Hi Im Shandy ! Im 16 years old and my Birthday is December 1st ! I am a christian and i love the Lord with all my heart ! My parents are divorced and i have one lil brother his name is Brandon and he is 5 years old. I have a bf who is the greatest his name is Drew Plemmons and im deeply in love with him we have been dating for almost 3 months now ! If u wanna know anything else just ask away ! I hope i will be able to give all of u great advice ! Thanks for looking at my column! :)
E-mail: Shandiebaby11@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mount Pleasant, NC
Occupation: Student Im a senior in high school and im homeschooled
Age: 16
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Member Since: August 12, 2004
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Does anyone have the "6 Second Abs" machine? Did anyone get any good results? If so, how long did it take and how often did you use it?
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I bought it and guess what NOPE IT DOESN'T WORK BABE!
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I'm getting my nose pierced on Saturday, and I was wondering if anyone got it done, like did it hurt? & If it did how long did the pain last for?? Also. What side should I get it done on?? Left or Right?.. Whats a nice color to start out with? Your favorite color or, a noticeable one. Thanks :) (link)
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i got mine done and u can't even feel it get pink !!!:)
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What can I do about strech marks on my arms and stomach? (link)
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lotions for stretch marks coacoa butter.
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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Yes there is a chance u could be pregnant.. My friend forgot to take a pill and ended up pregnant just from that one time she was married of course though..If you don't start your period on time you should take a pregnancy test ! Hope i helped!
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Well, I have a friend who visits an advice site (the name slips my mind) where most everyone posts idiotic relationship questions riddled with bad spelling, punctuation, and grammer, pretty much in that order. My question is this, how do I tell my friend that he is a moron? And how can I make him stop asking stupid questions? And how can I get him to stop using things like "u" for you, or "r" for are?
Thanks for the help. (link)
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heck ur sitting here making fun of him for asking questions and ur on here asking a question on how u can change the things he does..heres ur answer..let him be who he is and u get a life and stop being his friend if u hate him that much and tell him i will be his friend because i don't care how he is as long as he will be himself ! Goodluck !
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My guy friend..lets call him K..likes me and I like him back..atleast I think so. We got kind of deep and talked about our feelings and stuff..and he told me all the reasons he liked me..I really liked him at that point..he's so sweet. One weired problem..when I'm not talking to him...or just talking to him online..I feel like I can't decide if I really like him or not..but when I talk to him in person it's totally different. I dont know I can't stop thinking about it and it's tearing me apart. If anyone could help..that would be GREAT! THANKS! (link)
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You need to look to him as a friend for now and one day just ask him really how he feels..;) hope i helped ya !
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ok this might be cheesy but i have no freekin idea hat to get my bf for x-mas.. he isnt into skateboarding... not like punkish stuff and like hes just kinda a prep i guess.. but im soo clueless on what to get him! i dont wanna get him somthing that he thinks is retarted!!
help! 13/female (link)
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A sHirt from his favorite store...or a gift certificate from his favorite store hope i helped ya hun !
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ok well i have straight hair but for some reasons its really really frizzy! and like i have "Frizz-ease" but you can only use that when your hair is wet . .. and i usually shower at night and for school its soo frizzy ! does anyone know a friz-control product that you can use on dry hair ?
i`ll rate you a five !! thnxx! (link)
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Sleek and Shine Shampoo and Conditioner by Garnier and Fruitice !
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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do?? (link)
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First oh all not to be mean but ur not a real friend..if u can't control urself enough until he breks up with her ur crazy. second of all if he is cheating on her what makes u think if u got with him he wouldn't cheat on u ? U need to tell her..and u need to stop until they are completely over !! Sorry so harsh babe but its soo true !! Hope i helped and Good Luck !
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well i have this guy friend that i talk to right but it the thing is the is like in his 20 and i really like him. and i can tell that he likes me...the bad thing is that i have boyfriend and i dont want to tell this guy that because he will be heartbroken... i mean he really wants me to go see him like everyweekend i have no clue what to say to him. god i really need up with this one... i really want him what should i do...PLZ HELP??? (link)
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If u really like him more than ur bf but u don't wanna break up with ur guy just tell ur bf that u wanna take things slow for a lil while cause ur a lil confused then date them both on and off and choose ! Hope i helped ya !
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OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.
and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.
Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!
*confused chic* (link)
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I have like soo much dating exprience and what i would do is be like..go up to him and be like i like this guy but he doesn't know it do u think he would want me to ask him out or wait until i know him better ? And then like if he says i think u should..say so do u wanna? and if he says no be like kool...but he better ask me out soon or im going to freak ! That would be a cute yet flirty way of breaking the ice ;) hope i helped ya hun !
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ok i just broke up with my boyfrend like last monday... well theres a dance comin up next friday... n ithink he still likes me but he likes another girl named caroline and he already asked her oout n everything like 2 days afta he dumped me!! but she said no.. ne ways.. hes obveously gonna dance with caroline but if he asks to dance with her but if he asks to dance with me.. should i? wat if he trys to kiss me or something? i need help! i still hav a small microscopic crush on him (the reason he dumped me was because he didnt want to get sick of me n then when we really had to break up tht he neva would talk to me again) n the girl he likes is so much bossyer like she tells him wat to wear n how to style his hair... i neva did tht!!! wat do i do!?!? (link)
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If it were me i would get a way hotter guy to go to the dance with to make him like soo extremely jealous..but hey thats me !! Or..u could just like ask him to dance and tell him how u feel while ur dancing good luck gurlie !
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i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed (link)
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Don't Be An IDIOT ! gO to the doctor thats the only way it will stop hurting ! ;) and if u really broke it i don't think u could have typed unless u did it with one hand !! Goodluck !
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ok so im goin out wit this guy and i like him but i started goin out wit him after i broke up with the first guy i actually loved and it was partially to keep my mind off it but then i started to really actually like him now so i hadnt talked to my ex bf all summer and now he randomly started talkin to me agian and i still have feelings for him anbd i cheated on my current bf wit him a few times but i dont no which one to choose ...help me .... (link)
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Well u have to choose one i know its hard..But u can't have both of them..Think and search deep down in ur heart and u will see which one u need:) i hope i helped u hun !
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i like a boy named jim and my friend asked him for me if he'd ever consider to go out with me/she said nice things about me to him/etc. he said he wasnt sure because he doesnt know me well enough to do that. obviously this means to get to know him better. but i have the horrible case of SHYNESS only around HIM! and ive tried really hard to fix this. i need guy's opinions: what would convince him to go for me? my friend's say he'd go for me it's just i need to get out and show him what im really like. ive got everything that would make him say yes, except my voice keeps holding back. i need advice and help.. any is great- thanks so much. oh yeah- im 14 and try not to mention asking to go places, because in our grade, we arent really into that mode yet. ;) (link)
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You're too young anywayz..sorry to say just be friends first then see what happens..that way u look interested in getting to know him not just wanting a boy friend ! Hope i helped
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I like this guy a lot, but he goes to a different school and lives kinda far away from me. Well we meet acouple of weeks ago and really hit it off. We talk on the phone alot and just resently i went to the movies with him. At the movies nothin happend. I didnt really know what exactly we were (friends, friends with benefits, dating). So i texted his phone later that night to ask. He said that he liked me and he wants to be more than just friends. Well last night at a basketball game we went to, i meet his parents who reffered to me as a friend of his. We just sat at the game and talked. Then afterwards he walked me outside and kissed me. I really like this guy, but i dont want to just be some girl he calls up to get some from, i really want to have a relationship with him but i dont know what the next thing i should do is?!?!?! I might have the chance to go see him again tonight, should i take it?????
Please help, i'll rate high because its so long (link)
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You should def go ? But how old are u ? I mean if ur younger parents may refer to u as a friend because they don't really wanna fess up to their son having a gurl friend ya kno ? But take the chance and be open with him ! He will come around and his parents too ! ;) Hope i helped!
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Well, there's this guy that I like a lot and I talk to him all the time, I have a class with him and my friends that have other classes with him say they forget he's in there because he never talks, but in my class, I talk to him all the time. Kind of like he isn't shy around me and that's awesome. Well, I asked him to this christmas dance because the girls had to ask the guys and he said he didn't know. Well, I asked him on Friday and now it's Tuesday and he hasn't answered me back. It's really weird though because whenever I see him in the hallways, we look over at eachother and sometimes we talk in the hallways and in class he usually will start a conversation with me, just random conversations. I'm not sure what's going on. I mean I know he's shy and all, but I really want to know what he thinks of me. My friend is gonna ask him 6th period if he's gonna go to the dance with me or not, but I'm so confused with his signs, I don't know if they are signs or just friendlyness. The only thing is, in all the other classes he has, he never ever talks and then he gets in my class and whenever we have free time to talk, me and him are talking. Please help! (link)
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Guys are shy..well until a certain age that is.. Just give him time ! He may think that it is bad to like talk to gurls hat his buddies will make fun of him ! I'm sure if he talks to u alot though hes crushing on u he is just afraid to admit it but just be like forward with him/..Walk up and say listen i really badly wanna go to the dance with u so give me an answer yes or no ? Say because if u can't go wih me i may not even go at all ! That will get his attention and if he still doesn't answer pick someone to go with and make him jealous believe me he will come around been there done that gurl !!! :) Hope i helped!
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my sister is having a baby and she really loves symbolic and unique names so i was wondering if i could get some suggestions... thnx :-D (link)
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My name is Shandy its unique and nobody else has it !
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I really want my nose and ears pierced. The problem is Im scared of needles. I've had my ears pierced one but I took them out because I didnt like them. I was about 10 then. And Im 15 now. Does anyone here have there nose pierced? And can you tell me how bad it hurt and the proceduce. And if you're scared of needles how you delt with it? Thanks!! (link)
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I had my nose pierced and my tongue and my ears are pierced 6 times and im scared of needles believe it or not but to me honestly piercings don't hurt !! They are way worth it in the end !! Also.. the procedure for getting my nose pierced the rub it with alchol then take the gun and snap its over with NO BIG DEAL AT ALL ! :) Good luck !
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I need a room makeover..right now my room is aqua blue, and I have a bedspread from target which has Purple, Aqua Blue, Lime green, and yellow all combined..I want a new idea..Im thinking about red, or orange..i'd prefer 2 colors...any good ideas? and tips on decorating? thanks! (link)
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do it two toned..I paint so i know like alot about paints that go good together.. If u like pink do like light pink and hot pink..if u like orange do light orange and bright orange..Also where are u from ?? I may could paint it for u or give u more tips email me at Souledout11@yahoo.com !! PEACE !
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