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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)



♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.

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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.



♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.



♥ [ PERSONAL XANGA SITE. ]


♥ [ XANGA LAYOUT SITE. ]


♥ [ MYSPACE. ]



♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!



♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥



♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥

advice

how do i get glue off skin

shower.

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i tan naked, so can i go tanning if im on my period?

yes, you can still go tanning if you are on your period. but if you are tanning in the pool/lake, whatever it is. then you must wear a tampon.

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do your parents HAVE to stay in the room with you when you get a check-up? it's EXTREMEMLY embarrasing when he docotor looks at me and i dont need it to be even MORE with my parents and sister in there. can anyone tell me anything to help me feel like humiliated??? i'm going today..

♥ They don't have to stay with you.
♥ Tell them that it would be uncomfortable with them in there with you, and they should understand!

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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused


sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =]

♥ WTF? no guy should be acting like that. I think you should talk to him about it. And if he continues to be a dick to you -- freaking break up with him! You do NOT deserve that. That is too wierd. I don't know why he is acting like that? xoxo. Good luck.

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what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink?

♥ just something like jeans and a hoodie, you can bring a scarf if you want, and gloves//mittens because your hands get cold from the ice. i would bring extra just incase, because you can take stuff off, but you won't have other things to put on! have fun. xoxo

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What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start.

♥ well you at least have to try. So you are going to start talking to her some time. just make small talk at first. and if you think you are getting the vibe that maybe she likes you too. well then you can talk about dating. but you just have to take it easy at first, and i know thats probably not what you were looking for since it wasn't very detailed, but thats all i can really think of for right now. so good luck anyways. xoxo.

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I really need to lose weight but I work from 4-9 so when I get home I eat which is bad. I can't eat on my break because it is only 15 minutes long so I can't eat that quick. Should I just skip eating dinner or what?

♥ Do not skip eating dinner. Then you become anorexic. As if people haven't told you about that before. So i'm not gonna go into detail. But what you should do is

♥ eat a small healthy breakfast.
♥ then eat something for lunch that is a little bigger, but still healthy.
♥ pack a little snack, like some grapes, crackers, or something little and healthy like that to eat at work.
♥ then again eat something even bigger for dinner. that is also healthy.

♥ you want to make sure that you are still eating every meal that you are supposed to be eating, just cutting it down, and making it healthier, also, you should try to find some time to work out, or exercise if you can. Good luck. xoxo.

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i have extremely straight hair and always have. it gets annyoing becaus unlike curly hair i cant do anything cute with mine. does anyone have any advice on cute hair styles or ways to scrunch my hair? if it helps i have natural platinum blonde hair. thanks!

♥ well a way to scrunch your hair is, while it is wet, turn your head upside down and use gel and put it everywhere in your hair, then just use your hands to scrunch it everywhere, and then after that, put hairspray in it. That should work pretty good.

♥ some other cute hair styles are..

♥ half ponytail (duh)
♥ braids
♥ pig tails -- if you are that kind of girl
♥ a "poof" on top, some people don't like this. but I am a HUGE fan of it. usually you do it when your hair is up in a pony tail. Take [ if you have bangs ] and if you don't just take a little bit of hair on the top of your hair in the very front. and pull it back, but don't pull it tight, then put bobby pins to hold it there, and there will be a little poof then put the rest of the hair up in the pony tail.

♥ Good luck, be creative, and look in magazines for other hair styles! xoxo.

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I have a boyfriend and he is really nice. He is always very sweet and considerate of me. He has made it clear that he really likes me alot and I like him too.

He sounds really outgoing on the phone, but then at school he is so nervous, he can barely talk to me. My friends and I get the feeling that he thinks I'm really popular and experienced which actually, I'm not. So on instant messenger he kept saying, "Were going to make on on Monday and school" and he always calls me "babe" on the phone or computer. But then at school, he is so nervous around me.

So, is he a jerk, or just one really nervous insecure kid?

♥ awe. he's just shy around you at school. He really likes you. And I think you guys should try hanging out, out of school, and see if he lightens up a little. That's really cute. Stick with him! xoxo.

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Ok, so theres this guy, let's call him Cameron. I've been literally in love with him for over 2 and a half years. He's liked me that long too, but the problem is, one of his best girl friends (who is also my best friend) says that he likes five girls. Two of which are halfway across the country. Then there's me, and two other girls that must go to my school. On a scale of 1-10 he rated me a 9, and a girl in another state a 10. I'm getting really jealous and I'm not sure how to react to all this. He says he really likes me, and he even gave me flowers on Valentine's Day, but I'm just not sure what to do. Should I still keep my hopes up for him, or try to give him up since he likes 5 different girls? Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

♥ I'd say, since some of them are across the country, you don't have to worry about them.

♥ if you have liked him for this long, there is obviously something about him, that is going to be hard to find in a lot of other guys.

♥ I think you should stick with him. Who cares about that other girl, step up your game and go for him.

♥ It sounds like he also likes you a lot, so I think you should be fine!!! Good luck, hope you get him. xoxo

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I'm 14 and I have like dark cirles under my eyes i think from lack of sleep and I know sleep will get ride of them but thats hard to get all the sleep i need so does anyone how else i can hide or get ride of the cirles under my eyes thanks.

♥ if you add a little bit of foundation or concealer, that will help a lot! Make sure it is the same color as your skin though. I suggest Cover Girl. It is some what expensive, but it is a good way to get rid of it! Try WalMart or Target. You can find it pretty much anywhere! Good luck, I hope this helps. xoxo

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What is a 3.7 GPA considered in the US?

Is it an A average or B average?

Thanks.

♥ A average! :)

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Heyy.
There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He isnt in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallways. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

♥ does he have a screen name? because if he has a screen name, and you have one. it is a lot easier to talk to people online, because you aren't in person. then after you guys talk for awhile online, then it won't be so hard to talk in person.

♥ otherwise, some day you are juts gonna have to gather your strength and go talk to him. but if you do it, guys can some times be jerks around their friends, so you want to make sure he is alone!

♥ or you could get his phone number from some one and talk to him on the phone. It might be kind of hard to get his number from some one. But if you really like him, then maybe this is a good idea. Good Luck.

♥ thats the only way you are really gonna get him, you have to go out and try! Don't be shy! Good luck again, xoxo

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The Boy i like likes me and another girl...and he says he likes me more. And the friends he hangs out with are kinda differant and i realli realli realli like him but i dont no how to get him to ask me out...i need help

♥ flirt.
♥ you ask him.
♥ talk to him more.
♥ bring it up in a convo.

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15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?

-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.

♥ let him no how you really feel about him! make it come from your heart!

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Everyone says breasts stop growing at 18. I'm going to be 20 next month and my breasts look the same size as they did when I was 13. Is this it for me? Am I doomed to wear push up bras all my life? :( *cries*

♥ no that is a myth. It is not true at all. Don't worry, they still have time and room to grow.

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well, im talking with this kid and were about to go out. we go to the movies and dinner a lot but where else is there to go besides bowling dinner and movies? thanks!

♥ go to the mall
♥ a basketball/soccer/baseball/etc. game
♥ skating
♥ go to eachothers houses. and friends houses.

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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

♥ Personalize it, that makes it cuter! ♥ and you don't want just blank open space!

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I like my best friend a little, he just got out of a long and serious relationship. Way back last March he said that he liked me, but I don't think he still has those feelings for me...that was a long time ago. Anyway, I have a boyfriend, who I've been dating for over 7 months and I like him alot, but I also like my friend. Should I tell my best friend that I kinda like him or is it just a waste of my time?

♥ I don't think it is a waste of your time. But be careful, because if you tell him people might find out and it might get back to your boyfriend. So, I would go ahead and tell him as long as he promises he won't go tell other people.

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what are the bases like first second third i know home is sex.

♥ So many people say different things.
♥ I'd say...
♥ 1st - Kiss
♥ 2nd - Felt up
♥ 3rd - Oral.
♥ Home - Sex
♥ that's not always true. There are so many different people that say different things.

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