ok...my name is Jessica im 15 years old and i am a very caring but outspoken person!!I love to help people with their problems...Im not saying im the best person to go to for advice but you can try it and ill tell you how i feel and what i would do if i was you and i will help you the best way i can...i have alot of problems in my life right now to so be on the look out for questions from me!! Love ya guyz!! *Jess*
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Occupation: school
Age: 15
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the guy i like likes my best friend and shes prettyer then me !very very prettyer then me !but she doesnt like hi shes only leading him on do i tell him or keep it to myself (link)
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well if i was you i would tell him because theres no since in him getting hurt over your friend...but then to think of the possibilities of your friend getting mad at you or whatever do what you feel is right...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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first off, i have a good friend. she at least seems to be. now today she came up to me and we made plans since she was ungrounded since she got an A on something or w/e... but then afterschool she comes up to me she`s like "I AM GOING TO ___`S HOUSE." ___ is well some girl who she tells me she hates, since i dislike the girl. but they always hang so w/e. well i was like ummm ok. because she had promised we had plans. then she decides to ignore me and she just lets her little group push me to the side. i don`t know what to do, because she is my best friend that lives in my state. my BEST friend moved across the country and it is the worst thing imagineable. HELP ME! is this girl who ditched me really my friend or not? (link)
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ok to tell the truth i dont think shes a good friend at all...because a true friend wouldnt ditch you for her other friends when yall made plans already...believe me i went through this same thing last year except i was homeschooled and my bestfriend went to school and she was friends with this girl that nobody liked and that had a problem with me because she said i was a prep or whatever and i just told her how i felt and it made her mad for awhile but it helped...maybe you should let her know how it feels to be ditched on...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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I wanna show the nation my appreciation: Girl your my angel, your my darling angel. Girl your my friend when I'm in need, baby
does anyone know the name of this song...and who sings it? easy 5 (link)
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umm its by Shaggy and its called Angel
your friend,
Jess
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Ok, I like to sing.. and Im pretty good at it(not to be concieded or w/e) but I have the worst stage fright and everyone gets mad when I dont get up in front of ppl and sing.. Its like my personality I am really outgoing and crazy if I know you and am comfortable around you, but if I dont know you Im kinda shy and everything..how do I overcome this!? (link)
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omg im the same way your are...i love to sing and everybody tells me im really good at it(not to be bragging lol) but im soo shy infront of people i dont know that well...but practice singing infront of people you are comfortable with and then start singing at other stuff with some friends there to cheer you on...when you get on stage and all the lights are on you...you'll do great and just picture yourself singing o your family or close friends or whatever...you'll do just fine i promise...i started singing at church when i was little and i wouldnt sing any where else but church then...i sang at a county festival but i sang with my friends and that was fun and i just overcome my fear over the summer in a pageant...all the other pageants i was in i wouldnt sing i would dance or something and now im singing infront of anybody really doesnt matter who they are lol...you'll be fine
good luck
your friend,
Jess
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i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
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ok dont worry about it...i went through the same stage when i was like 12 or so but i got out of it quick...find a guy you really like and then if you want to make out with him then go for it dont worry about being bad at it i know thats hard but some guys are bad at it to so just give it a try you'll get use to it believe me...alot of guys are weirded out if you dont want to make out with them...my ex boyfriend lets just say he loved to make out and if i wasnt in the mood or something he would get mad but if you dont want to dont let a guy pressure you do what your heart tells you to do...hope i helped
your friend,
Jess
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Ok so i asked a question a few weeks ago about doing something with a rose for Xmas for my girlfriend and i got alot of positive feedback about it.. you might of read it.. had to do with a glass rose? well if not i decided to change it up a bit, tell me how you(a girl) would feel if your boyfriend did something like this for Xmas::
Along with your other presents, brough over a vace we 11 roses in it, and one glass rose, making a dozen roses total. And put a card in there that says, "I will stop loving you when the last rose dies." (for all the not-so-smart girls out there, 'a glass rose wont ever die') Sooo how would you like it? yes? no? maybe? (link)
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yes i would love that...i think that is soo sweet i would love it if my boyfriend did something like that for me lol...if i was you i would do it because she would probably flip out or something...girls love that kind of thing ya know
good luck,
Jess
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My friend stopped speaking to me beacuse of her other friend. I tried to apoligize but it didn't work. We haven't spoken in like 6 months and I never see her anymore because she moved. What would you do in this situation? What do you think of my friend?
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I dont think your friend is much of a friend to tell you the truth because even though her other friend told her something or whatever she sould still talk to you and be your friend nomatter what...so maybe you should still try to talk to her but if it doesnt work then just forget it she wasnt a good friend and you could do better...i hope everything works out for the best
your friend,
Jess
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I think I might like my ex boyfriends best friend. I don;t now what to do. I still like my ex but I think I may like his friend more. what should I do. If you have ever had a problem like this please tell me what you did. thanks. (link)
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Ok...to tell you the truth i've been through this plenty of times and when me and my ex broke up i still had feelings for him but i went out with one of his close friends and they still stayed friends...no problems well when me and that guy broke up i still liked my ex and i started talking to some other guy and a few weeks later I found out that he was friends with my ex too but i still went out with him and they were like bestfriends and i didnt know it and they actually stopped talking and was about to fight over this and now we're broke up to and they still dont talk so i dont know it all depends on who these guys are and how close of friends they really are...But if you think about it and still like his friend more then find out if he likes you and go for it!!
Hope this helps,
Jess
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For some odd reason I am sometimes not physically attracted to my boyfriend ive had this problem before but is this normal? I mean he’s not at all a bad looking guy but its just sometimes I just catch my self saying (in my mind) eww! But I feel really bad because I love him and he is really in love with me and I can’t seem to stop this
Is there something Wrong with me?? Or does every girl have this problem?? (link)
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OMG this is so weird im going through that too...I went with this guy for like a year or so and i loved him to death and i know he felt the same way but sometimes i was like "omg grrl what is wrong with you?" you know well i still do that sometimes and we're not together anymore but we're still real close...and like sometimes he's like soo hot and the next he's like eww...and i know my friend goes through this too so i guess its kind of normal i dont know lol i hope this kind of helps you out a bit!!
your friend,
Jessica
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hi i like this boy who i no is just using me for sex but i keep letting him because i like him what should i do (link)
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hey...i've been in this same situation most guys where im from is like that...if you like this guy then stay with him but dont let him use you because it will go around that you're easy and stuff and believe me you dont want that so maybe you should talk to this guy and make sure he is using you for sex!!
your friend,
Jessica
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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ok if i was you i WOULD NOT break up with him on his birthday because i mean would you like that if somebody did that to you? I dont think you would i know i wouldnt...so wait a few days after his birthday and then break up with him (IF THATS WHAT YOU REALLY WANT) but sit down and take the time to think about this and make sure this is what you want and make sure you're going to be happy this way because if not then its a waiste of time...I think that it is wrong for you to be hanging out with his bestfriend without him knowing it to...talking on the phone with him would be ok i guess but going out and flirting with him and stuff thats kinda wrong...but if you're wanting to go out with his bestfriend then wait awhile before you date him because that would hurt your boyfriends feelings BAD so wait alittle bit...hope this helps you out
your friend,
Jess
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hey umm theres this guy that i like and my friend was iming him and sh asked him if i asked him out if he would say yes and he said yes, so now i want to ask him out but ive never had a bf so i have absolutley NO clue how to say it...please help asap!!! btw im 13/f if it helps (link)
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ok i think you should go up to him and say "hey i heard that you liked me is that true?" and see what he says and if he says yes then say "oh i like you too,so want to go out sometime?" or something like that...you have alot of guts...asking a guy out lol thats something i've never been able to do i make them ask me lol...but i think its sweet if you ask him!!
Hope this helps you out,
Jessica
Get back at me and let me know how things workout!!
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Okay me and this boy have been friend FOREVER
and now he is saying that people in our school are saying that we are going out, and were not.
And so now everyone thinks we are and i am like WERE NOTTTTT OKAY and so now he asked me should
I go out with him??????
he is cute but he's not that cute HE IS REALLLLLYYYYYY NICE!!!!!!!! (link)
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ok i went through this too seriously actually a few months ago lol but anyways if you like him then go out with him it wouldnt hurt anything just make sure it doesnt ruin you guys friendships...but make sure he likes you really and that this is what he really wants and if you decide you like him or you want to give it a try go for it...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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ok here the thing. i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. but, i got an ex girlfriend who doesn't know when to let go. my ex always talks about how she misses me & wants to kiss me & all this other crap. so my question is, how do i get rid of my ex without hurting her feelings & without breakin up with my current girlfriend?
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okay...i think you should tell uour ex how you feel without hurting her feelings...do you still love your ex girlfriend? i mean think about all this before you tell her to leave you alone...just sit your ex down and tell her how you feel and then see what she says and see what happens...this girl obviously cares for you so just see how she feels and if you dont want to be with her then you two just be friends and see what happens in the long run...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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okay, so i like a guy and i think he likes me back. the only problem is that there's this girl at my school who's his ex-girlfriend and they've been though a lot, and also just recently broken up. the girl isn't really my friend, but sort of a "friend of a friend". so i don't know whether to keep liking the guy, or to forget about it because he might be "off-limits". i'm really confused, please help!
[i give 5's for good answers, thanks]
by the way, i'm in junior high. (link)
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ok i think you should talk to this guy and see if he still cares for his ex...if not then go for it but if he does then just be friends with him for a while and see how things go in the future
your friend,
Jess
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what if your boyfriend does not know your kissing his best friend and me and his friend act wierd around him (link)
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ok...i know this might not sound to great but why in the world would you kiss your boyfriends best friend? You should not be with this boy if you're kissin his friend...that makes no sense you should break up with this guy if you dont want him...i think you should sit this guy down and tell him whats been going on and tell him that you're sorry and maybe break up with this guy and date his friend since you've been kissin him...but i think you and this guys friend arent true friends to this guy...
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WHat if the whole skool find out that your pregnant. But you didn't want errybody to know. You told the one person you thought you could trust, and they told. What do I do? Should I deney it or should I say something to that person I told? (link)
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i think you should confront the person that you told because i dont think its right that you trusted them not to tell and then they go off and tell other people but if i was you i would confront this person you told and see why they told everybody else...hope this helpes
your friend,
Jessica
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my best friend is acting werid! she got mad at me because i told her i wanted my straightner back and she got all mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and took me out of her profile.. what should i do? (link)
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ok i think you need to sit down and talk to your friend because she got mad at you for no reason...ask her why she got mad just because you told her you wanted your straightner back and see why she took you out of her profile!! Seems like shes having a few problems of her own so try to talk to her and settle things wither her and see how things go...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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ok so i know you gyes hate these qustions but i cant answer it on my own. ok so i still like my x but he has a girl friend.shes really mean and dose not want us to be friends.so today she went home sick and my x DID NOT seem to care. So today he huged me and flrted with me. He also spraed his favorite colnge on me which smelled really good!! I dont know if i should ask him if he still likes me or just let narure take its corse?? I really need help on this one i want to know if he still likes me??
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ok i think you should talk to him about this and see what he says...maybe he just wants to be friends with you ya kno...but i do see where his gf is comin from because i wouldnt want my bf bein friends wit his ex cuz that would be weird...and i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels and go from there...hope this helped some!!
your friend,
Jessica
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14/f so i've been with my boyfriend for half a year.. and umm we made out a little i guess... so we were lying on my bed...watching tv and whatnot. his hand was on my pants playing with the belt hoops and suddenly he put his hand down my pants slightly...then he went farther and i kinda jumped...and told him no so he was okay with it...soo its a couple of days later..and i'm hanging out with him... he has his arms around me from behind and then his hands drop around my stomach and lower..then he puts his hands on my legs and he moves his hands... brushing up against /there/ and then he suddenly moves his hands to my stomach again...then few minutes later he puts his hands against THERE again...and i kinda got stiff...and i told him not to do it again.. i dunno.... so im just confused. in my mind i wouldn't mind if he did it but my parents said that im too young to do anything below the neck so.. yea and thats stuck in my head so i'm just stuck in middle of wondering what to do.. so..
the next time he does that..what do I do? break up with him or seriously tell him 'NO'. yeah..
lately hes getting a little weird..or horny i guess? cuz when we hang out...he's always behind me pushing my ass into him and whatnot... or like..he pushed me up into a table and talked to people while he was between me..then he would come closer and kiss me while leaning over the table a little too much.. almost like the missionary position. yeahhhh. i dunno. i'm just..blah right now. i don't want to have sex because that ruins a relationship...if you dont get enough or if you do it too much. gah. i dunno! (link)
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i think you should sit down and talk to him about this because maybe he's taking things alittle to far...i think you should just tell him your not quit ready for that yet and see what happens...i know its kind of hard but you have to do it or he will keep on and keep on!!!hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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