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I have to admit, I'm a huge wuss and I can't drink any hard alcohol straight. I always have to mix it with soda or something. Is there any way to make drinking alcohol straight easier or more tolerable?

well one, alcohol is supposed to taste gross. It does because you don't like it. If you don't like it, don't drink it. Really, its bad for you because it's really addicting and it can screw up your life and your relationships. Its just really bad for you in the first place. That doesn't make you a wuss, if you don't drink it, that makes you smart. If you must, it is so much better to mix it with soda because the effect isn't so bad.

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ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!!

Don't just break up with someone because your friends tell you to, or just because you've been dating for longer than a whore would. If you like him and you like the way things are going, stay together. Its not your friend's decision or even business about what happens with you two. Do what you want, ignore other people. Good Luck.

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I'm the same person who asked how i could persuade my parents to let me keep my brother's dog while he is forced to live in hawaii(military orders). My brother and I decided to talk to our parents(for the third time) and my dad was cool with it but my mom wasn't. Everything got out of control and my mom and my grandmother got into this violent argument and my mom was close to killing my grandmother. My mom saids that my brother deserves the pain of his problems just because my brother is taking a while to pay her back cuz he doesn't have much money rite now. To her money comes before family so itz her #1 priority. So my mom threatened to pack up and leave home forever if the dog moves in. I'm so upset and stressed out. what should I do?

Let her leave. Honestly, if thats the way she feels, she should go live on her own and deal with herself. It's not your fault she's that way. I highly doubt she'd do it anyway. She sounds like she just wants to get her own way. Honestly, no offense, but she sounds like a total bitch. Just tell her, she doesn't have to care for the dog, you will, and if she has that much of a problem with it, then too bad. Move out. Good Luck.

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does anyone know a website that has chain letters like those kinds that have you write numbers 1 - 11 and out your crushes name blah blah blah ... and then haves you make a wish & send to like 10 people in the next 15minutes?

make your own. Thats what me and my sisters always do. It's fun, and it takes up time.

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resently i missplaced my sims 2 serial# and was wondering if any body could give me theres...i found a site that would give it to me but it said i had to pay 10$.............if u answer my question without any money involved ill give u a 5

you can't. Each cd has its own number, so if you put in someone else's, it won't work because it won't match the cd. It's stupid, I know, but you either have to find it, or buy a new cd. I know because it's happened to me before. Good Luck.

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ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight???

no, you're not over weight. Thats fine. You and your sister probably have different body types. She is probably a bit under weight. You're fine, nothing to worry about.

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yeah I know the slogan is really cheesy (oragami is the art of folding paper hairagami is the art of folding hair) but the product is really cool. where can you get it (not online)???? I can't seem to find it anywhere! It's not at longs of safeway! pleez someone help me!!!

my personal opinion, is don't get it. My cousin bought it and she says it doesn't work. We've tried to use it so many times, and its just crappy. You'd be much better just doing your hair the normal way. But if you must want it, check As Seen on TV or specialty stores. Look it up online even. Good Luck.

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I'm 14 and I'm one of 3 people in my grade that doesn't have a cell phone. I'm constantly out with my friends and they don't like me to call home on their phones cus it uses there minutes. *They didn't mind at first but when I have to constantly call home they got frusterated* My parents want me to call all the time when I'm out. I've tried explaining to them all the reasons why I need one, Like how they want me to call home and all that but they still say you dont get one till your 16 like your brothers. Well, im not my brothers, im more responsible, but i tried to tell my parents that and they wont believe me!
What should I do?

tell them that you can't call. You don't have a cell phone. Say you can't keep using your friends minutes, its not fair, unless you start paying them. Tell them, if they want you to call, they need to give you a phone, otherwise, you can't. Trust me, I know the feeling when people are constantly using your phone, and when you have to use other peoples. It suckx. Just explain to them. Good Luck.

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why is virginity and breaking virginity such a big deal? like oh, you had sex for your first time. whats so big about taht? all it is is having sex except the first time. im serious can someone tell me why this is so big?

Because having sex isn't just some activity. Well, it has turned into that now. Its supposed to be a sign of something, that you love and care for that person. I realize now everyone thinks they should just do it to do it, but it is supposed to be something special. It IS a big deal. Its a very big deal.

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Okay, I asked the discharge question like an hour ago. My period just came but i dont know how to tell my mom cause someone from her work is here so shes working with her. How should I tell her, i dont wanna call her upstairs, that'd be too obvious but i dont wanna go downstairs to tell her either! HELP!

Just call her upstairs. Its not that bad. That won't be obvious because it could be anything. Just pull her aside and tell her. GOod Luck.

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okay so like 2 years ago me and my friend begged our moms to get our belly button peirced.. they said after i turn 16..which is in august. but i duno, am i right wen i say getting your belly button peirced is played out?

no. I like mine. I got it when I was 15. I still like it. Plus, its no one else's business. I don't care if the world hated it, I like it. Thats all that matters. Its my body, not theres. But yeah, if you like it, then go for it, if not, then don't. Good Luck.

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hey i think im fat...my bf thinks im fat......how do i get him to stop

if you think you're fat, go on a diet. If it is bothering you. If you don't like that he tells you that he thinks you're fat, then tell him. Tell him to stop being an insensitive jerk. I used to be like that too. its one thing when you say it about yourself, but it's another when someone else says it. Just tell him how you feel. Good Luck.

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wow ok I just got side sweep bangs and they are aweful... the lady that cut them must have been drunk or something!! Does anyone know how I could fix them?... I don't really want to wait until they grow out

well the only way I can think of to "fix" them is to cut them to straight across, but you have to have the right type of face for it. You just need to grow them out. Use bobby pins to pin them back so they're out of the way. I have them too and they bug me now as well. I am growing them out...

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Okay so theres this girl who is always saying shes my friend and everything and then she goes and flirts with my boyfriend and stuff and it really makes me mad because she says shes my friend but she doesnt act it... and ik my boyfriend doesnt like her but i still hate that shes like that.. what can i do to get her to stop??

the best thing to do would probably be to confront her about it. Tell her that you're uncomfortable with her doing that and if she's your friend, then she'd stop, because he is taken by you. Just try talking and see how that works, then if she does something, beat her ass...I mean, solve it nicely. lol. She's probably just sucking up to you about the friends thing, no offense. Good luck with that!

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i always hear the term "pop your cherry"! Whats the cherry - i know it has somethign to do with a vagina-, and how do u 'pop' it. it kinda scares me and grosses me out if i think about something on your vagina popping and blood coming out. okay well i use tampons so how do i know if my cherry is popped and whatnot. thanks.

Honestly, I'm not entirely sure how that expression came about, but I believe that there is a type of bubble thing, not sure how to describe it. Like blood. It usually gets "popped" from having sex, but can also happen if you use a tampon. Thats what I think anyway, don't quote me on that. Good Luck.

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well I have this friend I feel like were always competing against each other. who has better close and stuff like that it's gotten so bad that we compete on who has a bigger butt I know I can't believe it we don't ask each other who has a bigger butt ,but I just know that cause she's always saying man your lucky you don't have big hips like me.that really annoys me when she says that I don't know what to do I feel so stupid for asking help about this

well it can't be a competition if you don't fight back. Just let her start it, just don't finish it. About the bigger butt thing, it just kinda seems like she wants attention, no offense. Just don't make a big deal about it and don't give into it and she will probably get over it. Good Luck.

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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss

well as for hair, not my area of expertise, but just simple or funky. And don't worry about what other people think. People are stupid, its none of their business if they don't know you. As for covering your cleavage and things, wear like a t-shirt or something, not slutty or low cut, but a regular one that should cover everything, not necessarily a turtle neck or anything. Jeans work with pretty much every body type, so that works. Unless you want to go more punk-ish, then ask your boyfriend, find some punk stuff, but you dont' have to dress punk to listen to punk. If you don't think you are dressing slutty, you probably aren't, but that depends. Don't go in like an itty bitty mini-skirt and a low cut tank top type thing, just dress simple, because if you try too hard to dress punk and stuff, then you look like a poser, and thats not good either. Just keep it simple. Its none of anyone else's business but your own on what you wear. Hope I helped.

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hey I have a question when ppl where eyeliner do u line the inside of your eyelashes or the outside...im confused on how to wear it...

Personally, I wear it on the inside, but if you do this, don't share eyeliner with anyone because its really easy to get pink eye and other things like that that way. Also, even if you're going to wear it on the outside, which is easier since you don't have as much chance of poking your eye which hurts, then don't use anyone else's eye liner. For sweet and simple look, inside works better, but for any other, not so natural, and not so dangerous, then do outside. My advice is outside just for health reasons. Good Luck.

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Ok..I really really like this guy soo much, but we've only hung out 4 times, one all night..and we talk online & on the phone alot..but I don't KNOW him KNOW him..like i dont know how too explain it.. He's cute, SOO SWEET, and funny, well, he's perfect for me...and he tells me he loves me so much and everything. Today he said if we were older he'd ask me too marry him, which scared me..and now I just feel a LITTLE weird..bc I love him, but I don't know him well enough to marry him. But I really do feel he cares about me...but another thing is that he's older than me...and he's had sex, and I haven't and he walsy says "baby you don't know what your missing.." and "i wanna make this sumer one you won't forget ;)" and i'm thinking that he wants me too have sex with him..but he's told me that he doesn't want too push me into it, but he does it slightly...I don't know..

Any advice???

Lots of love & noise

Well, I think you should get to know him better before your relationship goes into sex and marriage. Sex is a special thing and you should experience it in your own time and when you're ready, not when someone else wants to, when you want to. It sounds to me, if you're having doubts, that you're not ready, because if you do it just because he wants you to, you could regret it later on. Get to know him better and then see where it all goes. You guys may break up or get closer which will probably make you glad you waited either way. Just get to know each other better, hang out. Be friends before all the relationship stuff. Good Luck.

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what is the difference between being christian and catholic?

All Catholics are Christians, but not all Christians are Catholics. Catholics specifically are generally more strict than most Christians who aren't Catholic. There aren't too many differences, but there are a few and they tend to be big. To get into detail, you should research it. There are religion books and there are websites on the internet, but take everything with a grain of salt. Everyone is different, so some things are what one person believes, and not others. Its just very varied. Good Luck.

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