Member Since: February 13, 2019 Answers: 2 Last Update: March 18, 2019 Visitors: 445
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I'm so worried about dating. I'm 18 and in university and I haven't dated anyone or even kissed a guy. I do want to eventually settle down and I have had crushed on guys but it's just so hard for me to talk to them and I feel that sometimes it's just not worth the effort. Then there is a the whole virginity thing, in my culture it's expected that I will only lose my virginity after marriage and I want it to be that way, but it seems so unlikely that someone will want to wait that long! I don't know how to find out if they would or not! Even guys from my culture aren't interested as far as I know! I'm not really sure what kind of advice I want but anything would be helpful I guess! Have you experienced anything similar? (link)
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Virginity is a great, but often unrealistic expectations in thus culture and modern times.
Make sure you are honest with your love interest and ask his respect and understanding.
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Hi so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now and we have talked about having sex and we wanted to earlier but neither of us were really ready. Now I feel like we’re both ready but big delima is that neither of our parents are ready, we’re both Juniors in Highschool, and very much so mature but our parents Just aren’t ready. My parents are always around so we couldn’t do it at my house, and we could do it at his house but his mom checks in all the time so we could be in the middle of having sex and she comes in and that really kills the mood. We’re both very very very horny and everytime we kiss it’s like a sexual charge and i just don’t know what to do (link)
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First, please, make sure you're both ready and use birth control.
As the saying goes, where there's a will there's a way!
Do you have access to the old favorite... the car? There is a reason why it's so popular.
A hotel room, even for a few hours or a safe friends house?
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