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How do i get my phone back?
So usually I am a student who gets As and high Bs but for some reason this year has been a struggle. My parents took my phone October 3rd for grades and weren't gonna give it back until I had all As and Bs again. My mom changed her mind and was gonna give it back 3 weeks ago but she went through it and searched my eyes only and saw my nudes (that were just for me. like to boost my confidence) and videos of me vaping. So I was on it when I wasnt supposed to be and I was doing things I shouldnt have. She originally told me I could have it back January 4th (when I go back to school after break) but now shes saying im not allowed to until half way through the second semester (start of march). Yesterday she asked for m apple ID and password and IDK why. Im pretty scared. Is there a way i can convince her to give it back earlier? Is there a way to ask why she needed my apple ID without sounding worried? Bc she'll probably say none of my business but im worried she putting a parent lock on my phone or deleting snapchat and changing my password and blocking it from apple.
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Take full responsibility for what you have done and show through actions not words that you deserve the phone and will behave correctly. As far as nudes or other videos go it's illegal to create, distribute electronically or possess that. If someone hacked you it could mess up your future. It is a serious thing and no wonder mom upset.
The other thing you need is a decent tutor to help bring your grades up and to apply yourself more to your studies. You cannot convince anyone to do anything but you can influence or state case but changing the behavior that has put you in this spot. You have to acknowledge immaturity and stupid choices with the phone and prove you can handle having the device again by following parent's instruction. Give the Apple ID info over and let them see what you were hiding and work to regain trust and correct what you have done. True remorse is key.
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