Hey I'm Anjela I'm from CA livin it up...started the site so I can give some advice to people. I've been to peer counceling classes so I know how to handle the "hard" questions about mostly anything...so ask away.
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I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.
this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?
he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."
what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that! (link)
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It's really self explanatory...whatever happens down the line...happens. It means wait it out don't rush into anything. He obviously doesn't know what to do yet...if you rush into things, your relationship is most likely goin to turn out bad...like you said there will be a decline after a few weeks
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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?
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No, the I Love You is enough I think.
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ok, so yesterady, I got some boxers from Hollister, & they're a little to big (in the waist, & then length) & so, I was wondering how I could wash them & they would shrink some?
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Its not the washing...its the drying...dry in high heat but i dont think thatll do anything to the waist...itll do something to the length though.
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My boyfriend & I have been trying to have a baby for the past 4 months, but I can not get pregnant! We already know his sperm is good because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Could having a disease cause someone not to get pregnant? What kind of disease? How do you know if you are in-fertile? Why would I be in-fertile? WHY CAN'T I GET PREGNANT!?!? :0( (link)
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go to DOCTOR
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I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother= (link)
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If i was this girls brother...1st off the guy wouldnt be alive and 2nd the sister would get some sense talked into her
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Well me and my friend are in this fight because she said her friend linsday called me a bitch and then she said a while telling me the same thing...she was the one who said it and now we are not talking. sure i wanna be friend with her but i cant be friend with her when ugh she lies to me all the time and hated me when we first met. i have know her since last year at she said she wants to talk to me but she wont...so am i supose to talk to her or what should i do? i cry every night! PLEASE HELP ME? tell me what to say to her?!!!!!! PLEASE! i will rate or anything! thanks
*Confused with my best friend* (link)
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dont talk to her...if she wont talk to you then thats her fault...dont cry over her theres nothing to cry about. find a better friend..one that doesnt lie to you or call you a bitch or hates you since the 1st day she met you.
~Anjela
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I'm having my 16th b-day party tomorrow, and I have no idea what to do for games. There'll be about 8 people there. Does anyone have any ideas for games for bored high-school students? Lol, thanks! (link)
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sexs and drugs. haha no im just kiddin...watch a movie or somethin...play music...just kick it...eat hella food...be careful tho...other ppl might hear about it and theres gonna be a lot more ppl then the ones you invited.
~Anjela
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I have this guy friend who i never EVER thought as a boyfriend but i also have a boyfriend that i love very much well today my guy friend wrote me a note and gave it to me between classes it said " Would you go out wit me and if the answer is no keep it between us 2" I don no what to tell him and i need some help NOW!!!!
Yours truly, confused (link)
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well if you have a boyfriend and you never though of this guy as one...then tell him "id prefer if we remain friends...besides i have a bf"
~Anjela
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Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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this isnt something ppl can give you advice on....you have to figure out what your 'preference' is...there's always possibilities you might go both ways?i doubt youll be able to decide soon...its not something to rush.
~anjela
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theres this one guy in my drama class that i used to like but then hes always talking or bothering me after or during class. how do i get him to stop? ignoring him doesn't seem to help... (link)
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he probably likes you..and he probably DOES know that you used to like him...common sense?
~Anjela
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How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice! (link)
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Advice about what? Thats a very general question...figure out who treats you better and end it with the other person.
~Anjela
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My BFF krystal ebel died in a TRAGIC car accident how should i handle it!? (link)
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Thats not something people can tell you...you need to figure out how to handle it..only you know this person and only you know how close you 2 were.
~Anjela
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My teacher likes me and he stinks.I do not think he uses deoderant.so because of this he is always coming near me,like i said i aint pretty being near him.I want him to stop liking me but i do not want to affect my grades of conduct report.what should i do?
-dont like stink dudes-
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That's illegal for him to drop your grade for that reason..
~Anjela
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Ok, my armpits are so sweaty. Like after church, I took off my polo and there was sweat all over it. It's so gross and I'm afraid people will like make fun of me. Especially because I wear tight shirts. Anybody know how to stop this. I'm a female and use anti-persperant deodorant. It keeps the smell gone but not the sweat. The brand is Secret. Help! Thanks and I rate. (link)
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Go to your doc and get perscription deodorant.
~Anjela
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
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"Mom...I got my period"...she'll probably want to take you out for lunch and give you lots of hugs..so be ready
~Anjela
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Im going to Las Vegas in April..has anyone been there and seen some good magic shows or something entertaining for 13/14 yr olds? (link)
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I LOVE LAS VEGAS...all you need to do is walk on the strip at night and youll be entertained. theres a lot of shows goin on outside the hotels and theyre free.
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Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!
-Amanda Marie
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That's obviously not a very good best friend if she's trying to break you guys up...tell her to respect whats yours or else she'll loose a friendship over a guy that you'll still have.
~Anjela
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i have a social (a big dance) coming up at the end of the year. does anyone have any good websites or stores that have nice dresses? (link)
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just go to Macy's
~Anjela
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ok so i'm fighting w/ my bestfriend..and like now the "popular" girls are all sorta taking her side. and they decided to put mean things in their infos about me, and it doesnt say me but i can tell..and their so stuck up and snobby and they think their so much better than everyone else, when their just b*tches that spend their time talking about other people. and they think their so "popular" when more people hate them then actually like them. and i have a group of friends that love me for me and i'm happy with my life. so after hearing all this your probably thinking what's the problem? well even though i know i shouldnt let what they say get to me..it Really Really does..and it just hurts even though i know their not worth my time. :-( any advice? i rate high for effort..thanks.. (link)
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What you have to realize is that you're better than those girls. Can't you see how many flaws youve named that they have? I understand that it's hard to not let it get to you but if you do than you'll be doing exactly what they want. Remember don't sink to their level..you have friends that care about you while they only have friends that probably only use them. Keep your head up and try your hardest not to let it get to you.
~Anjela
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i have this one girl in my class that i hate but she is okay i could live with her i mean shes ok but she not the best she has gotten better so should i wait and see if she comes around and be the best she can be or should i lay off and not be her friend until she comes around i not sure so please help i am thinking of keep likeing her until she comes around but i am nit sure. (link)
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If you have doubts about being her friend especially if you think she's "annoying"..then it's probably best to not be her friend...it's not fair for her to be thinking that you like her if you don't..it depends on why you don't like her also..you need to decide what kind of friends you are..if you hang out or if you're just neutral and say hi to her when you see her. if its neutral than its really not that much of a problem.
~Anjela
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