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Doesn't love me back
So I'm going to sound completely crazy, but stay with me. I hypothetically have a crush who didn't like me back. The chemical formula for love is as follows: dopamine, seratonin, and oxytocin. This could be created in a lab, though an overdose in the substance would result in insanity. So if I got a hold of these substances all together, and caused someone to drink it in the correct amount so they don't lose their head, could I potentially create the same effect as a love potion? If so, how may I go about doing this? I've thought about putting it in their drink or on their food perhaps, though it would look really creepy if I was caught pouring random substances onto someones things. Any responses?
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If you put anything into someones food or drink that they did not ask for, then if there were some adverse reaction like lets say they are allergic to a substance, that could be asking for a jail sentence. Think of rape drug. I know you're not talking about rape but same thing, putting something into someones drink to 'get your way'.
The sad thing is, if there is no chemistry between people, it can not be manufactured. This chemistry I speak of, to me is having pheromones that are much alike. If only a little the same or not the same at all, there most likely will be no connection or attraction to each other.
The attraction has to be for real and that means attracted to the person in more than just sexual ways. Although I have heard of being able to buy pheromones that might put a person in the mood for sex, that is just for sex. I know someone who used it and it did not work beyond that. The other person wanted sex but they had nothing else in common and the relationship never took off, all it was is a one time encounter.
I recommend you look for someone you have a chemistry with. A crush is only a one way feeling with the other person not aware of or aware and not interested. The strongest and most rewarding relationships have two bases as the foundation, one being each others best friend. Now not all best friends or opposite or same sex may have that pheremone connection between them so there may be no spark for the other part of that foundation of being each others sexual equals. For that there needs to be that physical attraction, that sizzle and spark between two people and also having same libido, either both high or both low and having interest in same things sexually or both being adventurous to try new things. There's a lot that can go into this to be right for each other. If both areas are not there then the relationship will either not happen, or be a very poor, unhappy one and may not last. The sad part is that a good majority of people are married to someone who is only one or the other, a best friend not poor or no sex so there is cheating, or the best sex but there is no friendship and they fight like cats and dogs. I know so many people in one or the other situation. My first husband was neither best friend or sexual match. My second husband is both.
I have also dated guys who were only a slight chemistry, very nice people, but the interest on both parts didn't last long, usually a couple dates or a month at most.
Do not carry thru on this. Sure it would look creepy but far worse is what others would have to say, that it is morally wrong and legally wrong. To stay out of trouble, drop this idea.
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It would be really creepy alright. Not to mention that it could land you in jail. I don't advise you doing this with any substance.
I would imagine if there were a formula that could be made for love it would have been made by now. The REAL basic ingredients for love are as follows. You have to be friends. You have to have common interests. You have to have a common vision for the future. You have to communicate well with each other. You must really, really like each other.
Work on those things with your crush & love may find you.
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