Question Posted Saturday November 18 2017, 4:30 am
I caught her putting Neosporin on her vagina a few
Times she doesn't know I know.we haven't had sex for weeks is she cheating
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? adviceman49 answered Sunday November 19 2017, 10:21 am: I agree with Dragonflymagic. Question has she recently lost her virginity? Neosporin is an antiseptic ointment and she may be using it to treat the tear in her vagina from losing her virginity. If so is she doing so under doctors orders? If not she should really se a doctor as Neosporin may not be the right treatment. It is also possible that while fingering her your nail scratched her and she is using the ointment for treatment.
There are a number of other possibilities as to why she is using the ointment most of which would be the wrong reason and cheating on you and getting an STD would be very low on the list.
Suggestion since you know she is using the ointment she is not trying to hide anything from you. Talk to her ask her why she is using the ointment and if it is with a doctors order. If not take her to the doctor. If she is over 14 she does not need parental permission to see a doctor for anything dealing with her or your for that matter reproductive systems.
A Federal Law allows for total confidentiality for anyone over 14 to make and see a doctor for anything dealing with their reproductive system. Parents can never know why they have seen a doctor. When making the appointment just say this is under the HIPPA provision.
Dragonflymagic answered Saturday November 18 2017, 5:44 pm: If you were putting any ointment on your penis, would that mean you were cheating? I think you are jumping to conclusions. Whats really bad is that the two of you can not talk to each other about this. The only cheating going on here is the gynecologist being cheated out of money for a Dr. appt. If she has seen the Dr. and he prescribed it for whatever ails her, then that's good. If however she is just guessing and self treating, that's not a good idea. Oh and by the way, some things like Herpes should not instantly make you believe she is cheating either. Both you and her can be carriers of the virus without ever having had a breakout for most ones life. So stop jumping to conclusions and have a talk and find out what is wrong. Then encourage her to get proper treatment is she hasn't yet. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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