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I'm going out with a guy right now. he's a good guy and would never do anything to hurt me, at least not on purpose. we get in wrestling matches sometimes. most times i start it, and we're just tickling each other or something. it usually ends with me pinned but he gets off when i tell him enough. the only issue i have is that usually when i get home i see that i have bruises on my arms. i've gotten quite a few. i've shown him and he's apoligized, yet it keeps happening. i'm just not sure if that's abuse. my moms seen them and my friends and they're all suspicious of him. i tell them it's just accidents, but i can see they don't believe me. i'm wondering if i'm rationalzing it too much or if it is nothing like i keep telling people (link)
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its not abuse k i think people are making too big of a deal out of this i mean he apoligized so that proves he doesn't mean to and he gets off when you tell him to so its not in any way abuse.
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I'm having a pool party soon. I am going to invite a lot of people. What are some good ideas for it? (link)
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If you can afford to have alot of expensive stuff just have plenty of beach towels and beach balls for guests to use. You can even buy cheap sunglasses to hand out as party favors; this will help put everyone in the pool party mood right from the start. Also, if your party is during the daytime, having sunscreen available for guests is a must.
Decorations. Every pool party needs decorations to help create the appropriate atmosphere. Sea shells and fishnet are two items that can be strewn about on tables, and tiki torches are always popular, especially if the party involves older guests and may go past sunset. Another idea is to partially fill balloons with water and then inflate them with air. They can then be set in the pool to float around and be played with. Colorful streamers and lots of lights will also do wonders for your party's aura.
Music. What is a party without music? For a pool party, it depends on the crowd that will be attending, but Hawaiian music is always a good bet. If you are looking for something more lively, the Beach Boys or other surfing-themed music might be the way to go. Again, be courteous to your neighbors and watch the volume.
Games and Activities. Even if your guests are having a great time just splashing around the pool and chatting it up, it is essential to have a few organized activities planned. Here are some suggestions.
-Cannonball contest
-Water gun or water balloon fight
-Dancing, if age appropriate
-Play Marco Polo
-Out-of-pool games, such as: badminton, volleyball, croquet, or whatever you have room for
-Karaoke
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my razr just died and i'm not sure if i want to get another. Any other good cellphones out there right now that are around the same price as the razr?? (link)
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well a chocolate thin slider phone is a great phone and not very expensive or a nokia 6300 phone it has a digital camera and a mp3 player in it and theres also a smsung A645 its also a great phone and you can get it at a very reasonable price too my favorite would have to be the nokia 6300 i have it too and it works great ive had it for awhile now well hopefully i was some help
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sorry if this is long, you might have seen me ask a similar question before, but stick with me:
so this guy, Jamie, and I used to like each other. but we've never actually "gone out". i mean we haven't been boyfriend/girlfriend. but in 6th grade we liked each other openly, and last summer (i just graduated from 8th grade) we played tennis and went to a movie together. so i think at least then he liked me. but the twist is that he lives in hong kong, and he has since half way through 6th grade. so i only get to see him over the summer. so i will be seeing him at tennis and stuff but i really want to have a relationship with him. last time he said i asked stupid questions because i asked how he liked hong kong and stuff....but what should i talk to him about because i still really like him and want to know if he has feelings for me...and if he doesn't, how can i encourage those feelings. (link)
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k well first of all i disagree with all of the people who say you can't have long distance relationships cause you can just ask him if he likes you after you talk to him for a couple of days and if he doesn't then i don't think you can encourage his feelings towards you so ya just move on good luck
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ok so im 13/f ...the kid i reallly like is my brothers best friend. they are 14 going into 10th grade. (im going into 8th) whenever he comes over he always stares at me (like when im not even talking) and my brother brings it up to. but how do i know if he like me or not? or how can i kind of get him to like me if he doesnt?
PLEASE HELPPP
thanks =]] (link)
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k well ask him why he always stares at you it may seem awkward to ask him but how are you ever going to know if you don't and if he doesn't mention tht he likes you and you get the feeling he doesn't just dress up more but act totally normal
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i like this girl a lot
i've only known her for a few days
and never actually met her
but i've talked to her alot
like...6 or 7 hours collectively yesterday
and so i'm gonna actually meet her next week
and i already think she likes me
but how can i...ya kno..."put the moves" on her, as the guys at school say?
she seems really nice and so i wanna try and get more than a friend out of her...any advice? (link)
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k well first of all don't like sort of jus throw urself on her take it easy talk bout stuff she likes don't act all different around her act normal and then when the timeing is right jus put your arm around her and look into her eyes and hopefully things go smoothly hopefully i was helpful
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so my boyfriends turning 16 on the 25th, and i have no idea what to get him. It's a big birthday that he's been looking forward to, since he can now drive legally :D
i just want to get something he'll really like.
thank youu :]
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well it depends on wat he likes if he's really into sports than get him that he can use while playing sports or a watch or jus throw him a party or jus hang out with some friends you know dinner and stuff hopefully i helped
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. i'm 15 and he is 17. i really do like him but i'm not in love with him. so my first question is...should i be in love with him by now or should i quit wasting my time with him?? i don't wanna break up with him because i really do like him though. and my next one is he has lately been talking about sex a lot. He tried it about 6 months ago but i told him i wasn't ready. he then said okay thats fine we will wait till you are. so i'm still not ready and he is wanting it bad. i really don't wanna lose him to another girl for sex. i would rather lose him because there isn't a strong enough connection than to lose him to lies and sex. You know what i mean?? anyways hwat should i do about this?? (link)
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k honestly quit wasting your time on him if he doesn't understand how you feel or what kind of presssure your going through let him go sure you'll feel bad but its better than feeling lousy for not doing it don't you think? anyways tell me how it goes k bye
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ok so i have naturally curly frizzy hair. but not like pretty curls its just random curls and its frizzy. no matter what i do, no matter what gel i use to make it better it works for about 4hours and then goes POOF. how do i get those loose waves you see in the magazines. im desperate i'll try almost anything (link)
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consult a hair solon ask them what you should do but you could try sunsilk there's a bottle for everything if you want stright hair curly hair stuff like that you could proably go to a drug store and find it good luck!!!
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13/f
The whole school is going on a field trip to this lesiure place called Holiday Hill. I was planning on wearing my new bikini but my parents won't let me. I'm not going to be the odd-one-out wearing a 1pc or tankini. I was planning on wearing it or changing into it there but is there because of this, but how can I talk to my parents about this? What do I say? (link)
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confront your parents about your feeling tell them how you feel exactly tell them your reason for wanting to do it and if they don't listen jus take it along don't worry nuthing will hapen just make sure they don't see it k kiddo by the way my little sister is the same age as you she went through the same thing overprotective parents if you need any help then msg me bak k good luck
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my cousin traci always bosses me around and she's 15 years old and if i don't do what she says she says she won't speak to me again what should i do? (link)
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well first of all how do u know she's not bluffing she could be and second why not let her ignore you i mean eventually she will have to talk to u so i mean give it a try if it doesn't work talk to a phycitrist or something maybe she has a reason for doing it
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ook well I'm 13/f first off. I've just got out of a bad experience with a guy who i thought was sweet and adorable but turned out to be a total asshole. (excuse the language) but anyway; I've had my eye on this guy who sells skates at the ice rink i go to every Friday night. well hes really sweet. i mean i have had a normal conversation with him before because hes into the same style as me. but one problem is that he older. not like dramatically older though. maybe for or five years tops. i mean its not that bad right? i mean my aunt and uncle are 10 years apart!! but i don't think age really matters unless its like sickly different. but yeah so anyway, how is a way i can start a conversation? he has a really nice smile and he knows i think his hair is sexy. (its long and orange /natural/)and hes absolutely adorable.
helpp meeee!!
thanks =) (link)
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well act normal of course to start a conversation ask him how his day went what he did how did it go etc... or sort of flirt a bit not too much jus a little bit give him a compiment or two thats a great way to start a convo
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Alright, so let's say you are a maybe not depressed, but not happy person.. Maybe like, neutral ALL the time.. & Let's say you take pills for depression.. What happens? Would it help? What would it make you feel like? (link)
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k well unless their prescribed pills you really shouldn't be tking the because its sort of like a drug then and sometimes without knowing it their could be various side affects consult a doctor before you take such a step
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ok well i go to walmart and there are like no jeans that fit me right. i mean they are either to short or to tight and i mean i cant find any jeans that fit me. i like then kinda lose and really flarey at the bottom. and they have to be long. im 5'3 and i wear a size 8 in womens. does anyone know here to look?
thx in advance (link)
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jc penny and american eagle are two of th best stores i know also try out sears tey have good quality
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I just got two lovebirds (one is yellow/green, the ohter is green/blue with a peach face), supposedly a female and male. The petshop owner let me know that females have sharp tales, while males have round tales. The one he said is a female is a little more stocky than the other one. I was searching online, and found that it's hard to tell which is which.. is there any other way to accurately distinguish male from female?
Another question-
The female (I'm assuming she is) is calmer than the other one, who is always scared and shreaks when I try holding it. Is there anything I can do to help the other one get used to me?
Thanks! (link)
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well the best way to know whcih is which is to take it to a vetrnarian they should know and to get the bird to get use to you just take it out alot spend more time with it and if that doesn't work than consult the vetranarian with that too thats the best way hopefully you had them checked out before you brought them home.
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At what age do teenagers usually get past basic levels of thought and begin thinking more intellectually?What I mean is...when do they start to form their own opinions,have some idea of what they want out of life,and just generally gain a more adult outlook? (link)
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well im a teen myself so i would probably say 16 or 17 which is where they usually start to become more mature and start to follow there own paths of life not the path that someone else has created for them they will learn how to take control of bad situations and how to be responsible .
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(15/f)
Well the season of summer is almost here, and I have a slight problem. Due to the fact that I'm currently on medication that has weight gain as a side effect, I am now rather pudgy around the edges. I'm working to lose the weight, but in the meantime.. Does anyone have any suggestions for outfits that won't make me look like the Michelin man this summer? Any fabrics or whatever I should be looking for, swimsuit ideas, etc... Thanks ^_^ (link)
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well since its summer avoid black although its a slimming colour anyways wear something that you feel comfortable in like shorts or a mini or long skirt with a tang top or a short sleeve t for the swim suit a one piece would look bst but shorts and a tangtop don't look bad either
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alright. ha. so im 13 (14 in a few days) and my 8th grade dance is on the 15th or something like that. its formal too. and i have to get a dress for it. im thinking like a black or blue one. any good dresses that arent like SO much money. or any like.. other dress ideas?
and shoes too. ah. (i sorta have big feet tho? :[
and i need to figure out how to do my hair. ill tell you what i look like first.
i have blonde wavy hair to my shoulders.
im 5'3 and have blue eyes.
i have long legs? and um theres nothing really else.
so yeah. any ideas on my hair. i think i might just straigthen it.
and the theme for the dance is like bon boi ash (thats spelt wrong) but pretty much like a cruize line thing.
ANY IDEAS for ANYTHING? :] thanks. (link)
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I think you should either go for a blue dress or white one but preferably a blue one don't put to much makeup on but enough to make you stand out and for shoes either wear flats or open heel both would look great and if you wear a blue dress make sure you have matching earings and a nice blue pearl necklace k and for your hair i think you should straighten it but then adds some curls not too many just a couple to give you a good look and make sure you take your makeup with you and lip gloss don't leave it at home trust me your gonna need to do a retouch k have a good time
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i want to know how to lose fat but not gain muscle because i dont want to get that fat and muscular look (link)
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the only thing i can say is work out more plan your meals have small portions of food and don't go overboard also make sure your not using the same exercise rutine everyday the only thing you need to be doing everyday is 15minutes of cardio and the rest of the time you need to be working out every other part of your body by using other machines and stuff remember loosing wieght is hard but if you do it the right way it will be easy good luck !!!!
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(15/f)
I've always been in the healthy range for weight, not crazy skinny but not large. A year or two ago, I was put on medication, since then I have gained weight like mad. I haven't changed my exercise routine or diet really ( I eat healthy food (except a random chocolate bar ever so often XD) and I exercise on a regular basis)but I've gained 20 or 30 pounds in that time. So, the thing is I'm getting off said medication soon and I really want to lose those extra pounds, I'm rather self conscious about them. It doesn't have to be a fast transformation, as long as the weight stays off and it's not going to make me get sick or something. Any advice on how to lose the weight, meal ideas, specific exercises, yada yada yada... All help is greatly appreciated :D Thanks in advance.
P.S. I'm about 5 feet 11" or so... and about 165 or 170 pound or so. (link)
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k well the best way to put off all that weight is to get a personal trainer or go to the gym by yourself regularaly don't miss a single day unless your sick or something anyways as long as you keep eating healthy it's fine and a little junk food can't hurt but do cut down on the amount of fruits and veggies you have everyday the best way to do it is have 3 meals a day and if you get really hungry between those meals then have a little snack nothing that takes you more than 5 minutes to eat good luck !!!!
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