I was fingering my girlfriend today, she orgasmed, I took my fingers out (two), and there was some blood on them, just a little. She said it didn't hurt and was actually surprised to see it. I figured it was because I was going a little rougher than usual. Her period isn't for a couple weeks.
Anyway, just wondering if that was normal/common/whatever.
it is completely normal. dont worry
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i'll try and keep this short!:
natural hair color: super dark brown, almost black looking.
current hair color: medium dark brown.
i want a blondish-copperish hair color, do i bleach my hair first, then put the color in? i don't know how i'm supposed to go about this.
thank you all for the help!
DO NOT BLEACH YOUR HAIR i take cosmetology.
please use color but remember color does not lift color. go to a salon and get it done trust me its worth the money
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If I mix tanning lotion, the kind that is used for tanning beds, with sun screen will that help me tan?
u can only use sunscreen if its for the sun. tanning beds ur best use is to use the lotion they sell
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I am incredibly bored!!!!!!What should I do???
any suggestions are appreciated.
Thanks!!!
haha ummm go hang out with a bunch of ur friends and go see a movie! and go out to lunch. thats what i'm gunna be doing!
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There's this boy who i really like. we're not really friends. Last year, i liked him so much, but i knew he was never going to like me. just knowing that broke my heart, and it hurt to even look at him. pretty recently, i started to like him again. but i know that i cant, because i'm going to end up falling even harder than i did last time. I need to get over him, but its too hard. sometimes i feel like im going to cry when i hear him talk. i really do think that i love him, but i know its impossible. but knowing that he's around, i forget about every other guy, and i wish i could just be with him, forever. i dont know what to do.
your obessed not in love. you don't even know this guy, like you said you don't talk much. really do you know anything about this guy? have you even talked to him on the phone till you both fell asleep? talk to him get to know him and maybe just maybe it will work out. get inside his head and learn more about him!
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I am 15, almost 16, and female. I Recently broke up with my boyfriend. We went out for about 6 months. I loved him, and he loved me, but I just wanted to get away and experience more. He also got a little on my nerves, but I think it was best. However, I have been having some mixed feelings lately. I think that on the one hand it was a bad idea and I miss him terribly. Then on the other hand I think, I don't need him. We went to an event together(we're still friends) and he kissed me in the elevator. Then, he talks about his friend, Kali, in front of me, who is a girl, that he went to the movies with. AHHH I dont know what to do. How should I handle this?????
Hes trying to tell you he still loves you. But he wants you to know he can move on too, like you did. relax most likely if you still love each other you guys will be together again, when you realize he is what you want and need. You might think you don't need him but truely i think you miss him like crazy. do what your heart tells you. sounds corny but true...
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15/f. i hooked up with one of my really close guy friends who happens to be a senior on sat night. so we were talking about it and let's just say i'm not that experienced (even though he doesn't know that) and i was saying that i'm a boring person and he said "well you're certainly not a boring kisser." is that a good thing?
hahah fuck yes!
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Okay well the last time I put in a collom it was about this guy that I liked that was always hitting on me. When I took everyones advice and told him he said that he was going to cut down on dating people for a while until he can get his feet back on the ground. Well I have no problem with that but then right after that he though that the girl he had just broken-up with still liked him and he imeaditly said he still liked her too? Even though he said that he was going to wait, thankfully it turned out that she only liked him as a friend. So then right after that he stared hitting on me again. I took it knowing that he's a guy and most guy's lives are run by testosterone, so I was like whatever but when me and my mom talked it over I realized after saying it that I was his rebound girl or something? I was so pissed but I still like and if I could just possibly get into his mind and find out whether he likes me too then it would be all good, but I can and I don't know what to do cuz I really like him?
DROP HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
trust me hes playing mind games with you!
fuck him seriously your soo much better then that!
really hes a complete asshole for doing that to you! go with it and flirt with him back but seriously your a rebond girl to him! and you don't want to be that now do you?
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i loved my ex-bf when we were dating. but now i love my current bf even more. i've been talking to my ex and trying to find out who he likes and i just realized how upset/jealous i'd be if i saw him with another girl. but then i wondered who he felt everytime he saw me with my bf or everytime i spent hours talking to him about problems i had with my bf. i feel so guilty and like im not being totally loyal to my bf who has never cheated on me in any way. wat should i do?
This happens to me all the time. It kinda sucks because i fell right back in love with my ex. and i realized i need him. but you completey moved on and found an amazing guy! that you loved more and your ex. Jealiousy happens all the time. remember how amazing your boyfriend is and how you want to be with him. and for some reason if you and your ex. worked out you guys would still be together but ur not. soo give it time and don't push him to tell you who he likes, because it might be you. you have to figure out what you want. think of how they treat you and what you want.
good luck!
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[I heard from a friend that u give some pretty god damn good adivce]
okay sooo I pretty much fucked my best friend over becasue loves magnet was pulling me in and I couldnt let go. I kissed her boyfriend. Yeahh I know pretty fucking low right? I have nooo clue what I was thinking. And im not gunna lie at first i was like psh who needs her but after a while i relized I NEED HER. she was my only true friend, the only person who didnt talk shit abbout me, and now i want her back. But Im not so sure if she wants to be clsoe friends again, and I mean i totally undersatnd but still that would suck. How do i convince her that I know what I did as wrong and that I really wanna be close friends with ehr again and she can trust me? How do I get through to her? Or am I just hurting myself by trying?
hummm well you defaintly did fuck up! HUGE! i wonder who this girl is! haha the only way to get her friendship back is to show that you care. since i know who this is and everything i`m just gunna answer it like any other. keep trying to talk to her, she might not tell you much in the beggining because concidering the fact she doesn't trust you. She might not be soo forgiving because of something that happened in the past sooo just give it time. ignoring the problem makes things worst though. she probably wants to be friends with you again but she can't amae up her mind. If you miss her like she misses you then your both hurting yourselfs. Either you could stop trying and lose the only person you could trust and concider a bestfriend. or keep trying until she finally sees that she can trust you. Shes probably hurt over this liek you are. if you guys were truely bestfriends you'll soon fall right back into place.
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what are you supposed to do when one of your guy friends tells you that he likes you ? are you supposed to like ignore him, flirt with him more, or just act normal? i guess i like him but he's not that hot. so what should i do towards him?
ok this has happened to me sooo manytimes!
the worst thing to do is ignore him!
that makes him feel like complete shit and he'll probably talk shit about you. sooo don't do that haha
just act normal around him, if u don't like him like that, just be his friend nothing more and don't flirt just be urself. its easier to say then do. but soon u'll see that its easier to do later on. :D good luck
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lets start out with saying I get good grades in school (not from cheating), have a lot of friends, and a good loving family at home. but lately i don't know what's up with me! i've gotten into the habit of stealing, from things like clothes from cousins, candy from stores, pencils pens etc., lipgloss from the dollar store, and here is the stupid worthless stuff that i've stolen: razors, tampons and pads, and bras from stores. also i've been cheating on homework and today at a volleyball game this girl had a really cute abercrombie jacket and i took it and stuffed it into my backpack which i feel HORRIBLE for, tomorrow i'm going to give it back to her and tell her i found it. also i've been having an attitude with my parents and lieing to them. i do not do drugs, sex, etc. i'm not like that. i'm only 13 and seriously lately i dont know what's up with me! i am really not that kind of person but i don't know why i am doing this! i'm catholic and i know i shouldn't be doing these things, but i can't help it! please do not suggest talking to a councelor or to my parents or someone about it. i really want to get out of the habit of stealing and lieing and cheating. thank you SOO much, i appreciate it A LOT. P.S: this may sound stupid but if i keep this up will i go to hell?
haha ok
its aphase that everyone goes through
soon u`ll realize that its pointless
i did trust me ur badf habits will soon fade off.
but think about this are your friends doing it?
ifs not then you shouldn't get them into the habit either and really just buy the stupid shit
ask parents for money and go get it!
if so then really if they're your friends, why are they trying to get you into trouble???
think about it this way you can be with them when they're stealing or whatever but if you don't steal then you'll wont get caught.
stealing is a crime and i got caught stealing and it scared the shit out of me! iw as shacking and crying and i was soo grounded haha but i was lucky they didn't get the police after me because i fallowed what they said and didn't fight them. sucks i know, it could n't been awful of me to find a job when i turn 15 coming up haha sorry i'm really excited
but anyways just start making time for homework, turn off the cell phone, put some music on (low), and get to work.
it works for me maybe it'll work for you!
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Let me first describe this one girl to you--
-her names hayley.
-shes the popularest one in school
-people worship her. [she even has people who go out to her locker for her & get her things!]
-shes really confident
-but shes also really mean. .. if she doesnt like you.
-shes really rich. she has a ton of REAL louis, chanels, coachs juicys & all that.
-her dog evne wears like these juicy jackets & stuff.
She had this big party, & you had to be on her A-list to get invited. I wasn't I was like on her B-list or something. & she posted it everywhere in school, & everything. Anyways, shes been REALLY nice to me lately, & i want to be better friends with her. Her one friend just moved away, & that means theres a spot open. & i want to make that spot for me. how do i do it?
don't tell me, to be myself or anything.. because, that obviously hasn't been working out too well.
kthanks
if this is the life you want fine here are some ways to work into the group
1. make sure you have the greatest clothing every day
2. don`t wear the same outfit in 2 weeks (at least)
3. time for you to go shopping! beg your parents to get you 2 bags of designer
4. juicys is amazingly gorgoues soo get some clothes there
5. be funny not annoying. talk mello, have confidents when speaking
6. wake up early to do your hair and make up (if you don`t look good one day your probably not gunna fit in
7. all your little flaws needa be fixed (fat to skinny) (ance to clear face) ( bushy eye brows to gorgeous shaped) ect.
8. be nice to those your know and the rest talk dirty
9. get nails gone (fake one, you chinese people do them)
10. start meeting more people be open, ohh and boys, pshh trust me (be nice not mean don`t start drama, they don`t like it) ohh the more guys you talk to, the more you get popular, remember that
last one (when your really starting to be friends): THROW A PARTY A-list ONLY!
good luck!
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ok i really need your advice columnists:
I have ben goin out with this amazing guys for almost 4 months.The problem is, my friend who is in like all of his classes, flirts with him all the time! Its not that im jealous, im just scared of looing him =[ I always tell my friend to back off, but it doesn't work, it fot to th point where i started crying on the phone on 3 way with my best friend and my boyfriend. What should i dooo?
I'm realy upset and confused =[
please help, FASTT!
thanks again =]
Alright i`m not gunna give you some bullshit answer. i`m telling you the truth, if you don`t like it then i`m sorry. you are jealous, yelling and making the problem bigger isn`t going to do anything. your boyfriend is going to start labling you jealous weather you like it or not. your probably going to lose your friend if u keep asking her to stop talking to him. HES ALOUD TO HAVE GIRL THAT ARE FRIENDS! no ones trying to steal him away from you. soo get over it move on and let them be friends. you can`t even prove that shes flirting with him. "don`t believe everything you hear" half of the shit you heard is false info. soo don`t take it to heart. you have a problem and its called jealousy and you can`t admit it. really its no fun creating drama for youself to be in. soo drop the act of jealousy and just spend more time with your guy. the more you get jealous the more your pushing him away.
sorry its the truth!!
hopefuly you didn`t take it the wrong way and it can help you.
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I like one of my guy-friends, and all of my friends that are girls think that he likes me back. I am thinking about asking him out but if he says no that might mess up the friendship. I am normally a risk taker but I am not willing to risk the friendship we have. Once about 3 weeks ago my friend Sarah told him I liked him more than just a friend (she meant it as a joke) he kinda just looked at me then ignored me as i was making it very clear to him that i liked him as just a friend. So if i ask him out now then he'll think i'm a liar. Should I ask him out and risk losing the friendship, or keep my feelings toward him inside?
awww take the risk! its fun and exciting if it fails then its his lose! not yours. aftr if he says no then just be like "ok i just thought it would be fun getting to know each other a little more then just friends but alrighty well i`ll see you in school tmr cuz i g2g do homework which totaly sucks, lol, well bye :D"
never show that your hurt it weirds guys out
if he says yes have like a fucking dance break out because you just got the guy!!!
good luck!!
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omg im so pissed right now, i found out today that my best freind erin asked my ex boyfreind out to the homecoming dance this month, and he said yes. the way she told me this shocking news was, "hey katie, um the other day i accidently asked brandon to the dance, i kinda blurted it out, and well brandon kinda accidently said yes now obviously neither of them didnt think much of how much it would hurt me, consifering that i still inda had feelings 4 him. he could have gone with any other person to the dance, but no, he decides that he would rather go with my best freind. well i called him and told him how i feel and he thought thatthere was nothing wrong with him going with my best freind. what should i do??
you guys r broken up. you need to get over it theres noo rule that you can`t date your best friends ex! your jealousy is ruining ur friendship let it go and just get over it you guys broke up its not liike she asked out you boyfriend. really to tell the truth it makes you look stupid saying that.
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i love doin lil romantic stuff for my girl. i give her notes, got her a necklice, gave her my jacket, kiss her on the cheek when she doesnt expect it, whats some more romantic stuff i can do for her. I love doin it, it makes me so happy to make her smile and laugh so if you got any good ideas id love it
omg i wish u were my boyfriend haha
well leave the candy kisses in her locker with a little note that says "these are for when i`m not around" shes get all happy and think its the cutest idea ever!
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my boyfriend who is a year older than me used to walk wih me evry morning in school, and like giv me hugs, but now all of sudden he wont walk with me or even like talk to me, he just pretend she doesnt see me, and if i talk to him he'll listen but he wont look me, he just looks right past me. I thought he was going to dump me but then he wanted to hangout after school. is he like embarrased of me, or do u think he is gonna dump me?
hes going to dump you!
guys are assholes! don`t let it hurt you soo much. trust me being stuck on a guy is not fun!
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my best friend and i have been bff since i can remember! sometimes she gets on my nerves. but i feel weird because whenever i hear about best friends there always talking about how they love eachother so much and never bother eachother. also she can just be a total bitch and sometimes i just hate her, but i still love her 2 death!!! plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
Sry for answering it soo late. you should stop hanging out with her soo much! trust me like when people get on my nerves i just try and make up things to day soo i can`t do anything. take a brake from eachother. your just getting sick of her and need time to urself and u should hang out with some of ur other friends.
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Okay a couple days ago i told one of my closest boy(as friend)That i liked him and he flipped his lid.He ignored what i said and started talking about the girl he liked Morgan and how she was the best girl.And i sighed off aim and cried.When i came back on nick popped back up he started talking about how he didnt belong anywhere and i was like i thought i already told you that you belong in my heart and sighed off the next day i came on wanting answers for his behavior and he was over joshs house hes dogs crib the exact words he said to me and then he starting acting like a total man and started being a jerk to me and rae then he ended up calling me a fat a** pig and i asked him why he was saying this and he said he wants me to stop liking him.And my mouth dropped i couldnt believe he would say that to me and when he went home he said he was sorry and i told him to be carefull hes like why i was like my brother wants to kill you cause you made me cry and he made a frowney face and said he never ment to make me cry and i told him that i wont stop liking you for what you said to me cause i know that wasnt you.Ive known nick sence pre-k and a friend that he doesnt know sighed on and asked him if he liked me and he said maybe.Then last night he said he was going out with morgan and i was ughhh im still mad i cannot believe her she hated him ultra hate she told him to his face she couldnt stand him.But now she'll go out with him???so im my pro i wrote that i was jelouse of morgan cause she could do what ever she wanted to him and he would still be there but hes blocking me now.I only wanted to stop him gettign hurt and i know he will be then i sighed on my brothers name trying to talk to him and he was like i dont wanna talk to you,you cry to me to much and ive only cried because of him once but now if i say anythign that means anything im crying.
Is it so bad that i want to prevent him from being crushed he really likes her and ill kill her well not liderally but oh my god ill do somthing its not fair that she can do anything and i cant!!1
i highly doubts he likes me but my cuzin thinks its just a flirting thing and im like yeah right-
what do you think??
Katie
I cannot believe men!!!
hes an asswhole
ok really you desurvie better, i know that might not change your mind, but trust me if hes going to act like a total ass infront of his friends to you, then hes not worth it! ok this has happened to me soooo many times ughh alright if you don`t get over this guy fast, u`ll just get even more hurt. just ignore him for a while, when she breaks his heart, he`ll see that he missed out on a great girl like you. "Morgan" sounds like a total two faced bitch! and soon she`ll meet the guy that will dump her ass or that she likes so much and he wont like her.
relax this stuff happens all the time!
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