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hate my life


Question Posted Wednesday July 26 2017, 7:46 pm

I hate my life, i hate who I have become. I don't want to life. How can i change, i want to kill myself.

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday July 30 2017, 4:28 pm:
As Rosexx said, it would be helpful to know exactly what it is that you hate about yourself. Once we know that, it may be easier to give advice. Hating ones life is another story but related too.

It helps to know your age on that issue, and what you hate about your life. If its just who you are, your character, personality, self image, self confidence, phobias, depression or having been mentally or physically abused growing up or currently, etc....there are solutions to all of that. Often it may not be something you have decided, chosen or done but what has been done for you. There are usually ways to get help there too but its knowing who, where and how.
I can make an attempt at telling you if there is change you can feasibly do to change but I'd need more info please.

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AskRosexx answered Thursday July 27 2017, 12:44 pm:
There is a point in everyone's life I feel, where they sit down and analyze who they have become and where they are in their life. it is easy to not be happy about how your life is at this very moment. especially if you are to compare it to others. you need to ask yourself why do you hate your life. what is going on that makes you unhappy. The first step is to pinpoint that so you can do something about it.

I am not sure why you are so unhappy, but if it is self image, you need to realize that you are perfect the way you are. There is so much crap in the media trying to convince people that there is only one way to be attractive. That is not true. You have to embrace who you are and be confident in yourself. You have to remember that anyone that says negative things about you, says more about them than you. Only unhappy people feel the need to talk about others.

If you are unhappy because of some things you have done in the past, you have to forgive yourself and move on. Everyone is ashamed or regrets something they have done. Its ok to mess up in life once in a while. The trick is to learn from it, forgive yourself, and move on. You will never find happiness if you stay stuck in the past instead of focusing on making the future better. You are in control of your life. Please embrace that precious gift, strive to become the person you would be proud to know, and take advantage of this amazing opportunity to follow your dreams. -In my prayers, Rose xx

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