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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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I'm going to be applying for a few new jobs soon and I want to be prepared for the interviews. How do I prepare for the job interviews completely?

Do you have a reliable way of transportation?
Describe yourself?
Why do you want to work here?
What can you bring to the company?
What is your biggest accomplishment?
Are you in school?
How do you handle stress and pressure?
Do you prefer to work independently or on a team?

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ive been dating this guy for 3-4 weeks now. I go on my facebook this morning and he changed his relationship statues to single, and changed his myspace. I called him two times and he didn't answer either. He took me of his tops (i was his number one) and that was yesterday, and now he has some other chick as his top 3. and on his statues it says m.w. (like the girls initials).what is going on? he is like ignoring me, i don't get it. i just didn't think he was like that. can some one please give me advice?

Yeah you got dumped dirty style. He's an immature child, you deserve better than that. I'm sorry for the heartache you're going through but he's a doushe.

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well i have a question. =] (obviously)
i am usually 99-100 lbs. I like seriously think of being anorexic, but i'm sort of scared. I want to be skinnier and excercise and all that, but i don't want to like kill myself in the process. I am like obsessed over this. I always think about not eating or counting calories or even purging.
is this something to be concerned about?

Of course it is!!

These are the side effects of anorexia.
http://hubpages.com/hub/how_to_become_anorexic

Also take a look at this Question and Answer:
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Anorexia-Eating-Disorders-1604/normal-eating-1.htm

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OK i was just wondering if it was ok if i wore a tampon to school all day without changing it??

like i would put it in around 7:15 and take it out around 3:30

Is that to long?!?!

Don't i have heard that if you keep a tampon in for more than 6 hours than you can get a infection. and personally i can't believe that holds you for that long geeze. Okay but anyways I wouldn't just change once during school or more if u would like. It's not that much of a hassle. But don't keep it in for more than 6 hours. because again you MIGHT GET A INFECTION! Hope I helped!
-Bianca

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Mk... so tomorrow I'm going to hang out with a bunch of my friends at one of their houses. Usually I wouldn't really care about what I wear when I'm with them, but tomorrow there's supposed to be a few guys I've had my eyes on coming too. I know when you start liking someone you're supposed to be yourself and just act normal, but I atleast want to make a good impression. Any tips on a few cute things that maybe you guys would wear?

Thanks in advance.
14.F.Tx

I personally would wear something casual but at the same time cute. Like maybe a cute tank top. And a pair of tight-ish jeans. Or if you want to go for the all out cute look. I would go for, maybe a strapless shirt and a cute skirt. Just something to think about. Hope I helped!
-Bianca

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

Your not a loser!! No way, just some people have their first kisses and boyfriends earlier than others. I have ton's of friends that have never had their first kiss. It's not you, I think you just have higher morals than other's. Actually I admire you for not having a first kiss. It not you at all. Don't worry when the time is right it will happen. Just don't rush it, because when you have your true first kiss your going to feel so incredible. Hope I helped
-Bianca

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I have a question about my friend. Well I guess you could say she is one of my best friends.
Well we had made plans tonight to rent and movie and then watch it at her appartment. She told me to arrive by 8 o clock. Well she phoned me at 5 and I wasnt dressed or anything yet. She asked me if I could do her a favour. I said "sure" before I knew what I was in for. Well it turned out she had put an add in the paper to sell two of her cats (she has 5). She told me that the girl buying the cats needed a ride home and could I do it because she (my friend) doesnt have a car. I was a little annoyed because I wasnt ready and she needed me there right away. Well being the loyal friend I was I showed up and one of the cats had escaped from its carrier, and then my friend made me chase around the house for the cat instead of her doing it! We finally caught her and then I had to load up my car with both the cats and their toys. Now heres the kicker: After I loaded up my car with all the cats and toys, I said to my friend "your'e coming with me right"? After all I didnt want to drive a complete stranger somewhere in my car all by myself, I would want my friend to come with me. Also, we still needed to rent the movie. Then she says "no, I'm not coming! So I had to drive this person to her house (who was extremely rude to me by the way). Then I had to rent the movie by myself!! When I finally got back to my friends by around 6 and all she could talk about was how sad she was that she had to give up her cats!!! She finally noticed that I looked upset and asked me what was wrong. I told her the girl I had to drive home was rude (but didnt mention I was more angry at her).
My question is, I am overeacting, or was that a really shitty thing that my "friend" did to me?

That is the rudest thing I have every heard. You are def not overreacting!!! I mean that is so rude I personally would have told my friend that what she did is rude and explain to her I didn't appreaciate it at all!! I mean common she didn't even pay for anything after all you went through.. Sorry to say but that friend is pretty "wack". She has some nerve to do that too you. Personally I think you should tell her the truth on how you feel.Hope I helped! Send Feedback.
-Bianca

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There's this girl who I used to really care about, but am no longer close to. She calls me out of the blue, after LSU lost to Georgia so I'm already pissed. She tells me that her baby sister who was just a few months old died of SIDS. Even though I really don't like this girl anymore(ok I hate her), I still feel awful for her family. Her family never did me wrong and I was wondering how I should go about the situation. A card? Flowers? I really don't know,b/c I haven't been around death that much.

I think you should get them a card maybe write something really nice and thoughtful in it and I dont know if you should get flowers because funeral flowers r very very expensive from like 200-700 dollars. But I am not sure. Since you don't really know the babysitter maybe you should get them a card for there loss

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I'm getting a new red puppy daschund tomorrow. I need help with some names for her. I like the name Roxy. I need more similar like that. I don't want it to me a characteristical name like brownie.

umm
-Honey
-Sasha
-Pinky
-Sadie
-Sweetie
-Cassie
-Mandy
-Sandy

Those r just some I am sure there r some sites for that

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I am confused. I am a Christian, and I am trying to figure out, well, what "kind" of Christian to be, like a Catholic, Baptist, etc etc.

My question is, what religion are you, Christian-wise (I have nothing against other religions, I promise!), and why? What are some of your beliefs? Thanks!

Well i am Catholic and I sort of like it. Like it's very trad. and it's my religio ya know I lvoe being catholic but lately I have been wanting to be a protestant because it is more like layed back and fun and you have like a relationship with God and everything instead having a relationship with your church like most Catholic's believe. I don't know if you want Tradional go for Catholic, If you want a layed back rel. with God go for Protestant Christians! :)

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Okay...I've had my period for exactly 2 years as of December 5. I want to use tampons, and I know how to put them in and all the dangers. But I have a few other questions:

Does it hurt going in/while its in/coming out?
What is an appropriate size?
What exactly does Toxic Shock Sydrome do to your body?
How do you know that you have TSS?

I rate.

-no it doesn't hurt when you take it in and out. I guess in the beggining it might but u get so used to it it's like nothing.
-umm well it depends on how much you bleed like extra can hold a lot and normal i guess is only for like a little bit cuz it doesn't last me much time. But depends. Not sure about te other questions tho. Hope I helped
-Bianca

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i have the ipod mini and the regular one

my dad said he'd get me the nano for my bday on dec 22

and the video

for my mini

and hes get me a tiffany bracelet with diamonds

and everyone in my school would think im spoiled rotten

:: the question is does that sound too much for JUST a birthday?

omg no waii! who care's what other people think. That's how I live my life. seriously if people r gunna think those nasty thing's about you than really screw them cuz they don't deserve your friendship. Just because your parent's can get you nice things doesn't mean that you have to care what other people say about you. I mean if I got that stuff I would be excited! not worrying about what other people say about me. really it is no big deal. Hope everything works out for the best. Hope I helped. Send me feedback!
-Bianca

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okay well my friend jon made a lead in the play right?

well im really really really happy for himm

and at the end of the say when he found out... he came running to me and hugged me for like 1 minuet.. i was so embaressed becasue all of mty friends were like AWWWWWWWWW

and he knows i like him

i told him in person to just get it out

is that a sign of him liking me?

HmMmMm well that's a toughy. You know that is sooo cute lol but I really don't know in a way he could like you because some girls when they tell a guy that they like them the guy is all like "get away from me, or it won't work out" or something like that. But if he hasn't said anything to you than maybe he does it sort of seems as if he does because if he just goes and gives u a hug knowing you like him of course he is doing that to make you feel good. So hmm It is probably a yes. Make sure though. I hope everything works out. Hope I helped. Send me feedback.
-Bianca

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I'm a high school sophomore. I've been playing volleyball for travel ever since I was in 7th grade. This year, I haven't really been interested in playing volleyball. I didn't try out this year for club, but they have an opening for me. My dad's heart is set on me playing volleyball, but it doesn't interest me anymore. When I told him I didnt want to try out, he got really mad at me. Should I play travel or not? I don't want to but it would make my dad happy. If not, what should I say to him that won't make him upset or mad at me? Please help!

Of course I am going to say do the volleyball. I mean if you dad really wants you to be happy just explain him that volleyball doesn't tickle your pickle any more lol and that you aren't into it as you used to be. I think he will understand I have been in this predicament when I was into Softball. Everything worked out for the best. I hope everything works out. Hope I helped. Send Feedback.
-Bianca

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i need help talking to this boy i like.i no for sure he likes me,but we dont no eachother and i want to ask him to go with me or to get his # or something.i need some body to give me like exact words to say,like the whole conversation.and hand gestures too.i am good at being flitatious so i might not ned the hand gestures.i just dont no what to say

if I were you I would get a friend to introduce you two together or get his screen name it is so much easier to talk online and when your confortable you can meet him in person and your convo. will pop up automatically. I have done it ton's of times!! But get one of your friends to help you out or set a double date or something. Hope I helped. Send Feedback.
-Bianca

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I have this friends who makes fun of me all the time and she makes fun of me around other people too. It makes them think that its ok to make fun of me becasue she does. What can i say to her to make her stop.

If I were you I would make fun of her back. She ahs no right to treat you that way and even though it might be a "game" in her mind. It's not right and to me it seem's like she is hurting your feeling's. I think that you should confront her and tell her you know what your doing is soo wrong and i really don't appreciate it. I know it's hard but you gotta have guts. You can do it! I Hope I helped. Send Feedback. :)
-Bianca

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You know them free offer ad's where you have to hit something and then they say you get something free. Do they really work has anyone here ever tried them and they actually got a laptop, or ipod from them or are they just a scam ?

Thanks Alot. I'll rate 5's!

No waii those thigns r just viru's waiting to be accepted don't even try and click on em becuase they spam u so bad they get all your info and send advertisers to your house and like they totally giv your phone number to EVERYBODY it's really bad DONT!

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ok, well i have a REALLY BIG crush on this guy, lets call him dan. well i wanted to know if you guys think he has a crush on me. ok, well, everytime i look at him he is looking back (sometimes i see it out of the corned of my eye) and then today in PA (sewing) my tetcher said my name wrong because she has trounle pernouncing it and i wen to correct her but dan corrected her for me (i sit at the table behind him) and when my table was talking about birthdays and i said mine, he looked back and it looked like he was memorizing the date.

thanks,
ANK

P.S.: i rate everyone!

how did you know he was memorizing the date..? lol is tehre a memorizing date face that people put on?? not trying to be rude but if a teacher mis pronounced my name wrong then everyone in my class would correct her including me...maybe he was just being nice. But really I am not saying he doesn't like you because for all I know it he can be in love with you! I am just saying don't get too caught up with him because he might not. But still try talking to him and figure things out you never know he can be your next boyfriend!!

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Ok this extremely hott guy named Dustin, i see him at lunch everyday and theres a lunch line the in the cafeteria and he sits right behind it. So,..anyway, he's a short guy but real athletic. And the other day he looked me straight in the eyes and i looked into his,...it was really weird because all i can remember is us looking at each other and everything else blurring away. and that day whenever i thought about him ((the rest of the day..)) i felt like a cool sensation. and whenever i'm in line for lunch i think he looks at me but,..i dont know i've only caught him a ew times. and i dont have any classes with him so i dont know how to get him any better because i'd really liked to.

I think you should jus walk up to him and talk to him or like get one of your friends that know him to talk to him about you.. You never know what he will think about you if you don't try to find out. Or maybe if you are not too shy go over with your lunch tray and if u know anyone in his table pretend your gunna sit with them and start conversation including him in the table. I hope you do good give me some feedback on what happens. Hope I helped!

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Is it normal to gain weight during or right before your period? I am 13 years old and I weigh 100 pounds. Is that normal? Now I weigh 103 pounds.

omg maybe you just ate a lot that day and it was weighing the food 3 pounds isin't much your a growing girl you are gunna gain some weight in your lifetime. I'd no big deal it might be muscle or jus left over food and stuff in your stomach you have to weight yourself in the morning not at night. Okay?


Your not fat =] lol not even close

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