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well there this guy at school and well he like likes me he ask me out and i thought i liked him and i told my sis that i did then my sister had told him i said yes then like i broke up with him then like he is trying to give me money and expensive gifts and well i havent excepted them but im confused what should i do.

take the gifts..lol x33

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My boyfriend and i have been goin out for about 11 months and between the first day until maybe th 6th month mark he was the sweetest guy in the world he sang me the dumb cute little love songs and he'd lay on the couch and like wrap his arms around me and say the sweetest things and lately i ask him if he's lost intrest and hes like no baby i love you but i just dont get it, how he doesn do or say the sweet things any more. whats going on??

i think its because he knows that u kno that he loves you..so he doesnt have to try and prove it..he does care for you just now he dont have to show it as much..good luck with everything x33

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Where did u get that glittering name thingy on ur advice page??

Thanks in advance!

carrielynnesworld.com i think

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I have naturatly light ash blonde hair, which is about 2 inches long on top. I really want to dye the tips of my hair red, but I dont know how to go about it! What would I have to do to just dye the tips??

i think ud have to get it professionally done and they would kno..good luck x33 aMaNda

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my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it.

tell him that u have a son which is a big responsibility and that you need to be able to support it..good luck x33 aMaNda

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ok im 13 and have always been energic. Ever since this school school year started ive been exusted every day after school. Its so bad that i acually want to take naps (ive never done that). i don't do after school programs so those can't wear me out. plus for the last 3 days ive done nothing but want to eat (also never done this before). i have no idea wats wrong and i can't go on like this. plz help i'll rate.

p.s. i can't take naps after school i have no time!

i think you have mono..i had it b4 and it sucks..so go to the doctor and they will take a blood test x33 good luck x33 AmaNda

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Okay, last year my friend Chris was such an idiot to me because i was younger, we were never more than friends that made fun of each other and stuff like that just to have a good time. But this year he completely caught me off guard. He's so nice to me and every time i've been in a bad mood or really upset he's always been next to me asking me if i was ok and just kinda letting me know i could talk to him. We actually talk and chill together and he tells me whats going on with him and all his funny stories just to cheer me up. He knows i have some problems in my life but he's never bugged me about them and he knows when there's stuff i cant tell him. Recently i told him i was so sick of my family and friends that i didnt want to go to school and all i did was steal alcohol, but now i cant steal it bc my parents are watching now, so he says that i can meet his friends and call him or them ne time so i can get a ride away from wherever i am and drink at their houses to get my mind off things. I think i really like him now because he seems a lot like me minus my family and friend problems. I want to know what i can do now, bc im waiting for someone to ask me out, but thats also one of my problems, if anyone understands him and why he's acting like this all of a sudden, plz tell me, he's my best friend and i dont know what to do now.

ask the poor boy out =) good luck x33 aMaNda

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In my applied tech class my partner is driving me crazy! Not like a funny crazy but I have to tell myself not to kill her she is so annoying. She has some problems in school but she takes them out on me. She has to have it her way all the time. We are also making rockets and she thinks she is going to keep it just because she says so. My question is how do I stop her or make her shut up? Please help. Thank you.

dont be nice about it..let your inner bitch show lol..just be like dude shut the fuck up the world doesnt revolve around you! but make sure the teacher dont hear..lol..gOod LucK x33 aMaNda

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my hamster is 2 years old and i feed her salad every 3rd or 4th day, i noticed yesterday that she has a small bald spot on her back, it seems as if shes losing fur. whats happening to her?

maybe she is just growing up and is shedding its "baby fur" other then that..idk..ive never had a hampster =( x33 AMaNda

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hey im 14 and im male, i really like two girls at my school equally and i heard they both like me but i dont wanna choose one cuz then the other would get angry and im friends with them so i dont wanna lose a friend/friends what should i do?

uhh...go with the prettier one idk..lol x3 aMaNda

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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me.

hey..i have the same problem..well i had the same problem..but i was in counsuling..and that made everything worse..so i helped myself..everytime i would get mad i squeezed a ice cube till it melted or i went in my room and sat on my bed and did nothing i didnt cry i didnt think i just stared at my wall..soo try that..also go for walks but if your in a bad mood run..it really helps..i dont kno you..but dont destroys your selve any more..its not worth it..b/c when your life does get better..you will have to live with them scars..so just think about what i told you next time you want to cut yourself..and jsut dont..good luck x33 aMaNda...if u ever wanna talk..IM me at x3sunshinebabi or email me at x0aMaNdaLynn3@aol.com

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I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either...

if u like him like you say you do...go for it..follow your heart x33 aMaNda

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I'm a 15/f and I haven't been interested in dating until recently this year. I'm starting to want to have a boyfriend really badly. Do you think the fact that I am so inexperienced in the "physical" side of love (ive kissed three people but I've never made out or gone beyond that) that no guys will date me. This is the only thing holding me back from dating. Also any tips on easy ways to say no to getting physical soon or telling guys that I've never made out that wont make me seem like to much of a loser?? Thanks!

try and find a guy who is in the same situation..x33

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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!

either your mom will understand and relize if u are having sex..that u r using protected..which she will think is good...and if she does get mad says stick with the old "im holdin it for a fried" or we got free ones in healt class er suttin..lol x33 aMaNda

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ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening

if your heart is in that idea..go with it..and if u love her and she loves you..you 2 wont regret it x33 aMaNda

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I am having my 17th birthday party on friday and the theme is pink. I invited guys and they don't care that the theme is pink lol. But this is my first party where guys can come and I am worried something bad will go wrong or that my mom will stay downstairs or something. And what are some games we can play or things we can do that will be fun for both guys and girls? thanks and any other ideas will be great thanks

twIsTa..oR havE liike danciin things lol..be creative x33 aMaNda

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Hey! i am like head over hills in love with this hot boy at my school but my best friend just broke up with him! i do not know if that would be wrong! what do u think????

defnly talk to your friend about it...she shouldnt care..i mean she dumped him..but just incase run it by her 1st x33 gOod LucK aMaNda*

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does anyone know any good slow jams to put on a cd??

Southside by Ashanti and Lloyd x33 aManDa*

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Does anyone know any good CD's that i can ask for for Chirstmas. I dont like Rap or R&B, i like rock/pop. But nothing like Brittney Spears or Xtina. And i'll like anything with electric guitars blarring. Any suggestions?

umm...sry about that wrong question lol

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I've been to about 5 different sites trying to find those large Xanga Icons. All of the ones I went to, the pictures wouldn't show up. It would just be the box with the red X in the corner. I would right click all of them and click on "Show picture" but they would never show up. Does anyone have any sites I could go to? Also, does anyone know how to make the pictures show up other than clicking on the Show Picture selection? I've also tried refreshing the page but with no luck. Any suggestions on what to do? Thank you in advance!

u have to right clik on the pic u want..and then go to properties and it should say address...then you paste it where you want it and then..put less than sign img scr= in front of it...and a greater then sign at the end..kk hope i helped x33 x0ox-*aMaNda* sry...it wouldnt let me do the little symbols =P

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