and treat me? Becuase i really dont like it and its disrespectful." If he says no, then kick him to the curb (with style).

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I am a 13 year old girl and in 7th grade. I would describe my clothes style as preppy. However, the music I normally listen to is (in my opinion, I really don't know) far from preppy. I listen to bands like Green Day, The Killers, Linkin Park, and Evanesence (I don't think I spelled that right). I was just wondering if anyone thought this was weird. I can listen to some "preppy" music (a.k.a- stuff you would find on TRL) but most of it really bugs me, because it doesn't soud like they are the people singing. Again, does anyone think that this is odd? Sorry for the length, but I was just wondering! Thanks in advance to all that reply!

No matter what music you listen to, you are not wierd!! Im like the same way. One time i want to listen to Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears, and then a second later im hooked on greenday or the killers, sometimes even Metallica. And yes you spelled evanescence right. Remember, you are not wierd. You just like cool music and cool threads!
Hope i helped

xOxO

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first of all, i apologize for the misspelling of 'skating', and the general idiotic appearance of the title. but it worked, didn't it? you came in here to correct me! :P

i am a 16 year-old rookie skater (female) who can't ollie yet.

i was at the skateboard-city.com forums, and this guy posts a rather mean post about how most of the girls that skate are posers, who skate to try to get with 'skater boys', or to get the whole 'skater punk rock' look.

whe someone calls you a poser, the first reaction is to deny it. so of course all of the female skaters on that site protested, but it made ME wonder...

am i a poser? i wish i could say no, but i honestly don't know. there are various reasons why i started to skate (about six mo. ago).

i can definitely say that i didn't start skateboarding because i thought the 'skater style' was hot or anything. i am a "girly-girl" however, i'm not so sure about the skater boy factor. what if i unconsciously DID start to skate because i wanted to meet skater boys? i know it's definitely true that i wanted to make some friends (regardless of gender) through skateboarding.

also the fact that skateboarding - just skateboarding around your town and on the streets itself looked "cool" was a part of the reason why i started. but is this necessarily bad? don't guys get inspired, after seeing a skating video, to do better because of how 'cool' it looks?

and, is it possible to start off as a poser (start skating to look cool or meet guys or whatever) but to change along the way?

sorry about the length. however, i'd really appreciate it if someone (hopefully a skater themselves) replied. thanks in advance. i rate.

it depends if you skate alot or not. Usually you can always tell if your tryin to be someone or something that you are not. Its a quesion you have to answer yourself to tell you the truth

xOxO

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i always try many different shampoos conditoners and liquid bodywashes and none of them seem to feel or smell good. does anybody know any of those three things that smell and feel sexy?

i rate high if you dont give me soap bars and 2 in 1 shampoo and conditioners!

Shampoo- Try Nexxus or Samy
Conditioner- Try Nexxus or Samy
Body Wash- Very Sexy. u can get it at Victoria's Secret. It makes u smell good almost all day!

Hope i helped

xOxO

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i asked you a question about how to help my friend and you asked if i go to church and my answer is no...why?

i just sent you a full answer

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i have a friend and she's heavily into drugs she does them all the time because she tries to get away from her problems. she always says she's fine but i know she's not and i don't know how to help her what do i do?

If u go to church then tell your preacher and ask him if he could not tell anyone. Then take her to church and get her involved. Then if you have a help team at church, mines called the 411 group request them to talk to her, but remeber you were never involved. If you don't go to church and your in school then go to your school counselor. They are always a big help. Try, Try, Try and never give up becuase if you pray for her and help her as much as you possibly can, you'll get her on the road to success! hop i helped!

xOxO

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i like this girl at my church but im not sure if she likes me she has called me clingy before but idk. and if we ever broke up then it would probably seem alittle wierd seeing each other at church and i would still want to be her friend even if we did break up. i kissed her on the cheek on this trip with my church and everyone was around because it was true or dare and i think she got alittle mad even though she said that i could.. so im not sure what to do. oh and did i mention that she lives 30 to 45 minutes away from me.. should i go out with her? or what could i do to get her to like me alittle bit more? thanks ill rate 5's for good stuff.

Well you really have a hard situation. First of all, if you really like her you could ask her if she thinks your cute. Start getting to know what she likes. Like her favorite band, colors she likes and then "become her". That means be what she likes. If you dont like that idea then try to find the same kind of girl at your school. Trust me if you guys fail, theres pleanty of fish in the sea! Hope i helped!

xOxO

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I want to dye my hair... not permanent, but not too temporary. I found a hair dye that's made by L'Oreal, called Color Pulse, that comes in a color that I would like for my hair. I have dark brown hair, and Color Pulse supposidly works on dark hair. It lasts for 8-10 shampoos, and also contains no peroxide or ammonia.

Has anyone used this before? What do you think? Is there anyother types of dyes that you would recommend in place of this? I am looking for a dark purpleish plumish type color, if that helps.

Thanks!

I just used colorpulse. I had highlights (not natural) and i put my color as Chilled Plum. It turned out pink and i got kicked out of school. So if you have highlights i would recommend dying your hair your original color (brown, black, red, etc.) and then do the colorpulse! hope i helped
!
xOxO

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how do you know if your in love?

Well your in love when you want to call this boy all day just to see how his day is going and to know if he is thinking about you. You know your in love when you look into his eyes and can say seriously to yourself "thats him"

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