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Do I really like her?
I'm a freshman in high school, a girl. I've been friends with this girl for a little under a year now, and we're good buds. We've hung outside of school a couple of times, it's always been fun. Recently, I've been feeling very fond of her, and want to be around her more often for some reason. I've never had a bf/gf before, let alone a big crush. Do I like her romantically or do I just want to be closer friends with her?? I have no idea. Any advice from your experience?
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thats alot to take in....i commend you for having the courage to write for advice on this.
You and tis person have been close for a while right so right now if you are thinking about that person twenty four seven, you get sad if that person leaves you or your you even dream about them at night, that means you probably love that person. A crush is kinda the same thing honestly there isnt really a big difference in the two.
Now knowing all that and seeing that you have never been in love before. There are big risks here of getting your heart broken. if you love that person and you decide to tell them that you have feelings for them. Be prepared to be rejected because they may not like you the same way you like them ok. Be okay with knowing that its alright
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I remember having what you could describe love feelings when I was in HS. I am female and the two people were female. One was my best friend and hold your breath, the next may sound shocking, the other was the school nurse (old enough to almost be my grandma) whom I was assigned to help during an open class period one semester.
The love I felt was a strong feeling. However, before I go further, I must explain that there are many kinds of love. I will list a link that goes into detail on each of the 7 types.
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Eros is the sexual love. However we can sometimes feel that pang in the heart or the heart seems to jump, when around the person. It is usually not something I have felt dramatically in the heart as often as I feel love for my husband. No, I would have to say over the course of a handful of years, I probably felt that brief pang in the heart over whatever was going on at the time that made me feel this friendship love in a very deep way. I felt it twice with the school nurse. How do I know it was not a sexual love? Because I did not have any sexual desires for them or for any females. I just am not made that way. But those brief moments in between caring about them as special people in my life, I felt these stronger pangs of emotion. It is perfectly normal and means you have a heart capable of loving deeply, anyone, not just a romantic partner where you also feel sexual attraction. The only difference between a friend and a romantic partner is the sexual attraction and romance and sex. Otherwise, both have one thing in common, being best of friends.
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