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arousal in females
does a woman vagina get wet when flirting
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If you are turned on, you might get wet while flirting. If you are flirting just because you like attention, you might not.
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Before I answer that question, I'd like to provide a little background so you will understand my answers better.
Male and female fetuses look pretty similar throughout most of the first trimester. The genitalia are just starting to develop from their root, the "genital tubercle," which slowly develops into either a penis or clitoris. This genital tubercle is same size in boys and girls until around 14 weeks gestation, when the penis begins to elongate. Then come other changes such as the urethra going through the penis in males and traveling between the clit and vagina in females where all that is visible, or sometimes not even seen, is the pee hole in females. When examined closely, the clit in women will still look like a head of a miniature penis that is buried inside her body.
Now some comparisons as I explain. When a male is aroused, he may find a bead of moisture on the tip of his penis. This is the pre cum, and it's purpose is lubricating the penis in the case that there will be 'penis in vagina' sex. Likewise, females will find their vagina gets wet too is aroused, for the same purpose, a thicker fluid that doesn't run out of them but serves the purpose to lubricate the vagdina for sex.
Does everyone woman have this happen every time she is aroused? No. Women generally need much more time, attention and the right circumstances to get 'wet'. I am a female and can say that even when young, there were times I could acknowledge a cute guy, and feel the flip flops of my heart and a tummy doing somersaults but not getting wet automatically. Yes, there are always a few who may get wet if the chemistry is right and she is flirting back and forth with a guy. Guys get wet and are ready for sex or in anticipation of sex or when flirting, or at night while dreaming. They get wet much quicker than females. Before the male starts feeling superior though for that fact, listen to this. A female is more like a clothing iron, she takes a longer time to get hot, but once she is hot, she can go for a long long time and have a string of not just one or two or three orgasms but many more right after the other, if the male is working on her. I am going to explain another kind of wetness in females now.
Orgasm in females doesn't happen with many at all even though their bodies are capable. It is mainly lack of knowledge and not enough research on female genitalia to provide the public with. A male can get hard and wet just by looking at a female, dreaming of her or just being near her as a friend. Males may ejaculate while wearing their clothes, but more likely the sight of a nude female they are attracted to is one reason and the other is having sex with a female. So a male basically only needs a mind focused on the subject to ejaculate. A female can ejaculate too with orgasms but it is rare due to not enough knowledge on the subject. In fact, a high percentage of females never have an orgasm in their entire life. Part of this is due to males assuming that the friction of a penis is enough to produce the orgasm in a female. That is not so. Just as the stroking of the head of a males penis may produce orgasm, in females, there is a higher density of nerve endings in a female in a smaller region, her clit which is much like a glans of penis. So by stimulation of it, she can achieve strong orgasms and these can be long and multiple as well. The other orgasm for a female is manipulation of her G spot. The G spot is about two inches or less inside the vagina on the upper part just beyond the pubic bone. It feels wrinkled like a prune. It has the ability to swell like the males penis so it too fills with blood which makes it no longer wrinkled as it has expanded. It takes a special touch that the friction of penis in vagina sex for the most part does not cause. I mentioned earlier that her urethra is between her clit and vagina. This means the G spot is right in front of the urethra. If she or a male is rubbing, tapping or whatever stroke works best for her and keeps it up, the spot swells and any touches start to feel like she has to pee because it is of course also hitting the urethra through the G spot.
At this point, most females feeling the strong urge to pee due to this rubbing against their urethra, will stop and say they need to pee. The thing is, even if she empties her bladder right before sex, she will still feel this urge, with an empty bladder. Why? The reason she feels this is because she is about to have a G spot orgasm. She holds back and so never has the orgasm. If she would only empty her bladder first for peace of mind and when she feels the urge, just let go, she'd have an orgasm where it isn't just the orgasm but she actually ejaculates much like a male does in orgasms. The fluid comes from somewhere inside the vagina and scientists have not yet discovered for sure exactly where.. The only difference between females who do get G spot orgasms and gush versus those that don't, is a tiny connecting tube that some have and some don't. They still ejaculate but it drains into their bladder rather than coming flooding out of their vagina. Scientists checking the contents of bladder before and after G spot orgasm, found something besides just urine in the contents of the bladder. Once a female who knows who to gush is stimulated just right, she can have multiple orgasms strung together this way as well as with clit stimulation. A female can even get wet if she lacks the connecting tube and does gush, simply by the male patting his open hand very fast against her outer lips and may be lucky to see her spray, much like a make can shoot his ejaculation. This is more than you actually asked for. However there used to be such a thing as a sex ed. chapter to health class and we learned some of this stuff. The rest I learned from research on my own. Today, most schools no longer teach sex ed so younger people are ignorant of most of everything that entails sex, the genitalia, pregnancy, etc. It isn't ones fault if they don't know but it will be if people do not take the time to research and learn on their own so they can enjoy a better sex life, safely too. I have given you what you do need to know. For more info, turn to the web and read or watch videos with charts explaining. Oregon state University once put out several videos of an acutual sex ed. class for those wishing to be medical students and recording it all with charts to show. If you wish to watch them, look for them on the web. I lost the link to them but might be able to find it again if you wish. Just let me know by writing to me from my column Dragonflymagic and I will do my best to find it for you.
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