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i like a boy named jim and my friend asked him for me if he'd ever consider to go out with me/she said nice things about me to him/etc. he said he wasnt sure because he doesnt know me well enough to do that. obviously this means to get to know him better. but i have the horrible case of SHYNESS only around HIM! and ive tried really hard to fix this. i need guy's opinions: what would convince him to go for me? my friend's say he'd go for me it's just i need to get out and show him what im really like. ive got everything that would make him say yes, except my voice keeps holding back. i need advice and help.. any is great- thanks so much. oh yeah- im 14 and try not to mention asking to go places, because in our grade, we arent really into that mode yet. ;)
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You're too young anywayz..sorry to say just be friends first then see what happens..that way u look interested in getting to know him not just wanting a boy friend ! Hope i helped
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if you are in eighth or nineth grade and you aren't in the "going places mode" what planet are you on?! Dude... even six and seventh graders 'go places'. Besides... it'll make you look cooler and older... and going places is fun and gets you something to talk about, or if your at the movies something to not talk about. but if you can't go to a fair, the movies, a cafe/lounge, a local comedy/music/poetry club, the mall, your house, or somewhere... You are pretty much doomed. Just start by saing hi to him... then work your way up to small talk/flirting then call him.
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