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Sex! We are ready but where do we have sex?
Hi so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now and we have talked about having sex and we wanted to earlier but neither of us were really ready. Now I feel like we’re both ready but big delima is that neither of our parents are ready, we’re both Juniors in Highschool, and very much so mature but our parents Just aren’t ready. My parents are always around so we couldn’t do it at my house, and we could do it at his house but his mom checks in all the time so we could be in the middle of having sex and she comes in and that really kills the mood. We’re both very very very horny and everytime we kiss it’s like a sexual charge and i just don’t know what to do
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First, please, make sure you're both ready and use birth control.
As the saying goes, where there's a will there's a way!
Do you have access to the old favorite... the car? There is a reason why it's so popular.
A hotel room, even for a few hours or a safe friends house?
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I definitely agree with Adviceman that there are other ways to be healthy or explore sexuality that don’t need to be intercourse. That said, both sets of parents here aren’t dumb and may already suspect this is happening. A lot of parents while not in support of activity may be relieved in a sense that if it’s going on it’s under their roof and you are protecting yourselves. Perhaps getting on birth control that they know about is showing responsibility. Unless you have privacy of a locked door or assurance of not barging in than perhaps this is something to leave to future while still exploring sexuality without intercourse. Perhaps they can assure you of privacy in their homes iif knowing you are sexually active and being as cautious and safe as possible. I stress not to rush anything.
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Being Juniors in high school tells me that while you body is ready for sex you are still to young to be having actual intercourse. I suggest heavy petting with mutual masturbation with your clothes on. He hingers you and you give him a handjob. Once you both turn 18 you are legally entitled to a sex lif as you will both be adults in the eyes of the law and your parent have little to no say over what you do.
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