Well... my name is Eden, I go to North Mesquite High School, and I'll be graduating in 2007. My boyfriend Bryan and I have been together for almost a year, and ummm... I guess that's it really. I like getting out of the house, and hanging out with friends. I tend to hate most people because they're dumbasses and have dumbass personalities, so if your question is unpurposely retarded you'll get a sarcastic anwser.
E-mail: DedHollo@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mesquite
Occupation: Student/Looking
Age: 16
AIM: GrittyFreudian
MSN: edenjanew@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 3, 2005
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Last year I had a lot of friends, and they meant more to me than my own family. I hurt them all pretty badly, and after realizing how much of a dumbass I was, I changed myself. There's this person that I wish I could be friends again with, and I know I fucked up pretty badly, how do you think I could win her trust again? (link)
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You can't just 'win' trust, it has be be gained. If you talk to her, tell her how you've changed, and really mean it, she'll probably listen, I know I would. Just call her every now and then, ask if it's a good time, and just start talking. Don't mention how much you've messed up, and if you talk about the old times, make sure you avoid the bad. Isn't it funny that it only takes one thing to lose someone's trust, but it takes many to gain it back? Drop by her house sometimes, see how she's doing, invite her to a movie or something. Just get back into her life and it'll be fine.
I forgive you.
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my vigiana has this red and green stuff ozzing out of it and it stinks like tuna and spoild eggs and it will never stop coming out of my pee hole and when ever i do pee it sting like a bee sting What should i do? i mean me and my boyfriend love to be in bed all day long and it kind of sucks when you got stuff that loooks just plain groose well like to hear your advice so what ever. (link)
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Go to the gyno! Oh, and it's spelled vagina.
(Sick fucking pervert, you started to make me gag)
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i see that you qwear black sometimes or w/e, and you like tat wierd music, so do u have n e ting against jews?> (link)
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Ummm... I'm almost half Jewish actually...
Who in the hell sent this? It offends me. Not everyone, barely anyone, that "wears black" or listens to rock music is some kind of neo nazi. If this was sent as a joke, it's still not cool. Poking fun at me because I have Jewish blood is like calling a Black American a nigger.
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I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI? (link)
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No, sorry, my mom is a hair stylist, so I'm positive.
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Ive been down in the dumps lately about alot of things..first off my parents split up after a 22 yr marriage..then i didnt make my aau softball team that i make every year...and then things didnt work out with the guy i thought i liked. I really am depressed..i know i am..the symptoms are all there. I need something that will hype me up a little..ne suggestions? (link)
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I can't "hype" you up, but I went through depression too, and I'm sure the remedy is different for everyone. BUT, what I did, was I surrounded myself with things that made me happy, and I tried to never be alone, I'm always out on the weekends.
In my case, my boyfriend brought me out of it, so I had help. But in your case, like I said, do what makes you happy. And don't listen to any depressing music.
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A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this! (link)
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Listen, I used to have friends like that... you don't need them. Trust me, this is SUCH a long story. In the end, it's just NOT worth it. Trust me. It wasn't right for her to do that.
And while other people in 3rd world countries are starving, you're throwing up your damn food. Don't do that. Don't worry about what others think, make yourself happy. You should get help.
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ok. I almost lost my home yesterday because of a huge flood. and i was to call my "best friend" on the phone. and this is the conversation.
me: hey
her:hey I heard about the flood
me: yeah, they might not let us back in our houses for 2-3 months.I'm basicly homeless.
her:oh well I have 2 friends over and I don't want to be rude
me: *scoffs* yeah ok bye
her:bye
....there were only two friends of mine that said "hey well if you need a place to live you can come here" if my "friend" was actually my friend why did she blow me off in my time of need? (link)
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Wow. Wow, wow, wow, wow. If one of my friends EVER did that to me in my time of need I would kick their ass.
She did it because she's an insensative bitch.
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okay so I've been dating this guy for like well 2 weeks and i care for him with all my heart! and i think it might even b love! and i kno that he feels the same way i mean he tells me everyday how much he cares for me and stuff so im hoping he means it! well today my best friend just told me a bunch of stuff that i think is totally wrong about my bf like that he does drugs! and that he still is in love with his X! and ive talked to him about all this b4 and he told me that he would never do drugs and he loves me more that n e one! but then again most guys would say that right? so please help me! i dont know who to beleive (link)
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Listen you dumb bitch, this is NOT love, real love takes time. This is LUST. I'm not even going to anwser this ridiculous question, because your boyfriend is a dumb fuck too. God I hate some people.
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ok me and my bf broke up because he found that i was talking to another boy but that boy really dont mean nothing to me i love my bf so much. anyway he took me back but i no he dont trust me! what can i say to him to get him to belive me? plese help me im so sorry i didnt mean for none of this tohappen
shaiina (link)
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First of all...
1) really dont mean nothing
2) i no he dont trust me
3)for none of this
My advice to you is...
you're retarded. Please never have children.
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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think? (link)
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Well, yes it's normal. Just don't become obsessed.
Next!
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-For those of you who have a horse i need you to answer my question.. ill rate you a 5 if you help-
*here is it*
I am going to get a horse soon and i want to know how much it is for like food a week or a month and how many times do you have to take it to the vet like a year and how much does it cost to have them get new shoes and how much for the vet and stuff like that.. thanks.!.
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Who in the hell sent this to me? I don't know anyone that owns a horse exacpt Emileigh and she doesn't even know what the internet is probably...
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My mum and dad have had one of those 'loveless' relationships and now they have separated but theyre still living together. From what Ive been told my mum only married my dad because she was 31 and wanted to have kids. They were together for ages before they married.
My dad didnt treat my mum that good and when it came to bringing us up he left it down to her. He would never really look after us.
Anyways my mum told me that she started seeing her 'highschool sweetheart'. I dont know if theyre actually together together. I kinda had my suspitions before.
My mum asked if I would like to meet him. I said I didnt know. I told my boyfriend about the situation and he said why did u say that for, you shouldn't see him. My brother said the same thing.
I love both my parents a lot. My mum hasnt been happy for a very long time. Now she seems alot happier and that makes me feel happy. From what Ive heard he's nice guy. But I feel that if I see him or am nice to him then im gonna be kinda betraying my dad who knows nothing about it. Im really confused.
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If your father betrayed you, that'd would make me want to see my mothers boyfriend more... but that's me.
Don't make things difficult, just go and meet the guy. Don't bother talking to your dad about it, he'll get jealous. You should meet the man that makes your mom so happy. But if you need time to heal, that's fine.
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You know those tops that kinda like.. have a little connected sweater thingie that tie in a knot? Does anyone know where I can find one inexpensively online? Hollister used to have them, but the site no longer carries them. Thanks! (link)
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I just think you should get a life!
Otherwise... go to www.jcpenney.com
I have never felt so embarrased... today.
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How do I relieve really bad anxiety? You know me personally so you know the type of shit I'm going through. I know all I can really do is ignore what people say, but it's not enough because all the bad stuff still runs throguh my mind. What can I do to forget about it, at least temporarily? (link)
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Weed! I'm just kidding, truthfully, it'll make things worse. I understand that you just can't ignore everything, and to relax there's many things. I'm being SERIOUS, ok? There's always masturbation, proven to be a major stress reliever. Just get a back massager and you'll figure out what to do, I know you're a virgin, so don't use any dildos. If you're not into that, just breathe, seriously. Put on some HAPPY music, not the depressing shit, ok? Stretching releases hormones that help you relieve stress. Eat well. That's important, healthy food makes you feel better. Don't stay at home on the weekends, I'll take you out so you won't be alone. I, myself, would get a boyfriend, but that might complicate things. Just keep it simple.
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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!
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Sorry to say, but if you tell anyone of higher authority they won't give a shit. Your teacher is just an ass, maybe you could try talking to him/her. But you only have him/her for a year, you just have to put up with some people. Sorry, that's life.
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Well i am a girl 14 and i have a boyfriend. Hes serious and everything but i dont like kissing him. it kinda feels weird. but i was out with my friend, whos a lesbian, ane she started getting all touchy feely w/ me...and i kinda got worried..then she was all..do you really like kyle? (my bf's name) and i was like yes i do. and she got really close to me and said, are you sure? and i said uhh..and she kissed me. right there in her living room. i was like totally grossed out at first, then i decided, its better than kissing kyle, and so we started making out, it got hotter by the minuite first just kissing then she was eating me out. it was like heaven. but i dont know how to tell anyone. b/c they'll be all weird if i do tell them. but every night i go over to her house and she just like strips and then helps me and then we get it on. idk what to do! (link)
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WOW. That one turned me on a bit... I'm pretty sure you're a lesbian, and that's perfectly fine. Break up with Kyle, and when you tell your friends just remember to leave the sex part out... let it come with time. Whatever feels good. And don't worry about your friends, do what makes YOU happy. If they get weirded out, fuck 'em. It's none of their buisness. I know it's hard, but if your friends don't support you their selfish.
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Hey, first off, let me start off by saying I'm fifteen years old and I'm a freshman in high school. I am involved in local theatre productions. For the longest time, since as long as I can remember, I've wanted to be famous. I wanted to be a model or an actress. I mean, when you really ask "what do you DREAM of doing?" I dream of singing before a crowd or being in magazines modeling or being in a film. It just seems to me that this is so out of reach and that I will never be able to be this. I kind of let it escape my mind and thought of other career options, but I think about this every once and awhile and it's hard to forget this "dream". I wonder if maybe it keeps popping in my mind for a reason? So, I was wondering if anyone could give me any insight as to how they feel about this, and whether or not you think I should pursue this and how to start. ANY sort of comment would be very helpful! (link)
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Hey, if you're good, pursue it, you don't want to be some fat housewife thinking, "What might've been..." Right? If you're good, pursue it. If you don't have the money, wait, but get an agent, if you live in or near a big city, most have city productions. Try commercials, try going to modeling agencies. Keep on with the school plays, but while you doing that remember that you might not make it, so have a backup plan ALWAYS!
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Alright, so there's this guy in my class, that I really really like. I've liked him for a while now, but I've always been too afraid to say anything to him.
The other day in class, kids from other classes were passing around questionaires for data and whatnot. Well, one of them was about sexuality. My friend had told me that she figured he was gay, because, he's got great style, he's got a gentle voice, he's an amazing artist, (I know, I'm stereo typing), and he's just interesting and whatnot. So, I was watching him as he filled the survey out, because I was kinda curious. The first part of the survey was like this:
"What's your sexuality?"
a)Straight
b)Homosexual
c)Bisexual
If you answered a, then continue on to questions 2-10. If you answered b or c, then continue on to 11-16.
11 and 16 were on the back, and he filled it out on the back. I have no problem with him being gay, but it's just that I always seem to fall for gay boys, and it feels like I'll never find a cool, straight, guy.
I personally wouldn't want to date someone who's bisexual, not because I have anything against bisexuals (a couple of my close friends are) but it would be weird dating one, because it's bad enough thinking that a guys comparing you to other girls, but to other guys? That would just be uncomfortable.
Am I being stupid? Should I just forget about him? I really would just like being friends with him, but it's impossible to talk to him because he's so shy. Please help.
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If something is immpossible, you reallly... can't... do it. As for the relationship thing, if you wouldn't want to date a bisexual, then I guess you can't there, and if he's gay, I don't think that would work out.
I'm listing this as the most retarded question EVER.
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im not talking about the movie "the notebook" im talking about the actually BOOK "the notebook"... where do i buy it? is it at any bookstore or do i have to order it? thanks. (link)
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You dumbass... yes you can buy it at a goddam bookstore, that's where they sell books.
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First off, was he an old guy, or just a teenager in a suit? And also who would win: The Pope vs. Dracula (link)
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*laugh* Wow. Ummm... I'm preeeettty sure he was just an old man in reeeeaaalllly heavy clothing, which probably reduced a few years of his life, if it was a teenager in a suit, it was a damn good suit, I need to borrow it. And if it was a teenager, I suppose he got tired of wearing it...
Everyone knows the Pope would win, Dracula, as said in the first original movie, could not touch any religious figures. Duh. Learn your history!
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