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I'll try to make this as brief as possible, but I just hate school. I didn't always hate it, even when it was bad. I went to a christian school with extremely poor academics but a wonderful community for six years, then spent highschool in a competitive arts school. While I always had some kind of underlying depression and anxiety issues, highschool brought it out in full force. It was a terrible experience and I've told everyone who will listen that I will not re-live it.
I was pretty set on my decision not to go back to college because of this. I have never had a long term goal in life, the closest to one I had was to graduate high school, which I barely made. But with a dog and a girlfriend who I aim to do the best for, I realized I have to further my education in some way to get paid enough to thrive.
The issue still remains- I hate school. I hate it so much I feel sick and the thought of going back gives me such a fight or flight reflex that I feel like I should be medicated for it. The thought of putting a pencil to paper in a classroom while a teacher (or now professor) lectures about something, interacting with other students, taking tests- it all makes me want to flip. I despise every aspect of it, but I know I need to get over this to make money.
How do I get past this? Is it even possible to make money without going to college or trade school? I used to not care about being poor, but I don't want that for those who'll be living with me. I just... really hate formal education.
I hated the school too
" The thought of putting a pencil to paper in a classroom while a teacher (or now professor) lectures about something, interacting with other students, taking tests " this is exactly the feeling i have about school
but their is important question, what are the options to have great life with amount of money that will let you have decent life?
i asked my self this when i wanted to quit studying
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"""""Is it even possible to make money without going to college or trade school? """""
if you have amount of money to make your own small business """that you have passion about"""", you can quit studying, and start with your own job and upgrade your self by time and get the money you want, but if you dont have that option, then you need to prepare your self, to get the job you love and make money from it
their important point
1. you should study something you will have passion about, because when you will get that ultra bored feeling about studying, the reasons will help you continue, you are studying what you love, you can ask your self " seriously is it really important that i should go every day to school to have good life " yes it is, the degree you will in that major """ you care about and you love """" will let you enter the company works in that major, and get the successful life
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every hate feeling in your life about something, their is reason, try to find the reason in you and solve it, and if the reason is only this " The thought of putting a pencil to paper in a classroom while a teacher", then you must think about the future because its not joke, nobody will be beside u when u will not have qualifications to get job and make money
think how much important to continue, and if your not studying what you love, then quit it now, and go study what you care about
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""""I used to not care about being poor, but I don't want that for those who'll be living with me""""
and if you are not interested in anything, and you dont care about any major, then you must make your self interested in something and work on it, and upgrade your skills in that major for the one you love and care about, so you can have a decent life with them
"The great key of continues is passion"
Find it
I’m 16 and my dad has always been my idol. My mom went on vacation for a month with my sister (12 years) and my dad misses them but he doesn’t want them to come back. He asked my mom to come a week early but my mom said I because my grandma recently died. My dad decided to extend her ticket to two extra months. He said that since she loves her family so much she doesn’t love me anymore ( which I don’t believe) and that’s why she is staying extra long. I told him that my sister will be missing a ton of school but he’s not listening. When I confronted him he said he’s just joking but when I told my mom to screenshot what he said, he said that she can go find another man to live with and love because I can’t live with you anymore. I don’t know what to do
every family have its problem, especially when its after 16 year of married
one of the keys to continue with successful married are the kids.
the first point is your parents love you and your sister so much, and they will do anything you make you both happy
i think you cant imagine your your life without your father or your mother beside you
u should talk to both of them, and tell them that maybe they have problems " and it happens in most of the houses " they must solve this problems, " why they must " for their kids, for you and your sister, they must stay beside you
so the end of the path will not be the divorce
The most important thing that u must talk, you must tell them how important to you that they stay together
i cant say if its right or wrong that your dad extended the ticket, and what is the purpose of your mother vacation, because their is so much missing details, but the one can force them to calm their self and solve their problems are you and your sister
they should feel that they are forced to fix this for you
and even if you think some one is right and someone is wrong, dont take a side, talk with both of them, and tell them what you really feel
" i dont know what is happening in your home ", and how the relation between them, are they fighting all the time or what
but what i understand that you know their is problem, and you wanna solve
tell them that you need them together, you need their support together, every family face its own problem, maybe the problem is complicated and huge, but their is always solution
and the first step to solve their problem
is to know how much you care about them being to together