Hey every one I'm Megan and I'm 16.I like to just hang, relax, and of course go shopping! Like any other teenager I have to put up with alot of drama and what not so I can relate to just about every one. I figured I'd start an advice column i guess because I like giving out advice!
E-mail: m_marie88@yahoo.com
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Hey i need sum help so here it goes.... I like this guy but he lives about 2 hours away from me and idk wat i should do like he tells me he likes me alot and all and he wouldnt know wat to do with out me and he said someday we will meet and stuff but im kinda scared to meet sum1 over the internet..wat do u think should i forget about him or wat? (link)
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Whoa I wouldn't take that chanse he could make up anything that he thinks you'd want to hear, he could be a serial killer for all you know. And how can some one "not live with out you" if you's havent really met? But yeah I would deffenitly not take that risk
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hey i have a problem w/ my friend..okay so she gets online n i start talking to her and she always ALWAYS has to give sum rude remark about me being "fat" or something like that. I mean this is all the time! And we like always joke about stuff like that to e/o but lately shes bin annoying me w/ it and saying stuff too frequently. And i hardly ever say ne thing to her about that stuff unless she says something bout me first! N well i told her that i was tired of it and her reply was that im dumb for bringing it up now bc we always do it. I told her that i wanted it to stop tho but all she did was get mad n now wer not talkin. And we both kno that neither of us r fat! we're quite skinny to tell u the truth lol..but its always being said n i just cant stand it ne more but now shes mad at me n idk what to do! Help plz! (link)
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Next time she trys telling you your fat just ignore her or tell her straight up you want her to stop b/c it really bothers you and if she says your being dumb about it tell her your just telling her how you feel. She might say your being dumb b/c you might embarass her a little when you confront her about it. Silly jokes like that arent worth not talking though. You should probably jsut try to blow it off next time she says something like that though, I know it will be hard but try anyway. Hopefully I help ya out a little bit
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Ok, i have a friend that does to much druges and drinks A LOT and she doesn't live inthe same town as me so i can't watch what she puts in her body. And what she drinks. Is there any other why i can tell her that i am afried for her. Michy (link)
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Tell her straight up how you feel and what shes doing.You could try telling some of her friends to watch her. She might get defensive about it though. good luck
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dear megan
its 6 AM and i cant sleep i have no one to talk to at this hour so i thot id let it all out on here. I like this guy n he tells me he likes me a lot n is always sayin he misses me hugs me alot.But hes with another girl. And i just dont think its unfair that he tells me these things and is still with her.it hurts REALLY bad and most people dont know it but it makes me cry a lot. And i dont know what im suppose to do. Am i suppose to wait to see wut happens with his girl friend?That hurts a lot too. The way he talks to me makes me want to wait for him but im afraid ill be waiting forever. and i know you'll say talk to him about it. But i do! When we talk about it though he tells me he does like me a lot and wants to give his girlfriend a chance though.hes one of my best friends also. When i think about givin space between him and I like not talking as much or calling him im afraid he'll think i was only his friend because i had a "chance". He already thought that and i dont want him to think he was right. I just dont know what to do. I'll think im over it and then he'll say the right thing n im back where i started. Its killing me i cant sleep. So now when he says things to me like " i love you " n compliments me it makes me mad because its almost like hes teasing me. And his girlfriend will rub it in my face. But when i do talk to him i get butterflies n my heart drops n i smile alot n talk to him for hours. We are so alike its almost scary. I just dont know what to do. It hurts to wait . But then im scared if i move on n then somethin does happen n they break up it'll be too late and i'll miss out on it. He tells his friends he wants to be with me if they break up. Its almost like he changes his mind. like what he only feels what he says when hes not with his girlfriend. I hate this feeling i dont think ive ever felt it before and its makeing me feel helpless... please Megan help me its killing me more than any of yous know. Im like in tears and im not a very emotional girl.You know that.damn it....ok im out (link)
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Okay I know you cant help who you like and everything but I really think you should move on. What kind of boyfriend is he to say he wants to break up with his girlfriend and then tell some girl that he likes her and everything know what I mean? What if you and his guy hook up? I mean then your gunna worry about if he's doing the same to you. I just think its not worth the tears for some one who I think is just leading you on becuase he's either afraid to hurt your feelings or just got to caught up and is just going on with it b/c he cant be like o well i dont like you or have feelings for you any more. You need to have a serious talk with him and tell him EXACTLY how you feel. You'll feel alot better and you'll have a load off your chest!
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ok so i have liked this guy ever since i met him in the summer. Its now december and i think about him all the time and i wonder if he ever thinks about me. Like i saw him at the mall and talked to him on the fone. the thing is as soon as me n my frined left his house i started liking him. Which is what always happens! we talk to this guy n right away if i think there cute n stuff i get attracted to them n like them! n well it sux bc this one i kant get over! I hardly ever even talk to him n hes a "pimp" n i really wish i knew what he thought of me but i cud never ask him! N idk when we cud hang out..it really just sux not knowing. And i dont wamnt to ask him bc im afraid he'll wont like me! what to do?? (link)
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Just talk to him whats the worst that could happen? I mean yeah he could say he doesnt like you back or what ever but at least you'll know. And hey he might just like you and is waiting for you to make the first move. And about him being a "pimp" well you cant always believe what you hear.
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Ok, heres the deal. Before being with my boyfriend now (we have been togehter for a month and a half now). I was in a relationship for a month with someone who I thought I loved. Well, lately, my ex and I have been talking and we both have feelings for eachother. But I like my boyfireind and I love being with him. He is the best boyfriend ever but I still have those feelings for my ex. Hes getting ready to go to Basic Training for the Army Reserves. I want to atleast kiss him goodbye but I think it might be wrong and inappropriate. But, he was the best kisser ever and I think it might give me some closer. What should I do? (link)
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It's always hard to just give up on some one especially if you and this someone were dating but if you kiss your ex then just think your risking your relationship that you have now for someone who isnt going to be around much longer. I think you should just say your good byes and leave it at that.
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hello! i was wondering how do you get rid of stretch(growing) marks on your breasts or hip/thighs area?any reconmendations? thank you :) (link)
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Cocoa butter works wonders try it
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well theres this girl at my school who decided to go n cuddle with her suppost to be best friend's boyfriend. and then she tried pullin that "i was drunk, you know id never do that" bullshit. and then she thinks shes gonan be cool by gettin her boobies out for every single person there, and since shes not the skinniest person, not only were her boobs out but a few of her rolls. the visible ones anyways. so yeah then she thinks shes gonna be even cooler by gettin her new friend to talk to this guy that was "talking" to this girl that hates her. and yeah so now that guy wants nothing to do with her anymore but yet he's gonna start talking to, oh lets just call her liberty n lets call the one that got her boobs out:double chin. and he use to talk so much shit on double chin, he hated her. but now hes friends with her probly so he can use her like everyone does. just to hang out with liberty.so yeah the guy needs to def. stop talkin to liberty n go back to who he's suppost to be talkin to. oh yeah n another thing that just gets to me is how double chin got her hair cut, it makes her look 85lbs. fatter!!n she dies her hair almost once a week, so it will probly most likely be falling out sometime soon, or breaking off. she alson wears shirts that let her "very tight" stomach show...am i rude for not telling her?? i just dont want to be mean, im really a very very very nice person (link)
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Whoa sounds like you have a hand full of problems...But hey we all have those "friends" that dress like that and do things for attention. The only thing you can really do it tell her how you feel. And if she doesn't like it then well....she deosn't like it! You should be an honest person even if its riskings some one feelings....well in this case it doesn't sound like you care so BE ASS RUDE AS YOU NEED TO BE!!
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well i have this "friend" n he decided outta nowhere he's not talking to me anymore. So he starts to like this "home wrecker"(as some ppl might call it;)} and his friend tells me that he knows this girl is gonna screw him over n even i know that, n that he'll eventually come back to me casue he always does after everytime a girl does this to him. n his sister n dad like me, but he doesnt! is it cause im a fat ugly cow???? (link)
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I highly doubt your a fat ugly cow lol And as for this home wrecker...kick her ass lol just kidding Screw her and his guy obviously he isnt worth your time. But to piss them both off you should hang out with his sister and still keep in touch with his dad. But yeah he isn't worth your time especially if hes just going to fall back on you.
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I'm not 11 so don't worry. But anyway do you guys think its wrong for two 11 year olds to make out? Two 11 year old kids were making out in my school the other day and I'm in my teens and never been kissed! I just don't think it's fair. What do you guys think? (link)
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I personally don't think you should worry about it. It's human nature.
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I am 14 and I'm in the 8th grade and my best friend in 13 and in the 7th and one of her friends are like always hanging around her and I can stand her friend shes loud and annoying and I tell her to calm down and all but she wont and whe nmy friend in around her friend she acts stupid like her and all and I cant stop hanging out with my friend so like what should I do (link)
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Have you tried talking about it? I think you should if you haven't. Theres a thin line between being obnoxious and funny. Next time she does something stupid tell her she's being annoying and you want her to stop and she what she has to say about it.
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I'm a 13 grl and I'm really self concious about my body. I always think I'm fat but my friends say I'm not.. But I think they r just being nice.. I've thought about becoming anerexic. I know how it hurts ur body and stuff but I dont care. I've eaten less in tha last few days. Am i becoming anerexic? How do you know if you are?
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Why don't you try eating healthy food and exercising?? Yeah it might take a little while but at least that isn't considered having a disease. I'm not trying ot be to blunt about this but I'm just letting you know...Don't ask you friends if they think your fat. It will drive then crazy. I had a friend that did that like everyday and i can't stand to talk to her. SO STOP! And becoming anerexic is the losers way out and you don't want to be a loser do you? NO! Try takling to an anerexic person and i know you'll change your mind about becoming one. And don't just stop eating b/c then you'll gain more weight.
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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks (link)
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Why don't you try going out with some other guys to the movies or something adn see if you are attracted to any of them. I'm sure you'll get your mind off of him if your with some one else. Try it out and see if it works!
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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks. We have gone out for the same amount of time before, and I was the one that broke it off. I didn't feel it was right to go out with him when I just wanted to be friends. Well now, I am not happy in our relationship... AGAIN. He is not supportive at all, and I am the kind of girl that likes the single life. I don't like spending time with him, and I don't feel like there is butterflies in my stomach at all when I see him. But I will feel bad for breaking up with him AGAIN, and everybody will be mad at me and call me a whore. Should I break up with him anyway, or stick with him and make myself happy?
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The last thing you want to do is be in a relationship where your unhappy it's not fair to you and it's not fair to him. Who cares what other poeple think, let them them think your a whore if they want to think that just remember that your not.
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i really like this kid evan. and we were at a party a couple of weeks ago and he was like hugging me a lot and flirting with me. i didnt like him then but when i was upset because the boy i did like, david was all over my best friend and i started crying and then evan started telling me i could do better than him and hugging me really tight and close to him. now i like him, and my friend asked him if i ever asked him to go out what would he say and he said no, which really confussed me cause we were friends and we always flirted in the hall but he wouldnt go out with me now? we arent in the same class but i see him alot in the hallways, i dont get it.. what can i do to get him to like me, we arent in the same class but i see him alot in the hallways? (link)
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Try talking to him about it. Maybe he likes you but he doesn't want every one to know or maybe he's just shy and sort of scared when it comes to having girlfriends. But at least he likes you as a friend b/c most relationships end but friendships can last a life time. But why don't you have him over or something and hang out and see where it goes from there.
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ok there's this boy i like but i don't know what to tell him i'm only a 13 tear old girl wh's really cofussed i don't know if he likes me. How do i find out if he likes me back? My best friend asked him out for me but he said no but now me and him are becoming really really good friends an i don't want to ruein our friendship. what sould i do? (link)
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Try asking him y our self if he likes you or not. And if you can't do it to his face write him a note about it and see what he has to say. But remember you don't want to ruin your relationship so don't come off to obsessive to him. Good Luck.
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I have this friend. and she is always lieing to me and denying it and she just doesnt care about me. She has a new addition to her life n shes addicted to it its like its the only thing that matters to her. and she thinks i hav a penis. what should i do!? (link)
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Whoa a penis? Why would she think that? Try talking to her about it if you haven't already and see hwat she has to say. You could always try leaving her alone for a while untill she realizes that shes not the only important person out there.
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ok so i asked you guys adivce earlier on what i should get my bf of 2 years for x-mas, and most of you said i should make a scrapbook. i think that's a really good idea, but i really have no idea how to make one! i was also thinking about taking 12 pics of us to kinkos and making a calendar out of it. guys opinions here would be good, but girls are welcome too. which do you think would be better? how should i go about making the scrapbook? thanks (link)
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Honestly I don't think a scrap book is the way to go. UNLESS he's into pictures and stuff. I'd get him something a little more...guyish. Why don't you ask him what all he wants and see what he says.
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okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do .. (link)
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Why don't you try thinking about this other boy. And do things to get your mind off your ex. If you go back out with your ex chanses are you'll be unhappy. And no one wants to be unhappy.
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i was with my bf.. and i farted he hasnt really talking to me sense. whats he thinkin bout? (link)
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Whoa lol he might be a little grossed out right now but I', sure he'll get over it. It's not like he doesn't fart. Everytime you do talk to him try not to talk about anything with butts fart or bathrooms or anything so that he doesn't think about it.
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