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I am 5'11 and i am a junior in high school i am a "phatty" gurl so im not one of those anorexic heffas. i am down for anything and as my opinion i give very good advice and i have been rated with either 4's or 5's so feel free tgo ask me any thing!!!If there is any one out there lokking for someone to talk to hit me up and maybe we can chat. I'm accepting all applications!!!HEY

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What is the fastest way to get a hickey to dissapear? (link)
if u mix baking powder and water, still it until it makes a paste type mixture...and put it on your hickey and let it stay on until it dries and peels off....sounds weird, but it works!


Iam a 17 female and i've had sex with several different guys all my boyfriends at one point.I have sex like 4 times a week with my present boyfriend and i think i may be pregnant what should i do? (link)
go 2 the doctors....or if you dont feel like you are comfortable doing that you should talk to your mom or anther female adult that oyu feel comfortable talking to.


what exactly is considered sexually active? (link)
sexually active basically means that you are having sex or practicing any other type of sexual realations


me and my bf arent sexually active even tho i want to be cuz i was wiht my last bf. i did it cuz i thought i loved him. i didnt. i know i love my bf now. after such a long relationship i just wanta take it to a new level. i want to be with him in new ways. i wnat to share that wiht him. how do i tho. and... here's where it gets hard. were both grounded for a party we were at and he lives a 1/2 hour away. we r never alone. what can i do. (link)
well i am kind of in the same situation as u....except i am a virgin. My boyfriend is grounded 4 a party he went 2 and i am grounded 4 ma grades.....Now u tell me. He live 45 minutes away from me, and when we do see each other we are either with his mom, public, or with our friends.....all we have ever really done is make out very intamentally. I kind of do think that he is the 1 for me to lose my virginity 2 but, i just dont know.....maybe u can help me!


Im 16 and ive been going out with this great guy Jason(changed the name)for 3 years and have been best friends for 7 i really do love him .we only had sex once but i still got pregnant I told Jason and he was happy and said he wanted us to keep the baby but I still havent told my parents yet Im 5 months pregnant we told his parent and she totally freaked out so Jason* is living with a friend. My parents are really relgious so theyll want me to get married but I dontn know if Im ready to get married because I dont want to marry Jason* and then get a divorce so how should I tell my parent Im pregnant? (link)
i hate to burst you rbubble but unfortionatelly your parents already know......your mom has been pregnant b4...she know the symtoms.....and i am sure you are startin 2 show......


so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate (link)
tell him how you feel....n just tell him that you are a virgin....even if you arent....it make kind of give hima little more respect for your boundaries......N if he breaks up with you just kno wthat he wasnt right for you in the first place. HOPE I COULD HELP


hi,I'm a 15 girl and yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend,well sort of he whent in a little then pulled out then he cumed on my pubic hair could i get pregnate?even if my cherry hasnt been poped?please withe A.S.A.P! i rate very usefull! (link)
well u should have already learned in health class that sperm can not survive out side of the body.......so if he cummed on the ourside of your body then no you cant get pregnant.......but you should have been using a condom...i hope u did! HOPE I COULD HELP.......there is really no such thing as getting your cherry popped........not everybodies inner skin is soft enough to bust.


whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

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There really is no dif., people just like to state the process in dif. ways. Some people say that head is the "black" way of saying it and bj is the "white" way of saying it


Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over a year now..and for somereason I just can't get wet anymore...why not? (link)
cuz maybe hes just dosent turn u on anymore gets somein new or stay high and dry. Hope that I could help


does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help (link)
actually it doesn't hurt that bad but it depends on the way that you can take pain......but i have been told that it stings for the girl for the first 5 pushes until it goes all the way in......Hop ei Could HELP


What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?

And what should be a good age difference? (link)
you should be able to get married at whatever age you want but if it was up to me I would have to say that you should datlest be atleast over the age of twenty and no more than 3 to 5 years apart in age.


i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing? (link)
well I just turned 14 in xdecember and I didnt get my period until January of this year, I am also a very short person and my cousin is about a inch taller than me and she is 17 and she hasn't got her period yet, so dont feel bad and if you relly think that you have stoped growing then ask you rmom to make you an appointment at the doctors office>> Hope that I could help>>>>


this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know

is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?

i will rate 5s because i really want to know... (link)
I really wouldn't know becaues i have never wore a tampon, it isnt big enough to loosen u up, and it can not pop your cherry because your cherry gets poped from the force of having sex and I dont thing that a tampon has enough force for all that


How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? (link)
Honestly I dont plan to loose my virginity until I get married but if you do plan on loosing your virginity before that make sure you ar eat a responsable age that you can take the after math of whatever may happen due to the fact that you will be loosin gyou rvirginity(knock on wood) I hop ethat there is no after math but I also hope that my advice could help you if not sorry I tried.


Once one of my friend told me she cuts herself.
I was very worried so i told my bets frined. Now we arnt bf anymreo and she told everyoen saying "Alex told me Danielle cuts" not daniele is mad at me and evryone is clalign me a gossiper What do i do (link)
Well as of now you will just have to deal with all of the pain and suffering. That is your fault for telling Danielle's business,but as a lesson learned, you really should'nt tell other people things that you would'nt want told. Right now I'm sure Danielle is really hurt because she truted you with something and you broke your sheild of trust that you had with her. Hopefully she will come around and forgive you, but I'm not promising you that you guys will be as close as you used to be . HOPE I COULD HELP AND GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR FRIENDSHIP!!!


Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...

They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"

I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!! (link)
Well all you can basically tell him is that they were doing something that he will do when he gets older, tell him that you dont actually know the name for it, but you just know that it is something older people do. HOPE I COULD HELP, WELL THATS WHAT I TOLD MY LITTLE SISTER WHEN SHE SAW ME GOOD LUCK< AND TELL YOUR SISTER NEXT TIME LOCK THE DOOR.


Are there any ways that your hymen (sp?) can be broken besides sex? Like using tampons, fingering, etc? And can a doctor tell if its broken or not just by looking@ u down there? (like check ups andstuff) (link)
Your hymen is the thin skin on the outside of your vagina. You can not tear your hymen accept for when you have sex.


Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.


-thanks (link)
Yea it should be pretty normal, and if you only have ity for 2 days I bet you anyother girl would wish to be in your place. HOPE I COULD HELP


is it wrong to lose your virginity at 14? whats so wrong about it and will it hurt? im scared to do it cuz i think it will hurt but i really really want to...so will it hurt for my first time?? (link)
Well if you think that you are ready to loose your virginity go ahead and do it. From what I've heard it does kind of sting when you first start but if you ask me I say you should atleat get firgered by atleast 3 fingers before you get fucked so I hope that I could help you but if I didn't I hope you find the advice you need GOOD LUCK


my boyfriend always fingers me and eats me out but the problem is i never have an orgasm. i was wondering why that is or if theres anything i can do to have one?
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Maybe you dont get any affection from that maybe you should try doing something different or continue doing what you have been doing just add something different




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