I was in the poultry department today and the nice looking guy behind the counter asked me what was I cooking, I said fried fish, spaghetti, mac n cheese and peach cobbler and he said oh that sounds good, and he said ill bring the wine...I just lol....was he making a move and my silly but was too silly to see that....
Ambivalence answered Sunday April 14 2019, 9:37 pm: You can’t just assume someone is making a move on you just because they’re nice. I don’t think being a decent human being is always a way of flirting. [ Ambivalence's advice column | Ask Ambivalence A Question ]
minusthree answered Sunday April 14 2019, 11:31 am: It seems to me that this guy was very charming and that he was just being friendly to his customers. While it's hard to say if this one encounter was something more, if you fancy him try going to the poultry department again and see if he strikes a conversation with you again. Only time will tell and I hope everything works out for you in your favour! [ minusthree's advice column | Ask minusthree A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday April 10 2019, 10:39 pm: I do this kind of joking with people, men and women and I don't think anyone has ever taken me seriously. Of course I am older, like 60. I can't say whether he was flirting. Usually, if a person really wants you to know they are interested in you, the one incident you think may be flirt, is not if it is the only time it has occured. If when you see him again behind the counter he says other things that sound flirty, then he may be interested. In that case you could ask, I do know whether you are joking or serious, which is it? That puts him on the spot to give you an answer. If he says, I was kidding but now that you ask, I guess I am kinda serious, then you quickly trade numbers and call him later. He's at work and can't begin any length of convo right then [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
Vegalicious21 answered Monday April 8 2019, 10:22 am: It sounds like he was probably flirting in a joking manner.
It's hard to realize sometimes when people are flirting and you don't see it until it is too late.
Best of luck. [ Vegalicious21's advice column | Ask Vegalicious21 A Question ]
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