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I am 13/f and my parents won't let me remove the hair on my legs. I do anyway but only with a temporary razor that doesn't belong to me. I know why I can't remove hair from my legs, but I want to anyway. My parents are also overprotective and won't let me go to the store with my friends and know parents. If my friends parents see me buying a hair-removing device they will forbid me and tel my parents. If I buy a hair-removing device and my parents catch me they will kick me out of the house (I should know). How do I get a hair-removing device without my parents knowing? Please don't say buy it from a friend or walk to the store! (link)
dry shaving... duct tape. :P


I went to a dance last night and had a BLAST! My friends went up to the kid (Ive admired from a distance lets say for like 2 years! lol) and they asked him (Logan) if he would dance with me and I guess he said yes (I wasnt there though.) So, the next slow song came on and he asked me to dance. =) Yay! And we both seemed to really like it and I could tell he was nervous which happens when you like someone right? But, then I kept trying to get his attention on the FAST dances. He would be right next to me and not even look over @ me! I mean, all these other guys told me I looked hot nd stuff byt Logan didnt even care! I was so mad. I was dancing with all my friends and we were dancing really dirty ..lol but obviously it didnt get his attention. ANyways, he didnt ask me to dance at all again the whole dance! So I danced with other people but he didnt dance with any other girls so thats a good sign?? At the end of the dance, my friends dad picked me and my friend up because I was sleeping over her house. And, we were stuck in traffic for like 3 seconds, and i saw mike with a few friends and he looked at me and i looked at him from the car and i smiled and he smiled back! We used to flirt all last year, but then he got really popular and wasnt in any of my classes. DO you think he likes me?! i hate boys ..what would you do NEXT if you were me? I dont know what the next step is for logan and me ..or if there is one at all . SOrry its long! (link)
have one of your friends ask or something... but one random question... are you from Milton?


What Should I get My Boyfriend For Valentines Day??....He's 14 and He Has Just About Every Cologne Made!...Because thats what I was going to get him..He is a Skateboarder...umm..thats about it...What Should I Get Him?? (link)
get him a new skate board or new Barings for them. some kind of skate board parts.


(14/f)

i have a friend (thing is, she's a chick) and i am starting to have.. well.. feelings for her?.. as more than just a friend. i guess you can say we're best friends although we're REALLY different.. and idk. she's helped me get through so many things (like anorexia, cutting, suicide attempts, etc) and i really care about her..

basically i just don't wanna scare her off if you know what i'm saying.. i'm sooo sick of guys and how they're so oblivious to emotions and i guess i just wanna experiment with a qirl for once.. and ehh.. i just don't know. i get butterflies in my tummy whenever we talk and its just getting soo akward. what can i do?? and i *DO* rate.

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im 13/f and iv always thought what that would be like too. i want to try, but idk who and make sure the girl is the right person...


my boobs are always dry and itchy and there are black marks on them. why is that? and what should i do?
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if their itchy that means their growing...


I've just started gym class, & she said we're NOT allowed piercings what so ever, even ear. & your not allowed to cover it up or anything. i have 2 of my piercings in my cartilidge, i can take my other ones in my lobe out but not my cartilidge because it'll close and i won't be able to get it back in anyways. I start it tomorrow. and i really duno what to do. I dont want to take them out because I don't want to have to get them repierced. My mom said thats really stupid & she said I won't have to take them out. What should I do? (link)
wear your hair down or wear it in a way that they cant see ur earings...


around the end of summer I started doing my backhandspring on the ground by myself but i was too scared to do it on the gym floor at my school btw i don't take gymnastics my mom says its too much money or something anyways i havent even attempted to do a backhandspring for about 5 months but im really really really scared..does anyone know how to get the fear of tumbling out of my head because almost everyone on my squad has a round-off backhandspring thnx! I rate (link)
Round off back handsprings are so much easier than standing, if you just keep your mind off being scared and more on how you want to have your back handspring may help


Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please! (link)
Jerry Jerry!


What are some good revenge things for evil people? (link)
when they pass in their paper at school put a different name on it or somehting...or if they fall asleep somewhere with their mouth open stick paper in their mouth hahah


this is not good at all. one of my best friends (lets call her Sarah but thats not her real name) i think is a compulsive liar. she lies about everything...or so we suspect. her cousin told me that a disease like that runs in her family. but she lies about everything. here are some of the things:
-she told me she got raped and went to court for it. one time she told me she went to court at 8:00p.m but court isnt open that late
-she told me she has a boyfriend but nobodys ever talked to him except on AIM (and she has 2 computers so it might just be her) and yeah, she gave us a picture of him but its weird because i found the exact smae picture on BuddyPic and the names didnt match up
-when i talk to her on AIM she always says i feel so sick im gonna go make myself throw up im anorexic
-she told me she had a signature of somebody famous that i really like and she said i could have it. then next day she came in with it and it looked NOTHING like the real signature and it looked like her handwriting

there are more things but im just too stressed out. i DO NOT want to talk to her about it because one of my other friends confronted her about the lying and she almost commited suicide. she's really scaring me. she lied about getting RAPED...or so we THINK cause its not 100% sure. i tried to talk to my best friend about all this cause he knows whats going on with Sarah, but he told me that he belives her about all this because nobody else will. its freaking me out...a lot. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her. but i cant believe anything she says! and im afraid that if one day something bad really does happen, im not gonna beleive her. what should i do? PLEASE HELP! i have more info if you need it...just ask for my email. (link)
she may be a pathelogical liar. which means that she lies to the extent that it could be considered a disease. You cant help how she lies, only she can help herself to stop. Most likely if you ask her if shes lying she'll lie about it, so just tell her maybe about a friend that lies a lot and she'll get the clues...


Tonight I have to babysit for two twin girls who are 5. I cant keep them busy and in my control. Can anybody give me some pointers?
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bribe them...


I have a girlfriend.I also have an ex.I went to the movies with ex.I still have fellings for my ex.Well any ways I went to the movies with my ex
and two of her friends.I thuogh we was not going to any thing because i have a girlfriend.So i did not do any thing with her for the first 30 mins of the movie.For some reason we started holding hands then 45 mins into the movie we stated to make out and now i have mixed emotions
I want to be with my girlfriend.I love my girlfriend.I also love my ex.now i dont no weather to break up with my girlfriend to go out with my ex or stay with my girlfriend.Please help me (link)
you may only like her because you like what "she does"


I have lots of pimples and well does anyone know any good good creams or anything like that. cuz i tried some and it didnt work I thougt maybe im eating to much chocolate and im not so please help I'm really pretty but with these pimples i feel so ugly inside. HELP i rate high (link)
try using Proactive or even Clearasil...they both work. My brother has pimples too hes been using Proactive and sometimes Clearasil and his face is really clearing up!


I have this friend who is incredibly paranoid, particularly about me likeing his girlfriend or his girlfriend liking me. I;ve assured him this is not the case, and so has his girlfriend, and it causes him deep psychological trauma to see us in the same room even talking now. And I was talking to his girlfriend, and he walks into the room, and I make a joke about only wanting a pen, and he takes it as an insult, and now won't talk to me. He refuses to be my friend anymore, and threatened my teeth!...I have no idea what to do....please help me!!
thnx... (link)
If he lets girls come between your friendship then hes got a problem...


Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =] (link)
You shouldnt have to do anything you dont want to do...especially if it has to do with sex or smoke weed. My friend is 13 that has a bf thats 15 and if she didnt want to do something...he wouldnt make her. that should apply to you and your bf too...maybe he


now im not blowin my own trumpet or anything, but im a pretty good singer. recently i entered this singing competition, but im getting really neervous about the first heat. i hardly ever sing in front of people (except at my singing lessons) and im getting really nervous - its on the 24th of jan and i dont even know what song im going to sing! can anybody help with calming down about this, coz im really scared im going to do REALLY badly on the day! (link)
Pretend you're in a room with your singing teacher and do what you usually do with them...


i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ? (link)
It doesnt take long to get addicted to anything. Next time you feel this crave for one try eating one of your favorite candy bars or something to get your mind off of cigarettes and on to those GREAT candy bars you used to crave...



alright i have this guy friend and we used to hang out and stuff and be really close but like he always gets mad and then calls me prude and stuff like that..and here;s an example of when he gets mad..i'll meet a guy at a bball tourney and my friend will start saying stuff like wow..that kid gay even though he doesn't know him..i forgave him last time we got in a fight but i don't know if i should this time..he;s really saying mean things..so should i forgive him? (link)
i think that he may like you...more than a friend. he's probably getting jealous of the other guys you hang out with and wishes that you would like him more than a friend too. talk to him about it, ask him why he does that. Don't bring up jealousy he may get a little mad. After you really talk to him, you'll know if you should forgive him or not


i am going to be 14 soon nd i took a cpr class and i like children but i have never babysat before and i really want to but everyone always asks my older sister first and i would put up flyers but thats dangerous, what should i do? (link)
baby sitting is fun! ask your sister if you could come with her when she babysits to get the hang of it, then go around your neighborhood introducing yourself to people and handing them the flyers yourself. It's safer.


im not sure if this would be considered friendship but my friends friend has this boyfriend Nathaniel who abuses girls. He gets so mad easily and well my friends friend is doing bad things like she is doing bad in school, and she does stuff with nathaniel like lets him feel her and finger her which is disgusting. She hasnt gotten to sex but shes gotten to her clothes like halfway off and she also smokes pot. The only problem is my friends friend isnt my friend but why wont my friend do anything about it??? (link)
if she doesn't do anything about, tell a parent or a guidence counceler who can do something about it. My sister's friend was on Heroin and she told her friend's father, but he was the same way and didnt do anything about it. She ended up dying because of it. Make sure you talk to the right person




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